How old do you think is the best age to get married?

@lishiwei (1550)
China
June 27, 2008 8:11pm CST
I nearly 19th years old now but I still haven't girlfriend!Some of my friends who drop out of school have got married and even have child now.But I don't think that's good,I think it's too early. I think I woulndn't get married until 30-years old and I think it's the best age. How old are you and have you get married and how old are you when you do that?
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19 responses
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
28 Jun 08
I do not think that there is a right age to get married.
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@lishiwei (1550)
• China
28 Jun 08
Maybe yo are right,sometimes it's just by chance.
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@olivemai (4738)
• United States
28 Jun 08
I was married at twenty-one years of age! I have been married for twenty-five years now! Long time!
@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
Life begins at fourty as what others always talking about so you have more years to count on lol. I got married in the age of 27 and I think that just fine. But if you are prepare to get married and ready for a more colorful life anytime my friend you can get married.
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@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
29 Jun 08
yes, its not to be too early, take your time and have fun in young age. Sometimes having fun is where you find love lol.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
28 Jun 08
Yes,maybe anytime is ok.But I think it shouldn't be too early.Because we have nothing in the young age.
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@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
28 Jun 08
Well the first time I was 18 and looking back I think it was much to young. The second time I was 33 and I am still married to him but still deciding if 33 is to young. I think that it is just how you feel about the person you are involved with. You'll just know if it's time or not. You're still young you have plenty of time.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
28 Jun 08
Hehe...Yes,I'm so young that I have enough time.
• United States
28 Jun 08
I know that it varies from person to person. I have been married twice, and with my experiences I would have to say late twenties or early thirties. I did not even know who or what I wanted until I was that age. My first marriage I was twenty, and I had no business being married. Find yourself first, and establish a life for yourself before bringing anyone else into your life. Your relationship will be much more fullfilling. Good luck.
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
28 Jun 08
I don't think there is a perfect age to get married because everyone is different. What works for me may not work for anyone else. I've been married twice, first at 24 and then again at 51.
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@lishiwei (1550)
• China
28 Jun 08
Maybe yo are right,sometimes it's just by chance.
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28 Jun 08
i think so
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
hey men it depends if your prepared, physically, financially, and emotionally. Ask yourself if you are? and if your not just enjoy life men..
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@alexsis (2149)
• United States
29 Jun 08
I agree with you. 30 is a good age to get married. I got married at 22 and divorced at 24. I thought I was ready for marriage but apparently I wasn't. But I said 30 is good because you would be more mature and should be ready to settle down and stop playing the field.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
30 Jun 08
Oh,yes!Sometimes maybe is right but you shouln't let it limited you.
@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
hi lishiwei, for me there is no perfect age to get married, as long as you are ready financially and you found your true love, go for it. i think thats the best time. thanks and enjoy mylotting.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
28 Jun 08
Yes,maybe you are right!
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
30 Jun 08
Hi lishiwei, i think you should get married at the age of 25, it because i feel that the right age. I think you are well setteled. I hop you invite all of us in your marriage.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
30 Jun 08
Hehe...I will invite all of you. But I think maybe I'm still at school when I was 25 as I also want to be a master.
@olivemai (4738)
• United States
28 Jun 08
I think there is not a correct time to get married! If we are mature enough and we dated the other person long enough to know all their "problems" yet we still love them, then we just may be ready! I would not rush it at your age. Take your time to find someone well suited for you! The time will come if you do not rush or jump in with two feet!
@olivemai (4738)
• United States
28 Jun 08
Yes, it is good to have a career first!
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
28 Jun 08
Oh,many of us think there is no need to care of it.But I still think that we should do that after we have succeed in carrar so that we can build a happy family.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Jun 08
i had posted a discussion similar to this and most of the respond i got has a common thoughts that married is not the matter of age but it's up to both partner if they are ready to face the challenge behind it. although it's better to got married if your age is more than 30 already because this is the age that you felt true love.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
30 Jun 08
Yeah,sometimes if you want to find the true love is really very hard and need many times. Good luck!The best wishes to you.
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
28 Jun 08
I think it's different for everyone, lishiwei. Some people are very mature when they are quite young, and have had lots of life experience. Other people are not ready at 30. I was 22 when I got married, and I've been married for nearly 29 years. I don't regret it at all. I hope you find a nice girlfriend soon, and I'm sure you'll know in your heart when it's the right time to get married.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
30 Jun 08
They say the best time is 23 for boy and 21 for the girl in our country.You are so luck that you almost at the right time.
@Craz3hC (110)
• United States
29 Jun 08
As a minor {{lolz}} I totally agree that marriage at 19 is too young! That's just crazy. You're making a commitment that you're not even mature enough to keep. I do agree that 30 is the best age 'cause that's like the middle of an average life span. I dunno. It just seems the right age.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
30 Jun 08
Hehe...We have the same idea.I think we can't survy the children until 30.
@Craz3hC (110)
• United States
1 Jul 08
yeah...XD
• United States
28 Jun 08
I got married when i was 20.. I am still 20... but i suggest you get to know this guy before you get married.. Unlike me i only knew my husband only 5 months before i got married
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
30 Jun 08
Hehe....It's really to quickly.Thanks for your advice! Good luck!The best wishes to you.
@queenofarms (1659)
• United States
1 Jul 08
I'm in my 40's and was married 2 months before my 19th birthday. My husband had just turned 20.
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Jun 08
About twenty five to thirty. Yes, I am serious.
@mary463 (145)
• India
28 Jun 08
Its better to get married for a man 28 .Because on that time only our mind will adjust for the challenges in life.After marriage we have to adjust a lot for many thing.I think in that time our mind willing to adjust for everything.20yrs is the time to enjoy for good thing.You celebrate for the happy memories for the coming responsible days
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
30 Jun 08
i think if you want to have a baby early,you should get married 24 left or right. 19 is too early to get married.
• United States
30 Jun 08
There is no right age, for some there is no age. When it happens it happens. For some, just living together is enough of a commitment.