What is your first reaction when a beggar comes near you?

@yenwie84 (1344)
Malaysia
July 10, 2008 7:58am CST
Well,maybe I am a bit skeptical in this case. Whenever a beggar comes near me, I always think he is trying to cheat me to be poor. So normally, I won't give even a penny. Unless is a blind,maybe I will consider a bit. Nowadays there are too many beggars pretend to crave for our sympathy. Hence,sometimes we cannot be too kind-hearted. What do you think? Do you have same point of view as me? Please feel free to drop some responses to me,thanks.
6 responses
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 08
Well, I tried not to response to them and just waive my hand to ask them leave. For me, they should seek help from NGO body to provide them job or get financial support and not begging money without any effort and sweat!
@heero1103 (322)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
I have the same thinking, I am a bit skeptic if the beggar is actually wanting some help, or if the beggar just wanna rip me off. I have heard from my friends that some are very demanding, even to the point that some would throw away what you gave to them then ask for something else (which is not right).
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
Hello Yenwie. When a beggars come near me and ask for alms. I always give them as long that i have money. There's just something inside me that can't refuse them. I always pity them and they always have a soft spot in my heart. There's two kind of beggars in the street. The ones who pretend and who are lazy. The other are the real ones. Who really needs help. How are we suppose to know who is real? Me, i just pray for them. If they fooled me by pretending, shame on them. It's not my lost. I'm just trying to help and I think I'm not doing anything wrong with that.
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I get scared if I am alone that I might get mugged or something. But I am very sensitive and hate that they are in that situation. I am curious as to what they want.
• China
10 Jul 08
2 years ago,my friends and i went to railway staion and began a trip. We waited the train and talked, while a little begger walked behind me without any noise. But my frinds saw the stange begger, so they were quiet suddenly. I saw my friends' strange face and felt some wrong behind me,then I turn arround. I didnt expect a dirty pink beggar was trying to touch me and asked for money.I was so scared, and cried loudly at once.The beggar was scared by my cried voice and cried too then went away with out any words.
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I think they really come in a way to produce any emotion so you can give them money. They do not scare me or produce any kind of emotion. Actually they just produce one reaction and that is this: Hey go to work! LOL