How do you greet people? Fist Bump, Handshake or Hug?

Michelle and Obama's "Fist Bump" - Fox News anchor ED Hill has lost her show a week after suggesting Barack Obama and his wife Michelle's on-stage victory gesture could be seen as a "terrorist fist jab".
United States
June 18, 2008 11:34pm CST
Barack Obama's wife, Michelle was on the View today. She greeted all the hosts with what's being called the "Fist Bump". Here is the clip. http://tv.yahoo.com/the-view/show/253/videos/8378445 On June 6th, 2008 Barack Obama Barack Obama emerged as a pioneer on the American political stage by becoming the first African-American nominee for President of the United States, but also because of the gesture he shared publicly with his wife, Michelle Obama, called the "Fist Bump". As Barack Obama walked onstage in St. Paul, Minn., to claim the Democratic nomination that Tuesday night, he and wife Michelle hugged and then, gazing into each other's eyes with knowing smiles, gently knocked knuckles. I was amazed at the reaction to this gesture. The Washington Post's "Reliable Source" called it "the fist bump heard 'round the world,". Fox News anchor ED Hill has lost her show a week after suggesting Barack Obama and his wife Michelle's on-stage victory gesture could be seen as a "terrorist fist jab". Meanwhile, Karen Bradley, a visiting professor of dance at the University of Maryland, was struck by the "intimacy" of the moment. Bradley, who studies the body language of politicians, said the fist bump seemed more spontaneous and authentic than the hug, which "looked like they talked about it first. "Time magazine even went as far as publishing a article called "A Brief History of the Fist Bump". Here is Time's lame and out-of-touch interpetation of the fist bump. "It's a hand gesture normally associated with sporting events and Bud Lite commercials." This is what I know of the so called "Fist Bump". As long as it's been around it's been called the "Pound". It's basically used as a greeting. For instance when I go to work and see the people I work with, it's customary to give a "Pound" rather than shaking hands, hugging or any other gesture. Most of the times a "Pound" is given without a word being spoken. And the pound is not unique to any particul racial group, even though it's mostly used by men. Another way I see it used is as a hip way of saying thank you. I seems like a lot of people don't like the formal use of "Thank You" and "You are Welcome", so the "Pound" fills that void. As for Obama, he told NBC's Brian Williams (who called it "the most talked-about fist pound on the internet today") that it "captured what I love about my wife — there's an irreverence about her and sense that for all the hoopla, that I'm her husband and sometimes we'll do silly things." What is your opinion of the so called "Fist Bump"? And do you think people, including myself, have made too much of this gesture. Do you Fist Bump, Shake Hands or Hug? Lloyd
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• Philippines
19 Jun 08
nod my head, then shake...
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• United States
21 Jun 08
The variety of greetings posted here is just amazing. It shows that people are curtious. Lloyd
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
I guess it's part of a culture of how people from different race do their own greeting. Korean bow their heads, Americans do the hug, mexican do the kiss or cheek to cheek. Me? I just smile. hahaha..
• United States
19 Jun 08
The "Fist Bump" really doesn't apply to any particular race. It's practice by all kinds of people. I really like how the Japaneese and Koreans use the "bow" as a form of greeting. And the "smile" works too. Lloyd
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
I like the bow thingy as well. I sometimes do that but not like bend your hips like how koreans do, just a slight bow of my head to acknowledge a person then put a smile on my face. :)
@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Yeah, I tend to think the media has blown this out of proportion. Of course it may have been a "slow" news day. I think it is "much ado about nothing". Every couple has their own way of doing things. I also am tired of hearing the talking heads discuss Michelle Obama's makeover.What make over? They are trying to say that the supporters want her to appear not as hard,etc. I have seen worse. To me Cindy McCain could stand a make over. She, to me, seems to be much harsher looking and critical than Mrs. Obama. Let's focus on more important news rather than fists and looks. We have more at stake in this country.
• United States
19 Jun 08
"Blown out of proportion" is an understatement. Sometimes the media gets kind of crazy. I predicted a few weeks ago that Michelle Obama would soon be the latest target. I guess America has it's problem with women who have the nerve to have an opinion on things. I can't figure out Cindy McCain. It sometimes seem like she's looking for a confrontation with Michelle Obama. I'm glad Michelle hasn't fallen into her trap. Sooner or later Cindy and John McCain are going to have to discuss the issues and refrain from personal attacks. Lloyd
• United States
19 Jun 08
And I usually shake hands we men I dont know and hug my friends and family. No fist bumps here. Once in a while when it was popular we would do the high five when something we did went right but not as a routine.
• United States
19 Jun 08
I'm not sure why they would think such a thing has anything to do with terrorism. It's just a friendly greeting many people use. I don't really use that, but I'm always seeing people on TV do it. It's another way of saying, "Hi!". You're just showing support for another human being. It's certainly not a bad thing. Or, at least, I have never heard that it is.
• United States
21 Jun 08
It seems that some people will say anything to smear Mr. Obama. Fortunately, the American people aren't falling for the "Swift Boat" tactics again. They see what it cost them by falling for the lies during the last election. Lloyd
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I saw Michelle Obama do the "fist bump". Funny what you see on late night cnn. I have never done the fist bump. As for the hug or hand shake, it depends. Depends on how well I know the person. There is a big difference between a friend or aquaintance.
• United States
22 Jun 08
The "Fist Bump" is catching on. LOL - Obama 'fist bump' catching on
Posted: 04:34 PM ET
 
Feinstein and Hutchison share a fist bump.
