Am I alone

Actually no. I find that I have more of a life here, then I do in my normal life. LOL. Here I can be myself, say what I feel and people here seem to understand. While the people around me, don't seem to know what I mean. I really like talking and trying to help. At My Lot, I don't feel like people are judging me in a bad way. Everyone is equal and we all help each other. I like that. Maybe its because my German is not good. I had lived in the Netherlands and felt the same way. In the Netherlands they have a different mentality. Speaking English and getting reply in English feels good too. Anyway, I like it here. Take care, Happy My Lotting. Margajoe

I'm not sure why you have not seen them yet, I have tons of discussions to go through from Mylot from my friends. I have not seen any rude pictures so far either. I have all of my friends discussions saved in a folder on my computer. I go through them as I find the extra time to. I feel like I miss some things at Mylot at times also from some of my friends. I think they mails get lost in cyberspace.

Its passing me by because I haven't been on here. I just had a few minutes and thought I would dip my head in and say hello. I miss everyone very much and all their antics, but don't feel yet up to saying too much. So just a quick hello. Thinking of you along with all my friends.

oh all the time! I go thru and respond to so many discussions and sometimes spend much time searching and reading. It always amazes me when something happens and I missed it. I'm not sure why I am so surprised in that. It happens in real life too.

Hi, Even if away for less than a day it can appear you have been away for a year as you only have to miss one discussion to be out of the loop with what is going on. In fact I couldn't remember whether I had responded to this one or not so have just gone through all four pages and did notice response number 21 you have overlooked by accident, I have had this happen to me where I have missed a whole page too in the past, not nagging but thought I would let you know as you like me respond to all received. The other two you didn't respond to I can understand why, why do people post these strange links eh? Ellie :D

I feel that in such a large community it is impossible to know everything that is going on in everyone's lives and keep up to date with their current affairs, and for this reason I do not even try, I take each post a person makes as an individual post rather than one post out of many in their life. Sometimes I wonder what people are talking about, but that is usually because their English is not too good and it makes very little sense.

There are a lot of times I have read a New discussion on here and wondered how could I ever respond back to it even if I wanted too. Sometimes the discussion either just makes No sense, or it is about something that I cannot relate too as well.

There are now over 133,000 members and I can see how the old friends might have gravitated somewhere else or have been snagged in some other orbit. I do notice that some of my old friends have moved on to other things. Cheers!!

yes i do often wonder how come i have missed some discussions.lately i have not been on mylot as often as i would like and i understand i would have missed a lot of things,but when i was on constantly,i always seemed to miss some fun that was going on around me,maybe it is when we are on here and discussion change so quickly,its easy to miss some.cheers sue

It does pass you by if you are not there every five minutes of everyday. This is a fast moving site with discussions and responses 24 hours a day. Miss one thing and you feel left out. Perhaps its easier to be on top of everybody if there was a system where all of your friends' imput was sent to you. I'm not sure this is possible but maybe it can be done. Other than that anybody can miss anything on a site like this.

Yes, I always response to discussions everyday. if I can't post a new discussion myself I make it sure that I do a lot of responses so meaning I am also one of the active members of mylot but then, there were instances that mylot really passes my by. But i do not blame anyone, maybe because my effort is not yet enough.. happy mylotting!!

Yup! life on mylot passes away, every moment all of our fellow mylotters are posting new issues and topics. Happy Posting!

I haven't been here long enough to feel myLot is passing me by, p1kef1sh, but I think maybe real life is passing me by because I spend so much time at my computer! It's a bit of a worry that there's a big, wonderful world out there and I'm not spending enough time in it ...

I believe it is because there are so many people posting at all different times. Missing a couple of hours or a couple of days will let much pass you by on here. This is the only place where I can post a discussion and get responses within only a few hours. With hundreds and hundreds of postings to choose from, it's very easy to miss most of them. As long as I see my earnings increase then I will stay on mylot.

it happens to me as well... i am here everyday quite regularly and i still miss out on some things here... but i can understand... may be i don't spend as much time here as you... i have a full time job and i can only be here on my free time... but i always try to catch up though... take care and have a nice day...

it happens to me as well... i am here everyday quite regularly and i still miss out on some things here... but i can understand... may be i don't spend as much time here as you... i have a full time job and i can only be here on my free time... but i always try to catch up though... take care and have a nice day...

In short..All of the time!!..I just post away regardless,and if its read its read and tough if it isnt!!by thw ay ive not yet seen the discussion you mention..but ive got to admit that I often go to my friends page..and i will take alook at the conversations that they have replied to..and usually there are a few discussions that are of interest to me. You at least do well enough to attract a good few replies Piky...which is evcellent,but then your posts are quality posts..not monosylabbic..or boering...thats a bored person during the Boer war...lol take no notice of me tonite ive overdosed on pirates and playing games!!

I know mylot is a great place to be but i cant help think that there should be some kind of chatroom (I dont think would work since there would be so many people on and the posts would go by very fast). I just want something that would allow us to communicate more quicker.

hey guys...what are you talking about..i did not get it..sorry...

Though I almost have no friends here an I have been here just for several days,I think mylot is significative for me .I live a palce whitout just a litte english,and I can't speak out my mind in english.But English is so inportant for me.Mylot just give me the place to think in english ,and talk about daily things,all this make me satisfied.