What will you do when your partner lie to you?

Hi yenwie84. This is hard to answer. There are people who are able to lie without a blink of an eye, others cannot (as people before me already mentioned). However, if you live in uncertainty for a while, your doubts can start eating you from inside. You need to find out asap. Maybe it's just a minor issue not worthy to wrestle about. The best way is to ask him. Try asking him twice (after a week for the second time), if there's some inconsistency in his answer, he might be lying. You can also try to sort of double-check with his friends/colleagues, but be very careful with this one. Give a lot of thought to the smallest things, they can mean something as well as nothing, you need to be very careful in selecting details for your little "investigation". If nothing supports your suspicion, it is most probably because he is not lying.

yes, i do have lots of experiences like that.. i'm a person who is not that very vocal in asking what's realy the truth.. i want to have more proofs before i will ask him if that's true or not.. i can feel if my bf will lie to me because he can't realy look straight to my eyes..

Hi yenwie84, I know when my husband lied to me because he is not used to lying, but he just lied for simple things that cannot make me doubt or angry. and evem ourselves we sometimes lied to them also. thanks

Hello yenwie84, I think this is a common proble. It's hard when you are the kind of person who find it hard to trust people. I think you need to discuss with your partner about this and look at his history. if he is the type of person who lies before then chances are he might be do it in the future.

i will't say to my partner what's you were wrong. and applogized to her, care also .