i want my husband out of my life!!!

Hi sophie_142005, Is he working? Why this husband make you unhappy? tell me what he did.

how many years have you been married? if i may ask..i guess he really loves you if he wont go...and why the sudden fall out of love?

Oh, I feel your pain! My first husband cheated on me many times as well. It does hurt so much! I loved him, but I had to make him leave so I could get on with my life and be a happier and better person. I called a lawyer who told me to pack up his things that he would need right away and put them by the door. Then tell him to get out. It worked for me. Ask him why he doesn't want to leave. Tell him that what he's doing is hurting you so badly that you can't take it anymore. You are worth more than the way he's treating you. You should also ask him why he married you, since he's telling you that you're not as good as his ex's. If he keeps saying things like that, ask him why is he no longer married to his ex's, since he claims they were better than you. It sounds like he has a really big problem, since he cannot stay married! If a man thinks that he can keep getting away with cheating and causing you pain, he will continue to do so. There is no help for this man, unless he gets a lot of therapy. It sounds like you've taking a really good first step in telling him that you want him to leave, and giving him your wedding ring. That should convince him that you are serious. But if he continues to refuse to leave, you should think about moving out yourself. You need to do whatever it takes to get away from this man so that you will be able to start a happier life. I wish you the best of luck. I wish I could do more to help you because I know the pain you're going through.

hi sophie. great decision. it takes lot of effort to say it. how could you do it? i admire your guts. what have you planned ahead. is anything already in your mind? i can understand perhaps it is because of his crossing your no tolerance zone of peace and tranquility. best of luck dear..

I completely understand your position. My ex cheated, too, and I divorced him after 13 years of marriage and two children. He put me through all kinds of heartache, and I completely empathize with you. Contact an attorney and ask what your options are. You may be able to make him leave, and it may be that it would be easier for you to move out. Either way, taking back the power you have given him is imperative. You've taken the first step. Good for you. Just keep believing in yourself.

then why don't u leave and find somewhere to go if u don't wanna b with him anymore.. move in with a friend or family member.