what is the most important quality that any wife should possess?
By painkiller77
@painkiller77 (2073)
India
June 22, 2008 8:05pm CST
married men are a different lot. they have a life partner with them to lead their life. people sometimes jokingly say that wife is " worries invited for ever."but it is just for jokes. what do you consider the mandatory quality that a wife should have? is it trust or lenient attitude or love or care?
14 responses
@rinkub (231)
• India
23 Jun 08
I think a wife, above all, should be understanding and there for her husband through thick and thin. She should be someone with whom he feels comfortable, who shares his life's mission, if not share then at least supports him in it. A man, after a hard day's work should look forward to meeting his wife, because he feels at ease and relaxed in her company. Someone he can share himself with, someone with whom he can be himself. Someone whom he looks forward to meeting because he knows that he can throw his worries away in the comfort of her arms. A wife is someone who should be there for her husband always. And, of course vice versa!
@painkiller77 (2073)
• India
24 Jun 08
you seem to very understanding in nature. you can feel what a couple feels. i think as if you are in their shoes. are you married? anyways, thank you for the response. i have tagged you as positive. enjoy.
@anndocs (249)
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24 Jun 08
Hi Painkiller, your questions just reminds me of last Mother's day celebration presentation in our church, the preaching focus on Proverbs 31 " A wife of noble character", to sum up it defines and describe almost 'perfect Wife', it honestly made me cry because I never went half of her if I will compare.
But every wife has unique quality, she should be proud of.
For me, one of most important characteristic wife must have is a Fear of the Lord, goodness in heart, faithfulness not only to her husband but in every thing she does. And ofcourse the "love"
@painkiller77 (2073)
• India
26 Jun 08
yes, noble character does tell a lot in a single phrase. thank you for the exquisite response. i have tagged you as positive. enjoy and happy my lotting.
@rama108 (123)
• India
24 Jun 08
love that brings both wife and husband together. Marriage is mutual helping each other. Husband is the best friend of a wife. Same like wife is care taker of Husband. In india it is believed couples would be together for seven seven births. So it is not just for this one birth. It is the relation ship for eternity.
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@painkiller77 (2073)
• India
24 Jun 08
yes, very correct. seven births is their relationship. it denotes how strong it is. i have tagged you as positive. thank you for the response.
@luisabete (101)
• United States
25 Jun 08
I would say being submissive but in a way he wouldnt disrespect and abuse it. Being a filipina, thats the most important advice my Mom gaved to me before I got married and It absolutely works and still working,.
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
23 Jun 08
I think that the wife should be in submittance with her husbands wishes as long as the do not break any of God's law. I know that some of you women out there may find this a bit in the olden days and we don't want our men to know this because if they did they might take it the wrong way. But if you get a good man that loves his wife then he will not abuse this privelege. Men also need respect and when you give respect they will give you the emotional comfort that you deserve.
@LovesTravel (303)
• United States
23 Jun 08
Women in no way should live in submission to men--or vice versa. Such a relationship is not marriage, it's bondage. A husband and wife should live in partnership, each respecting the other. A woman who lives in a state of submission is not married. She is abused.
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@tandyth2008 (52)
• China
23 Jun 08
women should be independent.
that makes the wife and husband respect each other, and makes the wife more attractive, because she's free to be herself.
@painkiller77 (2073)
• India
24 Jun 08
very true. each one should grant the other ample space to move about. thank you for the response.
@koharukusumi (1539)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 08
Dear painkiller77,
I think that the most important quality that any wife should possess is understanding her husband's interest and she needs to have a lot of patience with her husband. But this can only work if the husband returns the favour as well. It wouldn't be fair if the wife is understanding but his husband is not. In the end, marriage is a 2-way thing.
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@painkiller77 (2073)
• India
24 Jun 08
well said.very much true.thank you for the response. i have tagged you as positive.
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@tandyth2008 (52)
• China
23 Jun 08
trust, love.
trust is the foundation for two people to tive together.
love make the life more wonderful!
@painkiller77 (2073)
• India
24 Jun 08
yes, mutual understanding ought to be there.thank you for the response.
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Jun 08
I think love should be a gibben. But, the one thing a wife needs to have is the ability to see things from both sides. You and her.
@painkiller77 (2073)
• India
24 Jun 08
yes, commitment is definitely the main quality. it helps you sail through the bad times.
@LovesTravel (303)
• United States
23 Jun 08
I regard friendship as the most important quality in marriage. Husband and wife need to respect one another, love one another, protect one another, tell each other the truth, and provide support for one another. A little passion is also nice.
@painkiller77 (2073)
• India
24 Jun 08
of course,friendship adds a whole new dimension. you can both know each other a lot better.thank you for the exquisite response.
@angel1001 (113)
• China
23 Jun 08
A wife is one of wowen,she should have qualities what wowen have,trust,lenient,attitude and care are qulities a lady should have,they are all important,but I think a good wife should know what is a good life and how to make a good life!
@honey15rose (85)
• Japan
23 Jun 08
in marriage, it's a give and take relationship. for me, both should have trust, respect, honesty and love for each other. that for me is all important qualities that any wife and husband should possess.