what will happen
By coolimrose
@coolimrose (539)
New Zealand
June 20, 2008 4:14am CST
No i am not at all a good wife.No matter what people say i know i am a witch.But i dont know what has happened so bad thjat i have becoime wiucked.Today is my birthday and my hubby very much wanted to go out but i flatly refused to anywhere with him.Why should i go.We have been married for 2 years where was he the previous year.,I remember he had asked his mom who said no we will eat here.Even then we were short of money so we are now.I remember when we got married on the seventrh day we went out with his parents.But we sat in a hotel and i had to sit with his father he sat with his mom.Its been long but i just cannot forget it."It still hurts and i give him back nothing but hatered.He loves me dearly but i just cannot.
My friends please tell me am i wrong??I dont think so.Am i being harsh.What do i do.??
Have you been in such a predicatement before.
PLEASE HELP!!!
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2 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
20 Jun 08
Hi there coolimrose, I guess you have to talk to him and confide to him your innermost feeling and I am sure after you will release that, you will be back to normal, like loving him without thinking the past experiences which is now hurting you. I am sure he loves you and maybe there is only misunderstanding about that situation...
I am so sorry to tell you, but based on what I read in your story, you are the one who is wrong, if ever you didn't express to him why you are acting that way and what's the reason of your refusal...I hope you will be able to patch things out since you said, he loves you and since you marry him for sure you love him too!
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@whittby (3072)
• United States
21 Jun 08
It's hard to forgive when you've been hurt badly. Has he ever said he was sorry? If you explained this to him, would he apologize. Sometimes all that is needed is a heartfelt apology to make things right. Men don't get us sometimes and they think nothing of some things that we are hurt by or appalled about.