(CNN) — In a reference to Barack and Michelle Obama's celebratory fist bump on Tuesday, Sen. Dianne Feinstein, D-California, and Sen. Kay Bailey Hutchison, R-Texas, ended their conversation on CNN's Late Edition with their own version of the “hand shake.”
Barack and Mitchell Obama's 'fist bump' is catching on. In a reference to Barack and Michelle Obama's celebratory fist bump on Tuesday, Sen. Dianne Feinstein, D-California, and Sen. Kay Bailey Hutchison, R-Texas, ended their conversation on CNN's Late Edition with their own version of the “hand shake.” This is just this hilarious. Lloyd
@masterdw (90)
• China
20 Jun 08
It depends on the culture and penson.In my county,shakehans is more common,and i use this way most of the time.
• United States
22 Jun 08
The handshake is the most popular form of greeting in the world. But I have to admit, I don't like shaking everyone's hands. What country are you from? Lloyd
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Not having a lot of knowledge about the fist bump, lloydanthony, I saw it as a method of communication between two loving people. Nothing more, nothing less. I have found that when two people have shared their lives for a period of time they often develop private means of communication that only they know the true reasons behind. This seems to be the case with the fist bump of the Obamas. While it was out of the ordinary as a gesture, I think it has been much ado about nothing in the press.
• United States
19 Jun 08
I think your explanation of the "Fist Bump" hit the nail right on the head. There's nothing more or less to it even though many have read much to far into this gesture. Read post #10 to get an idea of what I'm writing about. Lloyd
@Rikza1 (295)
• Finland
19 Jun 08
It depends who i greet. Normally it's just handshake if its unknown person or someone who you known only for little time. I hug some of my friends and family. Most of my friends i just say hi or we have our own special greeting from movies.
• United States
19 Jun 08
Sounds like you are person who use a variety of greetings. Almost like a "Multi-Greeter". lol Lloyd
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
19 Jun 08
ugh this is such non sense , with this fist bumb pound , crap , like its been around for god know how long , Now Obama did it and people are concerned , and i cant believe that , a reporter actually took the time to call it a terrioist hand signal or something like that , how corny of her who ever she is ...i thought nothing of it cause its natural to me , i dont care obviously the nation does, he can do fist bumbs and pounds 24 hours a day with his wife and kids , as long as he gets his job done , if he's president...
• United States
19 Jun 08
You are so right. It has been around for a long time. I don't know how she translated it into a terrerist hand signal. It might be just a hatred she harbors for Barack Obama. Not only is it natural to you, but it's natural to many people. I also hope that if elected, he will get the job done. Lloyd
@chirantani (1379)
• India
19 Jun 08
Fist bump is too informal,whenever some of our plans becomes successful,I do it.I use to greet my friends with a fist bump. Does she really greet people with it?????
• United States
19 Jun 08
The "Fist Bump" is very informal. I don't think she greets everyone that way. I think she was mocking all the controversy about it when she greeted the hosts of the View with that gesture. Lloyd
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
i don't really do fist bumps, shake hands or hugs. Most of the time, I greet people with nods. Yes, just the nods. I am quite a shy person that I don't want a lot of interaction. And most of the times, I don't say anything. I just nod to them which I think is enough to tell them that I have noticed them and enough for them to notice me.
• United States
19 Jun 08
You are not alone with the use of the "nod". I see the "nod" used a lot especially when you come across people you don't really know. In many cases it works just as good as any other greeting. Lloyd
• United States
19 Jun 08
Oh yeah, I got caught up laughing at the whole terrorist gesture thing, and I forgot to say that I often greet close friends with hugs. Hugs are awesome!
• United States
19 Jun 08
Hugs are definately the most universal greeting. Have you noticed how many men are hugging each other lately. I have to admit it took me some time to get used to it. Lloyd
• United States
19 Jun 08
Hi all! Wow, this "fist bump" is something very new to me. While I do think the history behind it is pretty interesting, making an ongoing, worldwide thing out of it is going a little overboard, although not as overboard as calling it a terrorist gesture! Hahahaha! The thing about being in the media and having stupid prejudices like that is, it's bad enough to have them to begin with, but if you're in the spotlight and you give voice to your prejudices, you end up looking like an idiot in front of a hell of a lot more people. Hahaha. Namaste, Becky
• United States
19 Jun 08
Making the 'Fist Bump" a worldwide issue is going a little overboard. Only the geniuses at Fox could call it a terrorist gesture. Lol Hopefully they will take a look at themselves and see how silly they have been acting. Lloyd
• India
19 Jun 08
i like hugging my friends and loved ones.its make me feel so much better..at professional places it has to be a handshake.
• United States
19 Jun 08
Hugging friends and loved ones seems to be universal. The handshake is still approciate in professional settings. Are there any other greetings you've ever used? Lloyd
@trickiwoo (2702)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I don't know anyone who uses a "fist bump" or "pound" as a greeting. Everyone I've ever known has used it as a way to give props to or to congratulate someone for something. And I've usually heard it referred to as "bones" or "respect knuckles". I've never seen it used as a greeting before though! Odd! And I think it's absolutely insane that this is making the news!
• United States
19 Jun 08
I see the "fist bump" or "pound" used as a greeting on a daily basis. I've also seen it used in the way you mentioned as a way to give props to or to congratulate someone for something. I also thought it was a little insane that it made so much news. Lloyd