WHO AMONG YOU ARE PERFECT WIVEs?

Philippines
June 28, 2008 11:10pm CST
my husband always complains that he wanted me to do this and that.. im not a superwoman who can play different roles at one time i cant even pretend to be someone that im not!! damn those husbands who never be contented on their wives
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• Philippines
30 Jun 08
There's no such thing as a Perfect Wife, or a perfect anything, for that matter. Don't try to change yourself just to please your hubby. Be yourself and let him love you for who you are. You'll never be happy being someone else. He should be able to accept you and love you just the way you are. Suggesting that you try to improve for the better is okay but to demand that you change yourself for him is crazy!
@anujain75 (1059)
• India
29 Jun 08
No one of us are perfect,No one is bad.We are human beings.Actually what happens some quality of ours become good on others view and some become bad.Some thing applicable on other's. If I were in your place,then I will tell him that you was not blind when we are dating.You know positive and negatives of my nature.If you do not like me and want a superwoman than why you marry me. My husband also tell the same thing when I was newly married.I told the same thing to my husband.He now do not say any thing.Actually in my country this things come under mental harrasment.Laws of our country are strict.
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
29 Jun 08
They are not contented with themselves and so they take it upon themselves to make everyone else miserable.
• Philippines
29 Jun 08
Well, I'm just wondering why some husbands are that cruel to their wives. These husbands make their wives life miserable. In a relationship, each one should accept the weakness of the other. It is not encouraging to keep on making comments to our partner. I just pity on you in this situation. I wish you can still hold on to your situation. Just be good all the time and let your husband realize that even if you are not want he wants you to be, you have a unique characteristic that he could not find to other women. Good luck to you.
• United States
29 Jun 08
Nobody is 'perfect.' But we are all 'superwomen' in our own way. And whether you believe it or not...whether he believes it or not...you do play different roles at one time every day. You juggle your roles, and though you may not do it like he wants you to, you do the best you can and that's all you should do. You should never be expected to be someone you're not. If that's what he expects, then he should have found that someone and let you find someone who expected...you! I'm sorry you're going through this.