sureshailawadi

@sureshailawadi (43)

India • Age 64

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Would you have let her in to use your phone?

pandaeyes @pandaeyes (2065) 26 Feb 10

I just answered the door to a woman who told me she was knocking on her friends door around the corner and they were not answering. She said she wanted to phone them and showed me her mobile phone which she said was run out of...

con

dubious

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sureshailawadi You have done absolutely right not to allow her in. If she genuinely needed help she would not be hesitant to give the phone no. of her friends whom she wanted to contact. So I don't think you should have any guilt feling about not helping her. She got what...

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.. is it right to compliment your mate often ?

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 13 Jan 10

my husband was angry with me for "thanking" him for everything that he has been doing for me for the past 3 weeks. well since i broke my leg i was unable to do almost everything .. he cooked me breakfast +lunch before going...

compliments

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sureshailawadi Too many verbal thanks especially to your partner are likely to upset him/ her. When you have tied the knot, the appreciation should be seen and read in the eyes of the partner. Same way too many sorry's are also likely to upset. So amongst partners the...

14 Jan 10

If you had one thousand to invest

maria_k @maria_k (925) • United States 28 Sep 08

Enough discussion with bux and ptc. Let's talk about something fun. Suppose I gave 1 thousand and tell you to invest it in any programs listed below. It does not matter to me if you loose it all. It's a play money for you. So,...

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sureshailawadi I would invest 300 in CD, 300 in stock market and 400 in mutual funds.

29 Sep 08

Will you leave your Partner......

cecelgay @cecelgay (563) • Philippines 14 Sep 08

Will you leave your partner if you found out that his not capable of having a child? One of the most important part in marriage life is having a child it serve as a binder in any relationship, but what if you found out that your...

children

love

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sureshailawadi In my opinion one should not leave his/ her partner for this flimsy reason of not being able to beget a child. I think both should take a concerted decision to adopt a child (certainly not from the relatives or known people) and this will surely give them lot...

15 Sep 08

Do you have a sister?

@mayka123 @mayka123 (16604) • India 3 Jul 08

And if so does she live with you or is she married and staying far away from you. How is your relationship with her now? I have two sisters and both of them are married. We hardly get a chance to meet each other. I think just a...

married

relationship

sister

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sureshailawadi She is married and staying else where. We are surely looking forward to holidays to be able to spend some quality time together.

12 Sep 08

Do you have a sister?

@mayka123 @mayka123 (16604) • India 3 Jul 08

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sureshailawadi Yes I have a sister who lives about 500 Kms. We meet may be once or twice a year and talk regularly on phone.

10 Sep 08

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Do you believe tht eating together makes the family happier?

pehpot @pehpot (4762) • Philippines 9 Sep 08

My family loves to eat, in fact we eta more 3 times a day. at breakfast we sit at the table and finish eating just in time to prepare lunch. We talk a lot while eating. We share experiences, our story and catching ups while...

eating together

family together

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sureshailawadi Yes it is true. Eating together gets the family closer and you can easily share your thoughts, worries, etc. When everyone is relaxed and together, you are likely to get better ideas and solutions to your problems.

10 Sep 08

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'I'm Sorry For All The Hurt I Have Caused' - Would you forgive?

ellie333 @ellie333 (21016) 28 Jul 08

I HAD a friend who is now living with my ex-husband, okay he is an ex but she knowingly went out of her way to cause hurt and harm not only to me but to my children too. I am a very forgiving person and have forgiven as I don't...

betrayal

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sureshailawadi You have dignified yourself by forgiving her, but she certainly doesn't deserve your friendship any more. As such she has inflicted sufficient damage to you, you should not give her opportunity for more.

29 Jul 08

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Help! I can't fall asleep!

emilysdabomb @emilysdabomb (360) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

How come some people fall asleep instantly once their head hits the pillow? I do envy them. I normally sleep at 3 or 4 am and wake up at around 11 or 12 noon. I have a home-based job so I can sleep and wake up whenever I want. But...

sleep

sleeping pattern

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sureshailawadi You body bio-clock has set the way you are sleeping now. It will take sometime to reset back to normal. You will have to make serious efforts for the same and must not give up for at least a week. Still if you do not get back to normal then you will have to...

