Especially for girls but guys are welcome too:P
By heartonfire
@heartonfire (4119)
Denmark
June 23, 2008 2:12pm CST
I am having a real 'problem' with the guys on the street... no matter if they are in a car or walking... every male specie on the street must do something to get my attention... wether it is by honking,when they are driving their interesting car, or shouting some phrases,or holding my hand,or even touching my but..t or breasts...it's really becoming annoying.. even the bus driver honked at me,and the bus was full of people,of course i felt uncomfortable.. and i was once walking next to my parents,and a guy opened the window of the cab he was in and shouting: 'oh,you are so fu...ng good' ..gee..
do things like that happen to you? do they happen daily,and no matter what you wear?
and i must say it's usually the old probably married guys who do this,and less the teenagres or 20 years old boys..
it happens to me no matter what i wear and no matter where i go
people think i like it and enjoy it..and nobody believes i hate it and it makes me feel uncomfortable of walking alone on the streets,and that sometimes i even feel herraced and almost cry...
what's your opinion on this?
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4 responses
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Fortunately I don't have to deal with any of this. Never happens, nothing close to it happens either. For your situation, one way to deal with it is to ignore them, but I think its even better to tell them off. What's being done to you is very inappropriate and completely disrespectful.
@Angel3yes (455)
• United States
24 Jun 08
Honestly, I would ignore the men that are behaving in this manner because they obviously don't have a lot of respect for women in general if they are acting this way so I wouldn't pay them much mind. They aren't really worth it. Just know that you are attractive enough that you get attention but that the men are immature and don't know how to show attention properly.
@Elixiress (3878)
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23 Jun 08
I find that that happens occasionally to me, but I don't think it happens as often to me as it does to you. It happens whatever I am wearing, but more often in the summer if I wearing shorts or skirts and stuff. I just think of it positively, if they find me attractive then other people must too and that does a lot more my confidence. Sometimes it is rather disgusting when old men (past 50) do it as I am only 17.
