Is it normal for children to sleep walk and do they all do it?

United States
June 24, 2008 8:06am CST
My youngest son has been getting up in the middle of the night and he wonders around aimlessly. The first night I thought he was just getting up to get up. I asked him what he was doing and he didn't answer me he just kept walking towards the kitchen. I said it louder what are you doing. He kind of cried but kept walking. He sat down at the table and stared out into space. I finally took him to his bed. Last night he got up again. he stopped by where I was sitting and I asked him what he was doing. He looked awake to me. he didn't answer and went to his bed. In a few minutes he came back and I said again what are you doing buddy? He looked at the tv and I said you need to get back to bed. He looked at me with glassed over eyes and stared at me. I said what are you doing get into bed. He finally wondered to his bed crying a little. Is he sleep walking? Is there anything I can do to help him? It makes me wonder how many nights he has done this and I didn't know he got up. Makes me wonder if my other two did it as well.
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@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
i have four children and they are all teens already. during those times that they ares still younger nobody sleeps walk, or i never experience something like that. but my youngest sister used to do this when we are younger. she walks and sometimes talks then can no longer remember when we ask her about that in the morning. she out grew it, thats the nice part of it. but to make sure why not inquire about it with your physician
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
yes i have four teen children and i am a single mom. i keep them busy not them keeping me busy . they all have chores at home to help me around. so far so good. my first born is a boy and i have three girls. goodluck with your son and yes i hope he will out grow that.
• United States
25 Jun 08
Wow four kids and now all teens I bet they kept you busy. I have three and only one teen as of yet and am not ready to take on another one yet lol. I remember my cousin talking in her sleep and not remembering what she said. I am glad to her your sister out grew it and I hope my son does. I am hearing that most do.
• United States
26 Jun 08
Thank you very much. Good idea on keeping the kids busy lol Best wishes to you and thanks again.
@ch88ss (2271)
• United States
25 Jun 08
Sleep walking, oh no. I can be pretty scary. I mean they can hurt themselves or worse hurt others along the way. They may end up opening the doors and walking outside. My dad sleep walks, but I don't think he does anymore I suggest you read up on it and talk to your doctor. Sorry I can't help you on this one. I have no idea what to do. Good luck and I hope you figure out how to prevent this and keep the kids safe indoors.
• United States
25 Jun 08
Your dad sleep walks? you said he might not anymore I wonder how old he was when he stopped sleep walking. Thank you for the support and I think I will do some reading on it. That is a good idea to help me understand it better.
@ch88ss (2271)
• United States
26 Jun 08
Yes My dad stopped about 5 years ago. Why don't even know. I think maybe the stress of raising us got to him, so once we were all old enough and moved out things calm down for him.
• United States
26 Jun 08
Lol that was funny. I am glad that he is able to relax and not sleep walk any longer lol.
@RebeccaLynn (2256)
• United States
28 Jun 08
I have a son and two daughters. Both of my girls sleepwalk. The doctor called it 'night terrors'. I'm not sure why he called it that because they don't seem to be having nightmares during the sleep walking. My oldest daughter is 13 and she started this at six months old. We took her to the doctor frequently to find out why she would cry for hours on end in the middle of the night but seemed to be asleep the whole time. She still does it, only now, she walks through the house babbling nonsense while scratching at herself and half crying. The doctor said that both of my girls will grow out of it but he couldn't say when or what causes it. Their' eyes will be wide open but with that glazed over look that you described and they will talk nonsense while half crying and scratching. I usually lead them to the bathroom just in case they have the urge to pee and then I lead them back to bed. I have noticed that on days that they have been especially physically active and when they are emotionally or mentally exhausted they tend to sleep walk. I wish I could help you more but my girls are still doing it. My son never has.
• United States
28 Jun 08
BTW, I went through and read some of the posts here. A few people have advised you not to wake them but from my experience, sometimes you have no choice. We have woken both of my girls many times and it hasn't confused or disoriented them. Once, I found our oldest daughter standing outside in the rain in the middle of the night and she told me that she was going to school. I woke her gently by repeating "Kiradoll, you're asleep baby. You have to wake up now" until she woke up and asked why she was all wet. Our youngest daughter got out of bed and tried to lay down in the dogs' kennel. So sometimes you have to wake them up. Just do it gently. I usually give them a drink of water then and take them back to bed. They go right back to sleep. I've never had a problem with them having trouble sleeping afterwards. So it is okay to wake them if need be. Good luck!
• United States
28 Jun 08
Six months old I think that has to be the youngest ever that I have heard of doing things in their sleep. I bet that was hard to deal with. I think leading them to the bathroom is a good idea from everything I have read on here. Thank you for sharing your experiences with me. I am glad to know that in important instances it is okay to wake them up. I have found out over the last few days that at least he is not doing it every night. Thanks again for the wonderful help.
