sophie_142005

@sophie_142005 (52)

Philippines • Age 37

Joined myLot 16 years ago

im ready to listen see things right and not taking any sides.. try evaluate try to see things more clearly possitively and equally and not to make comparrisons

Discussions (14)

sophie_142005's Discussions

please tell me "how to deal with an alcoholic person?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 6 Jul 08

my father and my husband are alcoholics.. they cant sleep if they're not drunk.. they drink alcohol even if they dont have enough money and they'll use tomorrows budget just to have that alcohol and what bothers me most is their...

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3 people

im unlucky

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 3 Jul 08

sometimes i just wanted to laugh when im starting to think how unlucky i am.. imagine having an unfaitful husband, lost my child, no job, didnt even finished any course, having a very difficult life no money no work aghh all this...

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1 person

my husband blames me for my lost child..

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 3 Jul 08

my son died when he is 3 weeks old.. and my husband blames me for it.. i never wanted or wished my son to die.. if it hurts him it hurts me most.. the doctor said he died of cardiac arrest and they say congenital disease can...

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2 people

im chubby.. how can i have a better shape?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 3 Jul 08

i already gave birth to 2 child though i've lost one.. then my shape became bigger im not fat but one day i noticed that i can no longer wear my pants.. and i cant wear some of my clothes anymore.. please help me

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does my husband deserves another chance?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 2 Jul 08

my husband and i had a very serious problem.. it almost ruin our family.. he cheated on me many times and this time i gave up.. i returned everything including our wedding ring.. i packed his clothes and all his belongings.. and...

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5 people

my mother-in-law tolerates my husband!!!

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 30 Jun 08

my husband is one of a hell cheater, used to cheat on me!! and his mother told me ITS OK HE DONT LEAVE HE COMES HOME EVERYDAY!! what a mess!!!

cheating spouses

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would you agree having a relationship to a married man?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 30 Jun 08

well, my husband and i are married for almost 6 months and he cheated on me many times and his last mistress is single and a college student.. if you're on that girl's position would you have an affair to a married man?

cheating spouses

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who have a bigger responsibilty? the wife or the husband?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 30 Jun 08

the responsibilty of the husbands is to work for his famillies future and living, while wives are the one who cares for the family.. who has the bigger responsibility?

responsibilities

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when was the last time that your husband tells you how much he loved you?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 28 Jun 08

me? when we first lived in together and that was a year ago and it hurts

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i want my husband out of my life!!!

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 28 Jun 08

last night i talked to my husband and i told him maybe it would be better if he'll be out of my life for good.. i returned my wedding ring and say im sure i would be a better person if he leaves.. he's the one whos making my life...

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2 people

WHO AMONG YOU ARE PERFECT WIVEs?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 28 Jun 08

my husband always complains that he wanted me to do this and that.. im not a superwoman who can play different roles at one time i cant even pretend to be someone that im not!! damn those husbands who never be contented on their...

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im not ashamed to be ugly!!

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 28 Jun 08

im a married woman but my husband used to tell me YOU KNOW WHAT? MY EX GIRLFRIEND IS PRETTIER THAN YOU.. MY EX WIFE IS BETTER THAN YOU.. he always compares me with he's past girlfriends and it hurts but i told him im not ashamed...

relationships debate

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5 people

the debate of right and wrong.. homosexuality is it a choice? is it a sin?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 28 Jun 08

i started reading discussions and caught up with this issue of homosexuality.. the writer said homosexuality is a sin but she encourages it she said it is wrong and its a choice.. others say its not for its in their genes and...

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stay? or stay out?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 27 Jun 08

when love seems to be fading would you stay or stay out of it? if you two are married and it seems that it's not working anymore would you stay or stay out of it? im sure a lot of people can relate about this and i hope you...

love in despair

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1 person