Do you have a sister?

@mayka123 (16604)
India
July 3, 2008 1:01am CST
And if so does she live with you or is she married and staying far away from you. How is your relationship with her now? I have two sisters and both of them are married. We hardly get a chance to meet each other. I think just a couple of times a year or so. But we talk to each other on the phone very often. How do you communicate with your sister and how often?
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Jul 08
Yah i have 2 sisters. both are younger to me, one is married and live in other city but sure we are in contact, they vist usand we also go their to meet and tele communication is on regular basis. other is youngest of all and as joint family we are togather with our parents. Take care
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Jul 08
they are stay home, like most of girls take care
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
7 Jul 08
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
3 Jul 08
Thanks for your reply. What do your sisters do? Just at home like it is usual for girls in your country or are they working?
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@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
4 Jul 08
Hey mayka, yes I have one and only sister. we are 6 kids in our family. my sister is married with two sons. we talk daily, hourly and every minute- this is becuase we work in the same office and we sit a few meters from each other. I love her soo much and I even babysit her sons when I was jobless until they grew big. She loves me the same way and cant give me away for anything under the sun.
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
4 Sep 08
yes mayka, we work in the same office and funny enough when I was being employed my boss knew that she was my sister but he did not mind........we work in different departments! I am in IT and she is in export department. She protects and I protect her! But she is like a mother to me. Thanks for the br my friend. Happy mylotting .
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
4 Jul 08
Its so nice to be so close to your sister - I mean work in the same office. There can never be a better friend than ones sister.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
4 Jul 08
i do not have any sister. i am only daughter in the family. i have an elder brother. as i do not have any sister, so no question of communication. its nice to grow with a sister.
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
4 Jul 08
As you do not have a sister you may be close to your cousin sisters?
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• Canada
3 Jul 08
I have 2 blood sisters, one is older than me by 3 years, and is not married, and lives upstairs from us (me, my dad and grandmother), and the other blood sister is only 8 years old, and she lives close to my mother who lives in London Ontario (my mother has temporary custody of her and my little brother who is 10). I talk to my older sister every day and we hang out alot too. My little sister I don't talk to as much. I also have good friends that I consider to be my sisters befcause I am very close to them
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
3 Jul 08
Its sad that you are not in touch with your younger sister. But its good that you have good friends whom you are very close to. Take care and happy posting.
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• Australia
4 Jul 08
I have 1 older sister and 5 younger sisters. My older sister is married and she comes over and sees the family when it suits her,the other ones live at home with mum and dad. We are all close to one an other.
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
4 Jul 08
Thanks for your reply. Seems your 5 younger sisters are still not married. Are they working or studying?
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• United States
4 Jul 08
MY one sister is annoying but you can't live with her or live without her, one day she is nice the next day mean... OH WELL ITS LIFE I GUESS!!!
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
4 Jul 08
How old is your nice and mean sister?
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@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
16 Jul 08
I do not have any siblings, it was a wonder I was even born as my mom was said never to be able to have children. Some way or another she got pregnant with me even though her uterus (?) was sick. I'm pretty healthy so I'm not complaining, but doctors warned the chances were huge the next kid would have multiple handicaps and a slight chance to have a happy live as it would be totally dependable even when grown up. My parents decided not to try and have kids again. My family is a foster family though and we have had kids around the house for a couple of months upto two years who couldn't live at home. I have had 2 sisters and three brothers so far of which 2 are still here aged 2 and allmost 4. The youngest came to us when he was 13 days old and will most likely stay here till he's 18 or whenever he feels like moving out; no rush . Both his parents are mentally handicapped and there is no way he's moving back. The other boy will not be with us much longer and will go into psychiatric child care, he's very much damaged... . So yes, I have had a girl living here that felt pretty much like my sister for allmost two years. She went back home and I never heard from her again as her mother forbids it. I have talked to her on messenger two times when she sneaked online at her older sisters home but they found out and now we can't talk anymore. It's really sad because I loved that girl as if she were family, basicly, she still is in my opinion. She's in my heart.
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
16 Jul 08
It's true we can't force ourselves onto someone but this girl wants to stay in contact, it's merely that her mom forbids her too. I can only try and respect that but it's still very hard. Happy posting!
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
16 Jul 08
So you are a miracle baby for your parents. Its good you are in good health and enjoy looking after the handicapped children around you. Its sad when we get attached to someone and they just stop communicating with us. But then you cant force yourself on anyone and life has to go on. Have a nice day and happy posting.
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
17 Jul 08
Probably when this girl gets more independent she will be able to contact you more often. Hope for the best. Thanks for your response and happy posting.
• India
10 Sep 08
Yes I have a sister who lives about 500 Kms. We meet may be once or twice a year and talk regularly on phone.
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
12 Sep 08
So you must be eagerly looking for the holidays when you two will be together. I presume she must be married and staying elsewhere.
• India
13 Sep 08
She is married and staying else where. We are surely looking forward to holidays to be able to spend some quality time together.
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
18 Sep 08
So something to look forward to these Diwali vacations. I think you may be calling her home for the vacations!
