my mother-in-law tolerates my husband!!!

Not to sound rude, but it sounds like you Tolerate your husbands cheating as well. You are still with him and you know he cheats on you? And then you want to slam you mom-in-law for tolerating that? Just a thought.

Yes its really bad, my ex husband cheated on me but not as mutsh but what he did almost every day is "hit me" yes and for stupid resons. One day I asked him why he hits me and he said "because you love it and you wont be happy if I stop". Can you imagine? And he hit me for being to ugly, fat, layzy, and stuped o and also his ex wife was better than me that was the things he told me every single time that he got mad. I mught have being ugly for him but I'm 5' 4" and when i was with him my weigth was 100 pounds. I'm not layzy or stupid. So my point is that there is no reason for men to do anything that will harm you.

i was treated so badly with my american ex, we are both young at the time but for me it wont be a reason for him to cheat and mis treat me unfairly. when i got the chance i talk to him and let him choice, he couldnt make up his mind, so i left him and went back on my homeland. i never regret doing it, since right now i been love with a wonderful loyal man in my life. his parents love me too, see alot love me unconditinaly right now. girl you are young as i can see on your pic, u have the looks so why stay? dont tolerate his vices, your the only one whose giving pain in your life, go and move on. just a peice of advice on a person who exprienced such things.