Do you feel lone sometimes????Is loneliness bugging you???
By chirantani
@chirantani (1379)
India
6 responses
@Rikza1 (295)
• Finland
24 Jun 08
I do feel lonely sometimes. I have friends, loving family and all, but I still feel lonely. I'm all alone at home for most the day, everyone in my family is working expect me, I have to take care of everything while they are gone, cleaning and taking care of dogs. It is hard and at times I get lonely, I help myself by going to scratch the dogs, or call my friends, but sometimes I'm to bored to do that, so I come to my computer, come here and start chatting, or just play some games.
My friend near by shares the same loneliness. He is also home alone for the most of the day until 5pm when someone comes home, but we can't see each other when we are alone, because of our duties. I need to take care of my dogs, one of them is puppy and can't be let alone, and my friend has to take care of his little sisters, so that is kinda hard to see each other, so I just chat with him and call him.
Summer holiday stinks if it rains...like now, It is boring because I can't go anywhere, I don't have any summer work and most of my friends do, my work starts when my friend's works end. So I do feel lonely at times.
@blushingboy (17)
• Mexico
24 Jun 08
I do not mean to be rude but I want to emphasize a bit on our "loneliness" and I have seen a lot of lonely people saying how lonely they are and when one tries to invite them they have "responsabilities". I can see here Rikzal that you are sending your friend the message that your dogs are much way far important than his company. Taking care of dogs? Please, are you letting the company of someone who has the same free time as you, because of your dogs? When I as a single and lonely person hear this, inmediately I end any attempt to build a relationship. If it were for your grandchildren or even your children, I am sure he would understand and give you your time and space, but dogs and computers? The dogs won´t die if you leave them for a day, but who knows if your nearby friend will be there tomorrow. Please excuse my bluntness and as I said, I do not want to be rude to you, we all have our wounds to lick especially those of us who are lonely. Thank you.
@Rikza1 (295)
• Finland
25 Jun 08
blushingboy, I understand what you mean, but I'm not gonna leave my dogs alone together yet. I've had the puppy for less than a week, and our older dog doesn't like the puppy yet, none knows what could happen, and I don't want to ruin my furniture either. I know I could go there, but I'm not gonna abandon my duties even tho it would be easy.
@blushingboy (17)
• Mexico
24 Jun 08
The picture sends a distorted truth. Either she is alone waiting for someone or she is sad because she just lost someone. This is caused by a dark silhouette on a sunny day and has an umbrella when it is not raining. It sends a melancholic image.
Thank you, I must say it is a very nice pic after all!!
@dolce_vita78 (8062)
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
There are instances when I really feel so lonely. These are those times when I remember people I love who have passed away. Sometimes I also get lonely when I get to remember times when I had misunderstanding with the people I love. Oh well, I guess that's just how it is. But when I do feel lonely, I just try to think of all the good times and that will make me feel better.
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
24 Jun 08
Hello Chirantani, Sure, I get lonely, quite often actually. I live alone in a small house on a quiet street so it does get lonely and boring. When I get to lonely, I have friends I can call to see if anyone wants to go out and do something. Sometimes we'll just sit around and watch TV but my friends get lonely too so we stick together. Next time you get lonely, you can spend more time on Mylot, that helps too!
Hugs, Tianna
@chirantani (1379)
• India
25 Jun 08
Oh!! Thats true!! That is what I do when I feel lonely.Thanks for commenting and sharing your ideas.
@selece (2357)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
I do get lonely. In fact, it happens quite often nowadays because I have someone in my mind all the time. Ugh the torment. LoL. I'll be working my way to meet her though. Loneliness is inevitable sometimes. Guess we just have to focus on something else to wash away the feeling. Good day!
@freemeplz (3)
• India
25 Jun 08
yes since last some days i m feeling very lonely...
n i know dis z only phase of life.....
infact i wrote a poem sitting n thinkng bout my lonliness
myb i can share
it goes like this...
silence.. seems like an isolated space..
a fragile moment
a captured being
but wid in it prevails a story dat can nither be heard or said....
counsiousness of uncounsious nature...
which can endlessly spike wid in us resons to freez moments to come up to conclusion of continiouty...
... its long....
m tried myb someother day..