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
24 Jun 08
I use to sleep walk aprently I even held converstions a few times. I knew nothing about it, until I was told. I have a childrena that did it and at least one grandchild that does. The best thing to do is to not wake them and lead them back safely to bed. Waking them will cause them to be disoriented and possibly get upset, ie his crying when you speak to him. It can be really unsettling for them to be woke up during these states. Also make sure that the doors are locked and they can not open them in their sleep as they do when awake. If you are not up you would not want them wandering outside getting hurt or waking up with a start outside.
• United States
25 Jun 08
maybe you can put in new deadbolts even if they are just the small ones or the hook locks. Put them at the top of the doors. This may ease your mind about him being able to get outside.
• United States
25 Jun 08
Thank you that is a really good idea. I am headed to the home improvement store on friday anyway will look and see what I can find while I am there. Thanks again.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
24 Jun 08
I sleep walked when I was little myself, up to about age 7, I think. Scared the beegeezus out of my mum, because I used to go up and down stairs without using the railing. She was certain I would fall and break my neck. I would just make sure there isn't anything left out where he would trip on it or anything hazardous. If you have stairs, be sure to close the door or gate and lock them if it is possible. You don't want him walking out into the street and getting hit by a car, for example. It is normal for children up to the ages of 10 or even 12 to do this, although only about 10% ever do, and fewer than than would do it frequently. Apparently it is more common in boys than girls. Here is a web site you might enjoy: http://www.childrentoday.com/resources/articles/sleepwalking.htm It is important for kids to have a quiet tranquil time before bed, and not go there right after watching television or hearing an argument, but there are other perfectly normal causes for somnambulism and really I think it is entirely healthy behavior.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
15 Aug 08
Thanks for the BR. Although you posted this quite a while ago, hubby just told me that he read in the paper about a two-year old who got outside in the middle of the night when his parents were sleeping and walked over a mile downtown wanting to buy candy. Of course, he had no money. The police found him toddling about and took him home. I guess that is whey they call them toddlers. Scary.
• United States
25 Jun 08
I bet that did scare your mom. I found out I walked and talked in my sleep also. Good idea on making sure the floor is cleaned up of toys and such. I am lucky in we have no stairs here. The door is what scares me the most I sure don't want him getting outside while we are sleeping. Thank you so much for sharing the website with me.
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@gemini_rose (16264)
25 Jun 08
My middle son who is 7 sometimes does it, he came downstairs one night while hubby and I were sat watching tv, he stood in front of my hubby and pulled his pants down and tried to wee on him! He was not awake, he just thought he was in the loo. We just guide him when he does it and make sure he is OK, we never wake him up. He does not do it all the time, just every so often.
@gemini_rose (16264)
26 Jun 08
You are very welcome, anytime!
• United States
26 Jun 08
That has to be one of the funniest stories I have ever heard. Thank you so much for sharing. I guess I should be very happy that mine is not thinking he is using the restroom lol. Thanks again for bringing me the best laugh I have had in a few days.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
25 Jun 08
As a few of the people said he will out grow it. I did. lol My mom would worry about me because me and my sister had bunkbeds and I was on the tope and to this day no one knows how I got off the top without falling or anything. They said when they asked me what I was doing I was looking to do my homework or something of that sort. I would also go to my other sisters room door and tell her she couldn't come over now because I was getting ready for dinner and my mom didn't want her to come over at that time. They never mentioned me crying or anything of that nature. But I do once in awhile now talk in my sleep as well as my husband.
• United States
26 Jun 08
Lol thank you for sharing your experiences. I can not beleive you made it up and down bunk bed stairs without hurting your self. That is amazing. I am glad to hear that he will more than likely out grow it. Thanks again.
@irishmist (3814)
• United States
28 Jun 08
I used to sleep walk when I was a child, but only for a little bit, it was a little while before I had my appendix out when I was 11 years old. I once slept walked out of the hose and was walking down the street, but something made me turn around and go back home. I rang the doorbell and both of my parents answered the door. My granddaughter walks in her sleep sometimes also.
• United States
28 Jun 08
That is scary that you walked down the street while sleeping. I bet your parents freaked out when they answered the door. I am scared that my son will do this. Going to have to check into better way of locking the door. Thanks for sharing.
@irishidid (8687)
• United States
28 Jun 08
My oldest did it. She also talked. Some of the things she said was pretty funny too. Like when she was eight and insisted she needed a cup of coffee. She would have to go to the bathroom most of the time when she was sleep walking, so I would just guide her to the bathroom.
• United States
28 Jun 08
Lol That is to cute needing coffee lol. Thank you for sharing. Kids can say the cutest things while awake and it sounds like even while they are sleeping lol. My oldest son has to share a room with his younger brother and they sleep argue lol I thought they was awake and went back there to get on to them and they were both sleeping and arguing. Can you believe that?
