men!!!

United States
June 19, 2008 9:03am CST
Men and there weird fantasys. Some men like silk some men like sexy clothing (like thigh highs, garder belts, teddies). Others like the rough stuff being tied up and gagged or being choked. Some men like inflicting the pain on the women.. Women really don't have fantasys like this do they???? Why can't men just be normal for once... No i'm not a man hater...
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15 responses
@urbandekay (18278)
5 Jul 08
Errr hello? Women don't really have fantasys? News to me! all the best urban
@urbandekay (18278)
6 Jul 08
Sorry, my comment was sarcastic, many women have fantasies, just as many as men probably. all the best urban
@urbandekay (18278)
6 Jul 08
In fact fantasy is the sign of a healthy imagination all the best urban
• United States
5 Jul 08
thats what i am say women really don't have fantasys like men do... I don't really have fantasy what can men do noting women can dress up in outfits, be dominating, man can dominate women, etc. Men are the ones that really have the fantasy not us women men just make us think we do...
@focjop20 (232)
• Puerto Rico
22 Jun 08
Since to me that you know a lot about it, so why not asked for more ways to do it. May be because people like you, like it
@focjop20 (232)
• Puerto Rico
22 Jun 08
My friend, if he's the one getting beat up, and not you, enjoyed. It's something to be proud of; you have domesticated a form of human beam, not easy to submit. You can note the abuses performed every day, in the news, to women around the world. You are in control of the situation, so just use sarcastic laugther when your are doing it. I would also suggest that you start teaching others ladies out there how to domesticate men; so that way there won't be so many of them ladies around the world murder, by this self called Men. Don't get carry away and kill, your domesticated men Pet.
• United States
22 Jun 08
Yeah i have already done that he doesn't like to listen to me
• United States
22 Jun 08
But i really so like wearing the stuff for him i just don't like it every night you know
@sparkster (181)
22 Jun 08
I'm a straight male - my partner is much more into all that stuff than I am so to put it bluntly, you're wrong!
• United States
22 Jun 08
Trust me i love to dress up sexy for him i just don't want it every night like that and i have try tied talking to him about it he just doesn't like to listen to me
• United States
16 Jul 08
I want it every night too.. He just wont give it to me every night... Thank you for your response
@Marcola (2774)
• United States
19 Jun 08
What is normal and who is normal? From a male point of view, why wouldn't they like sexy clothing on women? It's completely natural. Now about the rough stuff, I guess I wouldn't know anything about that. I guess you don't know until you've experienced it.
• Ecuador
5 Jul 08
Thats a very good point of view. Anything can be normal, as long as that is what you think. i could say wanting to jump off of buildings is normal, and that could be true if I think that. Anything can be normal if you think it is, and no one person can decide what is normal and what isn't.
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Individuals are different to each other so they build a group where they can be belonged.
• Canada
23 Jul 08
I think there are woman out there that have just as weird fantasies as the ones you describe men have. And no not all men have these fantasies that you think are weird. Personally my fantasies have nthing to do with what you describe so that that make me normal or would others think I am weird. The big thing is that the partners think alike in their fantasies. From reading someof your other comments, it sounds like you and your partner have this. Other couples just go in a different direction that may seem extreme to you. By the way, I knew a girl who fantasized of being tied up and having two men at once. And no, she was not weird, just sexually hungry.
• United States
23 Jul 08
I don't think anyone is weird for their fantasy i have some weird ones myself.. How about the feeling of being raped, or i wanna be tied up and blndfolded and there are more but i dont wanna say. I like the feeling of being helpless... My husband is really good at making me feel that way but he is working on is..
@relundad (2310)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Normal? What exactly is that? Missionary everyday, allday? Sounds more like boring to me. And I don't know that it would last a lifetime. What else could you think of that you would want to remain constant in your life all day, every day except breathing? I'm definitely not into the rough stuff or un-natural things but other than that, I love to dress sexy for both my man and myself! Don't you like feeling sexy? And I really don't know that I would consider sexy lingerie as a fantasy. Think about it, if you were going to the movies or dinner you would dress up for the occassion. Why wouldn't you do the same thing for bed? What I do know is that if your partner has a fantasy that can easily be fixed or incorporated into your love life and you are not willing to participate, he will always have it. The desire never goes away. And he may just stray to have it fulfilled...if only for one night. But to answer your question of do women have fantasies? You can bet your bottom dollar! As a matter of fact everytime we have achieved either one of his or mine we are constantly thinking of new ideas to keep our love life spicy and hott!
