would you agree having a relationship to a married man?

I won't ask you why you stay with a man who has cheated on you so early in your marriage but I hope that you eventually tire of him. I would not have an affair with a married man because he's cheating on someone already so what would make me think that he wouldn't cheat on me? I'm not willing to invest my emotions on someone who cannot be honest and faithful to me.

Hi Sophie, I'm married and first of all would never have an affair. And second if I wasn't married I would never be involved with someone who is married. That's awful. It destroys families, marriages, finances, and steals peace, joy, and dignity. I get so frustrated when I hear about women who get involved with married men. It breaks my heart because these women don't care for anyone but themselves and I don't know how they could look in the mirror and not feel horrible about what they're doing. I hope that you find healing in your marriage. Is he still seeing the college student?

I wouldn't have an affair with a married man; if he cheats on his wife he'll cheat on me also. I never understood why a woman would date a married man and then expect him to leave his wife for her. Plenty of single guys out there! I also wouldn't stay married to a man who habitually cheats on me. I couldn't stay with a man I couldn't trust, and who knows what kind of disease he could bring home?

Hi sopie_142005, It isn't healthy for your body to experience such torturing caused by your husband and his mistress day after day. If it happen in years, the sad in your heart will caused damage to your body. And this is the truth. I am not trying to make you feel uncomfortable, but only to make you aware. Love your self before you loving some one else. All your discussions its about sad relationship with your husband. Sometime we will find mans are like rooster, busy to look for another female chicken, this type, never changes. But there is another type of man also. Horse type, a Stallion always in love for one Mare all of his live. and that's a man that we are looking for.

No i would never have a relationship with a married man. I have seen how much hurt it causes and would not wish that on anyone. I don't understand why you stay with him. I think that you desreve better. If that was me i would have left him a long time ago.

No i wouldn't because i had a husband that cheated and i wouldn't put someone else through that kind of pain. I also wouldn't stay married to a man that cheated on me. Every time he cheats would increase the chance of me getting an STD, that and the total lack of respect for our vows and me as a person would end it.