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Jun 08
hi triviababiesgirl I found out even older ladies sometimes sleepwalk. I wokeup from a dream about being up high and afraid and here I was clingint to the books in one of my bookcases with my feet steady under me and no heights to worry about. I felt ' really silly as I got back in bed. He was probably dreaming as he was walking and I do not think he knew what you were saying at all. just walk him gently back to bed. he will eventually out grow it and not sleep walk again. good luck and God bless.
• United States
28 Jun 08
That is funny. Thank you for sharing. My granny said that she thinks she drove in her sleep to work on night. That is really scary. It is scary to hear that people really do those things. I think you are right about him not knowing what I was saying. I guess it is best if I don't talk so loudly at him next time. Thank you so much for the help.
25 Jun 08
apparently i sleepwalked and also talked in my sleep when i was a child yet my brother didnt, i think it all depends on the individula child in question. its nothing to worry about hun just make sure your son is safe and there is nothing he can hurt himself with, he should grow out of it but rarely sometimes adults stil sleepwalk.
• United States
26 Jun 08
Thank you for making me feel a lot better about this. I do hope that he grows out of it.
• India
25 Jun 08
The sleep walking is nothing but the act of the person in his Sub-conscious state of mind.He knows that he is doing something, but not exactly. He may think its a dream or reality but he never realizes this is happening in his sleep. This kind of acts we can see often in Children. They tend to sleep with lot of imagination and they always dreaming of something, expecting something to happen. This imagination, extreme excitement make them do somethings in their sleep and walking is one of them. They sometimes sleepwalk and they know where are they going and why are they going but they don't realize what they're doing and why they're doing it. Its just a matter of time for them to change this behavior as their age increases.
• United States
26 Jun 08
Wow thank you very much. Your answer was very in depth and helped a great deal. The way you said it really described the way he acted when I spoke to him. Like he knew what he was doing but didn't realize why he was doing it. Thanks for a great answer and helping me understand better.
• United States
25 Jun 08
My son used to do this. I think especially if they are very heavy sleepers it's typical. One morning I found him asleep under the computer desk!! Freaked me out when he wasn't in bed! But as soon as I started to really worry about him sleepwalking and hurting himself....he stopped! Good Luck!
• United States
26 Jun 08
I bet that was freaky lol not knowing where he was at first. thank you for shaing your experiences with me. I am learning that he isn't doing it every night so that is a relief. Thanks again for sharing.
• United States
27 Jun 08
My son is four years old and he get up in the middle of the night and i will tell him to go to the bathroom and not really being awake he will just pee right there where he stands. Now I can't tell him just to go I actually have to take him in there or else I will have a mess on the floor to clean up.
• United States
28 Jun 08
LoL that is funny but it isn't. I guess I am pretty lucky in that mine has not done that yet. I better knock on wood lol because he is very likely to by the way he was acting that night. Thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
find the book "SLeep The Mysteries, The Problems, and The Solutions" by Carlos H. Schenck, M.D. Dr. Schenck is a sleep specialist and he discusses the different sleep disorders, including sleelpwalking. there are prescriptions for these disorders now. Dr. Schenck is a senior staff psychiatrist at the Hennepin County Medical Center and the Minnesota Regional Sleep Disorders Center. children usually outgrow sleepwalking..:)
• United States
25 Jun 08
Wow thank you very much. You have given me a wonderful answer. I will see if I can find that book. I bet my library might have it. I will look there first. I am glad to know that he will probably out grow it. I think it would be hard to guide an older person back to bed. thank you again for the awesome help.
@mimico (3617)
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
I don't really know what psychologists would say about this, but I did sleep walk when I was younger. It didn't occur that often though. It was more like my mind locked in my dream while my body was stuck in reality. Anyway, I don't think there's nothing really wrong with sleep walking unless you continue doing it until you reach your teens. How old is your child?
• United States
25 Jun 08
My youngest is six. That is good that you didn't sleep walk often. I am hoping that my son isn't either. I have stayed up late to see and so far he hasn't been up while I was up anyway. I will take that as a good sign.
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
24 Jun 08
I dont know if every child does it, but my brother used to do it all the time. He eventually grew out of it.
• United States
24 Jun 08
Thanks for sharing your story with me. I am glad to hear that your brother grew out of it.
@cncoke (439)
• China
15 Aug 08
Through your saying,I hae the same experience.My younger daughter used to wake up and pointed to the pillow and said something strangely.I told her to go to sleep,but she kept on doing that with crying a little.I think that is called something like somnambulate.As time passed by,she was getting better and better.When she was 8 years old.She nearly had no trouble of somnambulate.
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
ive been sleep walking when i was a kid. ive researched about it and found out it was basically from lack of sleep. dont worry they will outgrow this. im not expriencing sleep walking right now. im a sleep how do i know? lol i just asked the people i live with.
• United States
25 Jun 08
LoL on knowing how you don't sleep walk now. That was funny thanks for sharing. How can a kid have lack of sleep? I put them to bed at 8 pm. But knowing him he probably sits there and quietly plays until god knows when. So you maybe right on that one. Thanks for helping me understand it a bit more.