Have you ever met this situation?How do you deal with?

@jiangsl (377)
China
June 16, 2008 4:31am CST
I have a good friend,she works and never went to university.But she never give up one dream that she will go to university one day.Now she intends to go to university However,she is near thirty and has no boyfriend.Her parents also worry her marriage.What should she do?Give up ?
3 responses
lazeebee
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
I suppose it doesn't matter to her about a boyfriend; looks like going to the university is more important to her. SO she should fulfill dream and go to university. There are lots of opportunities to meet people there.
jiangsl
@jiangsl (377)
• China
16 Jun 08
yeah,you are completely right.Thanks for your response,I can't imagine the result if someone can't realize her desire dream.It must be painful for me,I know.I will live a unhappy life all the time.So I hope she can summon up courage do that.
checapricorn
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
16 Jun 08
A lot of people who are in their 30's or higher are going to College or University, If she wants it, why give up? The age and her status will not be valid to be an excuse to fulfill or achieve her dreams.. Who knows she will meet her partner there or after finishing the course, and getting a good job, she will be meeting her lover!
jiangsl
@jiangsl (377)
• China
16 Jun 08
Hi checapricorn,thanks for your understanding.I am glad to hear that for my friend.Indeed,one person need to be encouraged when she/he is shaking.So I hope all my friends (include mylot friends)can get help in the right time.
tandyth2008
@tandyth2008 (52)
• China
16 Jun 08
go to university is her dream, that means if she doesn't do it, she will regret all across her life. i think she can enter the university and find a boyfriend. and if possible, get married during her college life.
jiangsl
@jiangsl (377)
• China
16 Jun 08
wow,great idea.Thanks for your response.Yeah,she will regret all across her life if she doesn't do it.I hope her parents can understand her,good luck to her.