• United States
19 Jun 08
yes i love dressing sexy for my man... i was talking about this in a bad way.. It was just on my mind at time.. But yeah i acually love feeling sexy for my husband i love wear the thigh high and the garder belts and the sexy skirts and stuff i just wanted to hear what other people thought about it
• United States
19 Jun 08
Thats is a great way to keep you love life spiced...
22 Jun 08
We are normal... Men that have no fantasies aren't normal
@Zmugzy (773)
17 Jul 08
Jesus! You've met some weird men!
• United States
18 Jul 08
Thank you for the response..
@p1kef1sh (45681)
23 Jun 08
I am male and have the most bizarre fantasies. However, my wife and I only tried a couple and all the novelty very quickly wore off. However, we do describe our fantasies to each other and that can be an incredible turn on. Happy fantasising.
• United States
16 Jul 08
Thank you for your input
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
19 Jun 08
Who really is normal? We are all different and we all like different things. I will be the first to tell you that women are just as bad with their fantasties as men have. Some even have more clear dreams of being a dominatrix for instance. Being the dominant one and making a man basically her B$%#%. It happens everyday. It just all depends on the individual at hand. Men who have fantasies of silk, sexy clothing is all normal. I know lots of women that have a the same fantasies as men do. When it comes to something turning a man on (rough play, tieing up etc) it is all normal and many many people both men and women have these fantasies.
@cianoy (513)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Apart from all of us being different (ergo normal being defined differently), there's also a matter of spicing up the relationship. Stick to a "theme" for too long and you're bound to want some variety too. Isn't this why there's a term, "spicing up the relationship"?
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
22 Jun 08
Some of those things arent that bad! lol I love dressing up in sexy longerie although I'm not into pain of any kind. Whats so abnormal about having fantasies, dont you have any? I know I do Hugs, Tianna PS: You forgot to mention the guys that like dressing up in womens clothes!
• United States
22 Jun 08
LOL oh trust me i love dressing up for my husband i just don't like doing it every night that's my problem yeah i have some fantasy I'm mine are weird and Ill leave that alone till our 5 year of marriage LOL
• Philippines
21 Jun 08
I think your still young to understand this kind of stuff! Naturally men are not the same and that goes for women. Each and every one of us has their own fantasy. Each has their own idea of pleasure and satisfaction. Being human is not normal so try not to normalize life :D
• United States
5 Jul 08
maye you are right maybe i am to young to understand but i wanna understand so i won't feel thinks that arn't true.
• India
17 Jul 08
some men do prefer changes. after all change is the only thing that is permanent. men try to add pepper in their lives. some do it by change of partners but many men, as you know are not like that. they are very, very and very faithful. so they spice up their lives in some eerie way. that is whole fundamental beneath this. i think you get me. bye and happy my lotting.
• India
18 Jul 08
you should give him time. he will catch up later. if your fantasies are not feasible ones, then it will be difficult fulfilling them. anyways, wait a bit. it will turn up one day. till then enjoy other forms. bye and happy my lotting.
@fundose (41)
• Pakistan
21 Jun 08
I am man and I think I am a normal person I just want a lady with beautiful love and a sound and sexy figure and I think its not an abnormal wish
• Pakistan
23 Jun 08
I hope you would love to meet me, am I right ?
• China
6 Jul 08
may you are right
• United States
6 Jul 08
Thank you..
• India
19 Jun 08
I think u might be aware of talibanis,they like viewing the act when adminsteration over there us eto punish in a inhuman way.But do u think all people on earth like this type of scene .no na,same way i don't think all men like those type of stuff,it depends on person to person. I like big big but not much in females,its not that all lad of my age like this type of ...