sophie_142005

@sophie_142005 (52)

Philippines • Age 37

Joined myLot 16 years ago

im ready to listen see things right and not taking any sides.. try evaluate try to see things more clearly possitively and equally and not to make comparrisons

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please tell me "how to deal with an alcoholic person?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 6 Jul 08

my father and my husband are alcoholics.. they cant sleep if they're not drunk.. they drink alcohol even if they dont have enough money and they'll use tomorrows budget just to have that alcohol and what bothers me most is their...

alcohol

family

husband

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tell me about you soap?

diansinta @diansinta (7544) • Indonesia 24 Dec 06

mine is liquid, it says contain milk in it, so it will be whitened you skin, and it smell like liliy and rose. but in my bathroom i have ordinary soap with germ killer, that i use it for my back

soap

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sophie_142005 well im only using ordinary soap like safeguard zest haha whatever soap is available ill use it

6 Jul 08

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what do you like for breakfast?

diansinta @diansinta (7544) • Indonesia 23 Dec 06

i usually a cup of coffe and a noodle, or a croisant i bought last night in cirkle k accros the street. how about you?

coffee

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sophie_142005 i want hotdogs and rice i dont know what's the english term of that rice but we cooked it together with onion and garlic.. i dont drink coffee i love milk in the morning and a tinapa " a steamed fished cooked in coconut hairs".. sometimes im contented in...

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At what age did u get married ?

leo2727 @leo2727 (138) • India 6 Jul 08

i think the right age for girls to get married is 25,by that time they r finacially independent ....i got married at 24 and my husband was 27 at that time .my mother was only 19 when she married and my grandmother got married at...

married

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sophie_142005 i didnt say they dont have the right to get married.. read my comment is there a words that says they dont have the right to get married if they dont want to have children? what i only means is when the persons got married they can be considered as family.....

6 Jul 08

At what age did u get married ?

leo2727 @leo2727 (138) • India 6 Jul 08

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sophie_142005 then why did they get married then? when you two are married you're already a family minus the child ofcourse thats what i knew and my opinion

6 Jul 08

What are your feelings about a married couple in love but not sleeping together?

CharRay7 @CharRay7 (1549) • United States 3 Jul 08

Hi, I've been married to my hubby for 9 years now and yes we still love each other. For the past 7 years, we've slept in separate rooms, in separate beds. Reasons: 1. he likes it warm, I like it cool 2. he snores and I'm...

cpap

love

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sophie_142005 that's stranged but then you said you still love each other.. im sure you find a way to have time for each other as long as you're not neglecting each other's company its ok after all you've been together for 7 years now sleeping separately

6 Jul 08

At what age did u get married ?

leo2727 @leo2727 (138) • India 6 Jul 08

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sophie_142005 i just get married last january and i'm 20 years old too young but during these days it doesnt matter as long as you knew you can support the family that you'r going to make

6 Jul 08

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What is the DIFFERENCE between a LEARNED PERSON and an EDUCATED PERSON?

Jhordie @Jhordie (5115) • Philippines 5 Jul 08

This was the question of my Educ 44 professor last meeting. Isn't it difficult? I am sure my friends here in MYLOT will be able to help me answer this MIND-BOGGLING and TRICKY question of hers. Thanks in advance...

difference

educated

learned

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sophie_142005 jhordie mag tatagalog nko ha.. mag kaiba talaga ang nag aral sa may pinag aralan.. yung nag aral yun ngang level ng natapos nya what ever the level it is nag aral parin un yung may pinag aralan yun ung ginagamit nya yung pinag aralan nya he's acting like...

6 Jul 08

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im unlucky

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 3 Jul 08

sometimes i just wanted to laugh when im starting to think how unlucky i am.. imagine having an unfaitful husband, lost my child, no job, didnt even finished any course, having a very difficult life no money no work aghh all this...

family

inlucky

life

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Why do you ask me if you aren't going to listen??

bubbles89 @bubbles89 (122) • United States 1 Jul 08

All of us have pet peeves and I'm sure I do some stuff that drives people crazy. But it really makes me nuts when someone asks me to tell them what to do and when I do they do it a different way. For instance...A friend of mine...

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sophie_142005 maybe she's just really trying to annoy you

3 Jul 08

PTC wars.. lol

diansinta @diansinta (7544) • Indonesia 29 Jun 08

Approving could be dangerousIf i approve a new friends, i always afraid of 2 things ; one, long banner at my "Comment from friends" and the other is massage contain invitation to join [b]in the second...

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sophie_142005 most myloters only wants to earn something maybe that's what they want that's why they keep on doing that to you have a loooooonnng patience dear

3 Jul 08

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Military Wife?

bubbles89 @bubbles89 (122) • United States 26 Jun 08

Hi everyone. I'm a military wife and remember that at one time there was a "Role that I play" category in the intrest group. However, I can't find it. Can anyone tell me if they know where it is? Sorry to be so picky but if you...

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sophie_142005 its hard to find and if ver you find it you'll fill-up to many forms its a very long process and that's what i hate most

3 Jul 08

my husband blames me for my lost child..

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 3 Jul 08

my son died when he is 3 weeks old.. and my husband blames me for it.. i never wanted or wished my son to die.. if it hurts him it hurts me most.. the doctor said he died of cardiac arrest and they say congenital disease can...

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im chubby.. how can i have a better shape?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 3 Jul 08

i already gave birth to 2 child though i've lost one.. then my shape became bigger im not fat but one day i noticed that i can no longer wear my pants.. and i cant wear some of my clothes anymore.. please help me

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I am shocked. Now I have heard it all!

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 2 Jul 08

I took my daughter out to lunch with her uncle. We do this once a week. We were sitting there eating our meal. When this little girl not much older than my soon to be 5 yr old starts crying. Why you ask? Because her grandmother...

skinny

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sophie_142005 its a good thing that at her early age she knew that soda would not do her good.. kids should be like her how i wish

3 Jul 08

does my husband deserves another chance?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 2 Jul 08

my husband and i had a very serious problem.. it almost ruin our family.. he cheated on me many times and this time i gave up.. i returned everything including our wedding ring.. i packed his clothes and all his belongings.. and...

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i want my husband out of my life!!!

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 28 Jun 08

last night i talked to my husband and i told him maybe it would be better if he'll be out of my life for good.. i returned my wedding ring and say im sure i would be a better person if he leaves.. he's the one whos making my life...

husband

relationships

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sophie_142005 my baby died too.. when he's still 3 weeks old

2 Jul 08

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would you agree having a relationship to a married man?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 30 Jun 08

well, my husband and i are married for almost 6 months and he cheated on me many times and his last mistress is single and a college student.. if you're on that girl's position would you have an affair to a married man?

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sophie_142005 yeah i guess but the girl is not sending any message to my husbands # anymore

30 Jun 08

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my mother-in-law tolerates my husband!!!

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 30 Jun 08

my husband is one of a hell cheater, used to cheat on me!! and his mother told me ITS OK HE DONT LEAVE HE COMES HOME EVERYDAY!! what a mess!!!

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sophie_142005 i have told him to leave my house many times but he didnt! his mom told him not to leave! and tell me dont do that to my child he loves you just have a longer patience he'll changed!

30 Jun 08