9 Feb 07

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Watch out for these scams, folks!

Penny Medlock @badpenny (741) • Lancaster, Texas 8 Feb 07

In my never-ending search for online income, I decided to post my resume on Craig's list. It seemed a good idea at the time, and probably was, all in all, but the result was totally unexpected. I received about 100 emails from...

job scams

scam alert

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sureshailawadi Thanks for the warning.

9 Feb 07

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embarassing moments...

lovelyprune @lovelyprune (266) • Philippines 6 Feb 07

one of the most embarassing moments that i can recall now happened in law school... i stood up in class to ask a question, and in the course of discussing my question with the professor, i mispronounced the word "fact"... i was...

embarassing moments

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sureshailawadi You should have just said sorry and corrected yourself.

7 Feb 07

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Cover your holes!

tiggyann @tiggyann (614) • United States 31 Jan 07

this is a good practice eveytime you are out treasure hunting, COVER YOUR HOLES! :) Remember if someone was digging in your yard, you would want them to cover up their holes, right? Why cover your holes, because if you dig...

treasure

treasure hunting

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sureshailawadi It is an excellent idea to protect youeself and care for others also.

31 Jan 07

Help-- Conflict with raising a child

KrisNY @KrisNY (7590) • United States 31 Jan 07

OK so it seems that I am having some conflict with my fiance over raising my daughter- She is not his child but has been with us since she was 3-- She is 10 now. It seems like every week- I hear from him-- You let her run your...

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sureshailawadi It is very difficult to draw a line in such situations. You will only have to give time for the relationship to improve.

31 Jan 07

how failure is important for sucess??

anshul1912 @anshul1912 (256) • India 20 Jan 07

To win all the time , in sport, war and business, can be dehumanising. The best sportspersons, politicians, professionals and businesspersons should accept and savour defeat,because occasional losers turn out to be decent guys —...

debating

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sureshailawadi Failure is the first step to success

28 Jan 07

Thinking about being a programmer as a career

joshrulez2 @joshrulez2 (44) 28 Jan 07

Well I am only 16 now, and I am starting to learn some scripting languages, and I know i need to concntrate on C, C++ and PHP the most, and I just want some opinions from people, do you think it is a good career to go into, and is...

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sureshailawadi It is an excellent career if you really have interest in it and enjoy developing programs.

28 Jan 07

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Wlould you be fun to meet in person?

tarachand @tarachand (3895) • India 28 Jan 07

Why do you think what you think about yourself?

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sureshailawadi I am the best in my own eyes.

28 Jan 07

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star

honeyangel @honeyangel (1991) 28 Jan 07

ive just got my star wooooooo

mylot

star

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sureshailawadi Congratulations.

28 Jan 07

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What did you (or do you) like the most about the 80's?

dmillman @dmillman (2273) • United States 27 Jan 07

For me, I love the music and the movies. I used to love the clothes and the hair, but I've finally outgrown that. There is just something about the music that I love. It's not as fake as the newer stuff. I mean you hear real...

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sureshailawadi Everything of 80's is out of the world.

28 Jan 07

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Please give me suggestions, I feel like an idiot....

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 28 Jan 07

Ok, I have had to get glasses. I'm not happy about it. They drive me crazy. And I think I look like a dork. My question is...When I have them on, I find myself looking "around" them rather than through them. I've had them for...

looking through the glasses

not liking wearing glasses

not wearing glasses

wearing glasses

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sureshailawadi Be easy, it is a matter of time. You will soon get used to them.

28 Jan 07

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Three teenagers find a T Rex fossil while hiking in North Dakota

George B Vieto @Deepizzaguy (104142) • Lake Charles, Louisiana 24 Jun

Two young brothers and their cousin went hiking in the North Dakota Bureau of Land Management near the badlands near Marmarth in 2022 when the trio who are Jessin, 10, and Liam Fisher, 7, and their cousin Kaiden Madsen, 9, went...

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sureshailawadi Two young brothers and their cousin went hiking in the North Dakota Bureau of Land Management near the badlands near Marmarth in 2022 when the trio who are Jessin, 10, and Liam Fisher, 7, and their cousin Kaiden Madsen, 9, went hiking with their dad and uncle...

24 Jun

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