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
i have two sisters. one older than me and one younger. the older one lives with my mom. she is single. the younger one is married and lives abroad. but now she is staying here with me. she is pregnant and soon be giving birth on september. she wants to give birth here with us her family than to give birth abroad. when she was abroad she calls me once a week and text everyday. we also chat. me and my younger sister are really close
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
3 Jul 08
Girls prefer being with their parents during childbirth and more so when its their first baby. My best wishes to your sister. Thanks for your reply.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
17 Jul 08
No, I do not have any sister.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
18 Jul 08
Oh! May to bhool hi gaya ki aap hain.....aur 'gap' fill kar sakti hain....... Many thanks for your support and kind words.
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
17 Jul 08
main hoon na
@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
Hi myka123, its me again, yes i have 3 sisters and we are four, all girls. all of us have a family and inspite of that we are still close with each other. not just we love each other but we also help each other, i think sisters should be like that. thanks
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
3 Jul 08
Hi rosema, How has your day been? I think sisters are always closer to each other than brothers. What do your sisters do? Do you all stay close to each other or in different cities?
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@mariechin (426)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
I have a sister. I love her so much, She's one of my security blanket. I communicate with her by internet...
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
My sister is not with me right now. She's in NY and I'm in Phils. She use to be my reference person. That's why even if we are oceans apart, I didn't lose my goal in life. Everytime I see her successful, it makes me feel following her footsteps. Right now, I'm a nurse. I don't like to be a nurse, but when I see my sister enjoying the life of being a nurse, I will always be contented on being a nurse, but it doesn't necessarily mean that I will not pursue what I want in my life. I miss my sister. She'll be coming home this 2009.. I am very excited at last, i will hug her again!
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
31 Jul 08
Good you will be meeting your sister in 2009. Give her one hug from me too! And why are you not regular on mylot?
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
17 Jul 08
Thanks a lot for your reponse. It seems you sister is not staying with you? Is she married and gone away or you?
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@roshand8 (1478)
• Sri Lanka
6 Jul 08
Yes i do have one younger sister,last month she gave birth for cute little baby boy..cheers..
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
7 Jul 08
Congrats to you and the new parents. What have they named the baby? Or is it still time for the naming ceremony? Happy posting.
@roshand8 (1478)
• Sri Lanka
11 Jul 08
Thank you.His name is Zion.cheers...
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
31 Jul 08
Hi roshand, How is Zion doing? You enjoying life with him around? Or does he stay with his parents seperately?
@dwiwin (101)
• Indonesia
3 Jul 08
I have two sisters, and both had married. one of them stay in UAE. we communicate by phone or chat. we can do everyday or at least three times a week. with my sister near me, she sometimes spent her weekend in my house- I still live with my parents,.
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
3 Jul 08
Thanks for your reply. What to your sisters do? Housewives or working?
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I have a beautiful twin sister and I miss her dearly. She lives in New Zealand and I live in the USA but we keep in contact regularly, well I do but she's a little slow when it comes to technology haha. We are very close and hardly even argue. She is happily married with four kids, who I also miss a lot too.
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
24 Aug 08
Sorry for the delay in replying. I always liked to meet twins. Would always try to find the similarites and differences between them. You must surely be looking forward to your holidays together.
@kellys3ps (3723)
• United States
9 Sep 08
I only have a brother.
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
10 Sep 08
Do the two of you stay together?
@switlyf (649)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
hello, i have 2 sisters and they live near our house so we're always together. We all have our own families now but that was never a hindrance for us on having our bonding moments, we still eat together and sometimes we drink with our cousins. Happy mylotting, cheers!
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
18 Sep 08
Its good that the three of you are close by and can have your get to gethers regularly. Nowadays everyone with their busy lifestyles dont have time for their families at all. All the best and take care.
• United States
12 Aug 08
I have a sister, but we live about 1,500 miles apart. Once we were adults we didn't really see alot of each other? I was in the military, then we lived apart in miles. But truely, she was a hitter and not real noce to me even when we were kids, so it is better this way. I do love her and wish her good health and a happy life. but we do better miles apart. And no..we haven't talked in years. If she needed help, I woudl help. (Like, if she were sick.) But we did not like each other as kids and as adults it is OK now (I have made peace with this) we will probably not have a relationship as adults. How can you have a relationship wiht a person that has mean to you from birth..or that is negative and you cannot trust? Family or not, nope. I doubt we have anything to talk about. (I was born when she was 4 nd the first thing she said was "Throw her in the garbage." It has not gotten better for her. She never ..even form birth, wanted me around. -I did not stand a chance, I think?)
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
24 Aug 08
I dunno how to respond to this. Its bad that brothers and sisters feel this way about each other. But I think my brother felt the same about me. I was adopted by my uncle and I got all the love and attention that I needed there. So did not miss out on brothers or sisters love and affection.
@tismesara (113)
• United States
8 Sep 08
i have a sister, she lives many states away, she is married with a kid. our relationship is on the rocks right now but it was good for a couple years... we used to email and text quite often, infact everyday, but now its an email maybe once a month...
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
11 Sep 08
There are ups and downs in every relationship. We should just know how to handle it and make sure things dont go haywire. Its good you keep in touch with your sister regularly.
@KellyMate (361)
12 Aug 08
I have 2 sisters, but their half-sisters. They both live with their mother. One is 8 and one is 16. Im very close to the 16 year old, and we have nearly the same names!! Me being Kelly, and her Keely! I love my younger sister to pieces though! Shes wonderful! I talk to her on the phone very often and I talk to my other sister on msn or the phone everyday! I very often visit my sisters and go to stay with them :) I dont know what I would do without my sisters!
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
14 Aug 08
Thanks a lot for your response and happy posting.