what would make you rate a post negatively?
By richiem
@richiem (3644)
Philippines
June 18, 2008 8:15pm CST
I haven't rated anyone negatively. And I think I won't be doing it. I respect everyones opinion and I think I will feel bad when someone would rate me negatively.
Have you clicked on the "-" button? What would make you hit it? What would make you report someone's post as abuse?
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13 responses
@doubloonie (535)
• Canada
19 Jun 08
I haven't rated any of my posts negatively and I hope I never have to. It would take an extreme case before I'd even consider doing something like that and it would probably entail someone violating mylot terms of conditions. I wouldn't rate negatively if someone is just politely expressing their difference of opinion because everyone is entitled to their own opinion. But if someone was using racial slurs or was threatening bodily harm, then I think those examples should be reported to the mylot people. Luckily, I haven't come across anything like that happening on the boards since I've been here. Everyone's been very pleasant!
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
20 Jun 08
The only reason I would rate anyone negatively is if they were offensive to myself, and wrote the post in a manner that they knew they were being offensive. I wouldn't most likely rate it negatively at first but would respond to them but in a nice manner and only to their points. I would also rate someone negatively if I felt that the response was off subject and short. Again, I would only do so if I felt that they knew they were being off subject.
Have a Great day.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
Hi somecowgirl! I also have done that, I have commented on the response that I think is mean and offesive to tell him that his response offended me. But I still rated his response positive. He then replied that he is just kidding.
Have a nice day!
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
20 Jun 08
I am glad that you cleared that up and that he was just kidding. It's great when you find that out. Thanks for wishing me a nice day.
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@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I don't usually use the negative button on anyone
for any reason.
I have only used it twice in the year I've been here,
because the person responding to my discussion was
being very abusive and mean.
I had no choice but to alert MyLot so that they
could ask them to stop such behavior.
I would probably give a negative rating to someone
who was being mean to another member. Being mean is
not cool. I would probably just ignore them and
move on without giving a negative or positive
rating.
Most times, I give all my friends a positive
plus even if I don't take time to respond.
It's my little way of showing support!
@Crystalxdr (443)
• China
19 Jun 08
No sooner have I seen your discussion about rating a post negatively than I know there are "+","-" under each discussion and each response.
That is to say,I never thought to use the negative one on any discussions.However,I was rated negatively one month ago.It is rediculous and always makes me sick to think of it.
I got my first $10 and started a discussion to share my happiness.So trouble came as someone said they can not believe my achievement of $10 by just less than 140 posts.My discussions were deleted quickly and I was deeply hurted by this act.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
Sorry for what happened to you. I think that is not a good thing to do. If you have earned your $10 earnestly with only 140 post, you deserve to share this happiness. I hope you won't have to experience it again. I don't see anything wrong with your discussion. I don't even think it violates the rules. I feel bad for you.
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@vicneedscoffee (1259)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I have never rated someone negatively. However, I will if they spam a discussion with stuff not even related to what is being discussed. That is about the only way I would give a negative. I don't have to like someone's opinion, but I will respect their right to give it. As for reporting someone, I have only done this a few times and it was a really weird night in which 5-10 people were obviously copying and pasting yahoo questions non-stop for hours. They were even posting the same exact questions, making it hard to find any "real" discussions.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
this people are finding ways to make their work a little easier for them just copying questions. I hope they understand that what they are doing is not good and that they need to start real quality discussions if they want to stay here longer.
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@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Only if it's obvious they are only here for money like leaving mindless answers just to post to get higher numbers.
If they are spamming, then they get reported.
I feel, if you are on here, contribute with some good thoughts.
I posted today about who had cats and so on. People posted things like, "I don't have cats". Why bother? It's a post for cat owners. If you don't have cats, read and move on.
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@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
20 Jun 08
I think that it's great that you are helping out a friend when the discussion has no direction or replies. Sometimes, just by asking questions about the topic will help it move along.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
Usually I don't respond to discussions I don't really understand. But when it's my friend and I am helping him from his zero-responded discussion, I would respond even if I don't know the topic. I would try my best to answer.
I hope nobody would rate me negative for doing that.
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
20 Jun 08
I have never had to rate anyone negatively. I think that each person has a different way of thinking and we should accept each other as individuals. I can't think of a reason why I would rate a person negatively. The only reason I would report as being abusive is if they were cussing a lot. Than I would.
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@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
12 Aug 08
I don't rate negatively. I see no reason to do so. If I don't agree with the discussions or any comment to it, I keep in mind that I don't have to agree with everything that I read. It doesn't make the discussion or comment negative in any way. If there is a violation that I really feel I shouldn't let pass I have a button to report abuse which will bring myLOt's attention to the matter.
Personally I don't see why the minus button is there, for the same reason.
@ferdzNK (3211)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
As far as I could remember I think I have only used it once a long time ago. Its alright to express ones disagreement about an issue but to curse somebody with such a very offensive remark is totally uncalled for. We strive to express our differences in view in a very civil manner.
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@bfarrier1 (2082)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I havent rated anyone negative,dont believe I will.I rate everyone positive because everyone has thier own opinion of what they post,as for abuse I don't think I have seen a post yet that I would think to be abusive.Have a great night.
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@snowy22315 (180362)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Hi richiem,
You are a really sweet person. I dont think you would rate anyone negatively. I dont ususally rate the discussions either I dont think it is my place to rate othe r people's thoughts.
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@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
19 Jun 08
Hello there richiem, a person will press - button when the person who write the discussion disrepect them and makes them feel like their response is nothing. So they will not hesitate to struck back. It is best that when someone writes his/her opinion you do not make it a personal thing. You don't have to answer back if you don't like the answer. That's the way I see it.
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@pixelpixie (473)
• Canada
19 Jun 08
I don't usually rate people negatively...even if I don't agree with them, they are entitled to their own opinions, that's the whole point of 'discussions', isn't it?
The only time I would rate someone poorly would be if they were being exceptionally and unnecessarily rude, with discriminating comments and things like that.
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