My boyfriend cannot get rid of the smoking habit,how to help him?

I say get rid of him!

There is a saying that you cannot help people who don't want to be helped. There seems to be a little bit of that going on since you say your boyfriend ignores your advice. Was he smoking when you met him? That's a big give-away that you aren't going to be able to change his habits for him. He has to want to change. I guess telling him it isn't good for him isn't enough. Maybe try showing him what it does to your body. Explain how worried you are. He will hopefully realize how much quitting will mean to you, and if he cares about you he will consider it.

I give you this advice from an expert- You'll probably have more sucess if you and your boyfriend work on this problem together through research for solutions: http://youtube.com/watch?v=2ZKtXF-A6-c

I am a special girl perhaps.I like to smell the somking smell from my boyfriend. I think it is special.So,I won't tell him to get rid of smoking.Hehe.

I am sorry but I think maybe you should leave your boyfriend alone. He has to quit for himself. By the sounds of it, I think you want him to quit smoking more so then he does. I stopped for 3 months now and thats because it bothers my wife and her asthma. But I made her believe I quit smoking and I smoked around her back. It was awful sneaking and everything. I smoked for 27 years. My lungs are great. I think you should not get on him about his smoking IF YOU ARE he may recent you later. He does not want to quit possibly. I cannot quit for my wife. I did it o my own witout resentment. I told her honestly about 6 months ago that I quit for her and I only made it a few days and I sneaked around smoking. I come home clean my hands, shower, brush my teeth and put my smelly shirt in the laundry. I did this often. So, I finally quit on my own. Dont get mad at me or resent me for this please.

Quitting smoking is hard because people smoke for different reasons and require different ways of quitting. For instance... if you smoke out of anxiety, usually you need a strong medication from your doctor. The patch works for some people who smoke because they need the buz from the nicotine And some people smoke because they have an oral fixation, which I hear gum helps.