Your Take on Virginity......?

Hmmmmm i am at ur part of world and we have trust that our patner are virgin as its teaching and culture, other thing if u dont trust ur partner on first day then how u r going to spend rest of ur life?? Take care

i think i will want to wait for my husband as if i sleep around too much people will label me as a person who sleeps around...

hey i do belong to ur part of the world where guys expect their wifes to be virgin . rite.!! i do expect my wife to be a virgin and same way i don't wanna lose my virginity b4 my marriage cuz i love my gal a lot. i'm in love i wanna offer my gal what i'm expecting from her so that there will be no chance any disputes in the future. i'm very sentimental over this .

myself personally.. i wouldnt WANT to marry a virgin! i want someone who knows what theyre doing.. not someone looking for a tutor.

i guess generally, virginity for men is a big deal. but does it really matter if the girl you married wasnt a virgin at all? would that make your love diminished? i guess, love should always be the most important thing in a relationship, right?

Hello nupats, how can he not know if his wife is not a virgin. When the barrier is broken there is always some spots. Virginity in some culture is a must and some men are very unrelenting when it comes to this. I don't see it as any biggie. But if I have a daughter I would advice her to keep hers until she find her husband. These things are very rare nowadays.

I was not a virgin when I met my husband and my boyfriend gave me Vd or I thought he did, because I did not have a check up until much later. So my take is that a girl should save herself for marriage, because even if the guy does not matter, things could go wrong. At least with virginity, you have less to worry about. It is not about character, I never cheated or had a desire to cheat on my husband during the thirty plus years of our marriage, but I never was able to give him a child. We had to adopt. OH and if a guy expects a girl to be a virgin, he should be one as well unless he was a widower and there are plenty of non virgins, widows, single women who could not marry because they had to look after their mother, etc. around for the widowers to chose from.

How do I feel if my husband was not a virgin when I married him. That was his choice it doesn't change who he is or why I feel in love with him. In the states this isn't really a big matter or deal anymore. I never expect my partner to be anything but who he is whether or not he is a virgin matters not to me. Their is no way to tell that I know of whether or not who your with is a virgin you have only their word and if you love and respect them that should be enough. To me it's not a big deal. I love the person for who they are at the time I know them not what they did and were in the past .. We all change and grow, I personally feel that before I ever marry again I will want to do what I'm doing right now. Live with the guy for a while before even considering the possibility. Take care and have a nice one.

It's still a high possibility to have virgin wives now.. Though for me, it's not that important, because i trust them.. THey must have given much thoughts about losing their virginity to that certain guy.. So i have to respect them for their decision.. After all, wat's done cant be undone.. And no matter wat, we love them for what they are and not because of virginity.. So which is more important??

well in the world today they are hardly any virgins left.i dont think people should be disappointed when they have acknowledged their spouse is not a virgin.a person would normally ask the person before getting marry are u a virgin? but if u really love someone then being a virgin or not should not prevent u from getting marry.bye

i wasnt a virgin when i got married, my husband was the second man i've been with and to im i was a virgin, he said he strock gold. its not a big deal if your a virgin or not when u get married, on the otherhand if two people get married and are virgins how would they actually make it out on there honeymoon both are new most of all shy, although it might be good for them both to learn and experience things together. if a man determine to marry a woman which is a virgin and the day of honey moon he finds out she isnt a virgin after she pretended to be is he going to divorce right there and then. i think if you truly loves someone nothing should stand in the way

It's obvious that all guys expect their wife to be a virgin. Gone are the days when women underestimate themselves before men. Now days guys do not belive on gals as behaviour of todays gals is totally changed. They use themselves to earn and enjoy the life. Everybody expect his wife to be his own. She should love her husband only and should be pure virgin. Guys are always busy at work. Gals can judge them by their deeds and nature. Nobody could understand women's nature till now.

Well honestly I don't think it should matter. But on the other hand I didn't know virgins still existed... matter'a fact I killed one last week... Lol, kidding But on the other hand, it doesn't matter. If you love them, you love them. So prior incounters should matter.

its hard to keep your virginity when you are beautiful because boys would want to sleep with you. when there's so many request chances are someone will get lucky. ugly people don't have that many request for copulation hence they often keep their virginity.

First off the old saying is what's GOOD FOR THE GANDER IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE. Second it is very hard to find a virgin in this day and age as you would be lucky to find one before they attended high school. As far as I am concerned if you love your partner and very happy together, what happened in the past is forgotten just live a great life.

My boyfriend and I are more than a year together now.He was the first guy to touch me and he said he was really honored.he claims that I was the first girl he touched.Well,if it's not true,it wouldn't matter to me.I love him for all that he is.

I don't really care that much about virginity, I would actually probably prefer that she not be, though it's not a deal breaker.

I would like for my wife to be virgin and I believe To make it more meaningful I would also have to me a virgin. and as for the double standard people who follow that rule in life they are most likely get screwed in life, but wont some women also follow this rule since men are doing it.

me and my hubby were both virgins but we married young too.. it hasnt seemed to be a problem.. if we want to know what its like with other people we will swing.. i think it was good for me though because i had some problems and i think if it had been some one that had been with a lot of people they may not have been as gentle..

where i live, (USA) most girls and guys lose their virginity between about 13-16 years old. so most people aren't virgins when they get married. but i think that if you're not a virgin, marrying a virgin makes you really lucky if the virgin is ok with you not being one. and it still makes you seem undeserving. i think that waiting until marriage is the best idea though, because then there is no comparing, no jealousy, and your first time is with the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with. (Obviously, but really, think of how much more special that makes it.)