Have you ever cried because of your best friend?
By jersey86
@jersey86 (1348)
Philippines
June 16, 2008 5:45pm CST
i remembered in my high school years, i have a friend name eduardo he became my best friend when he introduced to my other friend and i like eduardo a lot because he is so kind and very helpful when the year about to end for the school year than we've been classmates been found also a friend and the 3(three) of us became friends and my other friend got jealous with me because there was a day that we've plan to watch a movie. the 3 of us. but our other friend still have a class and me and eduardo ask to him that we've been better to change the dollar amount to into currency. so we me and eduardo walk without this friend of ours.
But when we got back late so we are late with our appointment (to watch movie) and this friend of ours got angry with us..
and this other friend told eduardo about bad things about me, which made eduardo got angry to me.
and they decided to transfer to school and i can't believe that i cried because of him. he is a guy and i am also a straight guy
but it was so strange that i cried because of him in silent..
have ever cried before too... can we talk about? or share to us here...
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13 responses
@DeniseH (130)
•
17 Jun 08
I cried because of my best friend in school and now we are no longer friends. She made me cry cos she was nasty and tried to control me.
I now have a very nice best friend and she has never made me cry... althouh she will get married in september and i will be her maid of honour... to see her getting married might make me cry! :)
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
17 Jun 08
Relationships, romantic or platonic, take a toll on your emotions. It's just what can and will most likely happen. I understand why you are feeling this way. You allowed yourself to become vulnerable and you got let down by your best friend. So now that you know what he's really like, forget about him. You need to find another friend.
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
hmmm.. I remember my childhood bestfriend when we are young. We are always together, we've been too many ups and downs, shared everthing, stroll wherever we used to go. But they have to moved to Singapor because her daddy's work there. I have a hard time to say goodbye. First, when i knew that day they were leaving i control myself not to cry s that my best will not hard to go for her. But tears flows in my eyes and she hug me like never before and comfort me that he will not be gone. She will come back soon. I understand it but it's sad part. To put ourselves into two directions. As years past we have communication and things also change. We can never be the same. Different likes and it really change. Different priorities in life. I've learned something about what happened between us. There were things that's forever besides you. I hope she's happy and successful right now as I'ved heard. I'm happy for her.
@ycpgoldberg (807)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
You cried just because of you fell about losing the friendship,
no other meaning....
I never cried for my friend before....
@painkiller77 (2073)
• India
17 Jun 08
no i have not yet. actually such a situation which is extremely tense, has not yet arrived. it as been a relatively smooth move till now.well, if such a situation springs up in future, probably i won't cry. we need to help each other out. i think also that probably my crying threshold is a bit higher.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
hi,
actually i don't have such a best friend when i was in college and the only i had was close classmates,even in my college time,and i only meet my best friend when i have worked in place where far in my place,and i cried because we need to separate because i need to go back in the city where i am live.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
17 Jun 08
yes i have... i also have a best friend when i am still in secondary school... also when i am in uni... but i am losing them now as time goes by and i, being a very sensitive person, always cry whenever i have problem with them... take care and have a nice day...
@esterantonia (53)
• Indonesia
17 Jun 08
I think it's okif you cry bcoz of him. Do you think that you cry bcoz he didnt belive you? Bcoz Eduardo prefer listen to your other friend than you?
If I were you i'll cry too... I understand...
I think the reason why they leaved is not that simple.... There must be another factors...
Why your other friend jealous to you?not Eduardo? I dont understand...
And move to another school?Its too childish...
If Eduardo really your good friend, he wont trust your other friend so easly. Maybe there are another reasons. not bcoz of you.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
17 Jun 08
Friends are important to us at any stage in our lives. I remember being young and having a best friend, in fact I still keep in touch occasionally with friends I met when I was around 5. My daughter has a best friend, and she is 4. It is a joy to see the girls interact together, as well as frustrating when they argue lol. Friendships evolve, yet they are constant. Best friends tend to be stable, they have learned a lot about you and they still love you, maybe even more because of it. They know what pushes your buttons and ultimately how to heal what happens if they do. They are there when you say you need them, and they are also there when you say you don't - but they know you really do.
Sometimes there is jealousy and sometimes you even take each other for granted, but as long as those things do not take over your relationship, all should be well. When you are close, you give of yourself, friendships include give and take, and sadness along with happiness. It can't be sunny all the time =) Get in touch with your friend, let him know you miss him. Let him know how you feel.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
that is a very sad story.. i hope you would find other friends that would not make you cry.
No, i have not cried because of a friend. I am not an emotional person and I think guys should not be emotional when it comes to these things. but i respect you, and I know where you are coming from. If that would happen to me I would also be crying, even only deep inside.
@fatima07 (169)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
no im not. because my friends always make me smile not to cry maybe time will come that Im gonna cry too especially in graduation day.
