things that worry me the most!

Personally I always wonder about my finances, etc. Stuff like that. I try not to worry about an asteroid because there is nothing that I can do about something like that. But something like personal finances is something that I can have a hand in - either to lessen or worsen the situation. I worry about my kids too sometimes and the world and how it will be for them. But mostly when I can't fall asleep at night and I lay there worrying it is about what I set out to do during the day and didn't get around to doing. I keep thinking "oh I forgot to get diapers" or "oh no, I forgot to call so and so back", etc. I know it is better to put stuff out of your mind when it is time to go to sleep but that is when I start to think about everything I should have been doing and didn't.

Somethings just aren;t worth worrying over. If you make yourself sick by worrying, who will be there to take care of your children. Just live your life and enjoy it to the fullest!

For me to say I don't worry, would be a lie. But I try not to worry. All of the things you have mentioned above really is not worry at all. It is more grounded in fear. now as a pastor I believe in the Bible that it is the Word of God. So what does it say that can help in times like you said? First of all it talks about fear and says that "Fear brings torment" Basically that is what you are saying. These thoughts torment you. What I usually worry about is will we have enough money to buy food. I know that when I do that I feel as if my life is in torment. I get depressed and physically do not feel well. The Bible also says that "Love cast out fear" I foind that when I am worrying if I take my mind off of myself and concentrate on the needs of others and love them it takes away from the fear and worry I am experiencing. Jesus said this. "Do not worry...Who by worrying can add a single hour to his life?" All of these things you worry about are things that you have absolutely no control over. What is the use of worrying about such things? Do you gain any wisdom from worrying. Have you added to your life? No, in fact what you have done is you have taken away from your life. You let it steal your happiness and your peace of mind. Although it may seem natural to worry, does not mean that it is the right way. During your bouts of worry. turn it around and concentrate on the needs of someone else. Sorry if I sound preachy today. I just understand where you are coming from and I know what works in these situations. Take care.

Me too. I'm glad that I'm not the only one who does this. Sometimes I get so deep in thought I start to get paranoid. I do often think about all of the what if's in the world. And it scares me to think that something could happen in a heartbeat. And of course you wouldn't be able to do anything about it.

I worry about growing old alone. ANd when I get old who is going to be the one who is going to make sure that I am well cared for if I cannot make those decisions myself. I worry I will never have the chance to be a mother like the mother I had....I am worried that the world is becoming so scary that one day everyone will freak out and I am worried that I might make a wrong decision about my future and others who depend on me. I worry that I have given up a lot of my time that I cannot get back and now get a little nervous to go out and do things...even though I know I should because I am worth every moment of happiness. This is what adult life is right? Worrying about things you cannot control, but still living. I now see everything as a challenge I am willing to face. ANd life still moves on. Those are valid worries you have and normal. Just don't let it overcome your life.

you sound like an awesome mom, you're worried about your family and trying to figure out things you could do to help them all in case of a "what-if" situation happens! My mother does that same thing, because anything at all is completely possible. I worry about what would happen to my nephew (that my mother has custody of and I help take care of by babysitting most of the time because my mother does stretches at work and may not be home for 4 or 5 days at a time and cannot afford an all night babysitter) and who would help my little sister with her homework. There is always so much to think of to make sure everyone is taken care of if something were to happen, no one ever knows when something unexpected could happen. I think you are a great mother trying to figure all this out in advance, God Bless you and your family.

It can be hard to shut off your brain and get the rest you need. I have suffered from this too. Especially after becoming a parent. I worry about my daughters happiness and health. About providing a good life for my family. I think it is natural. Some of us just take it a bit far, myself included.

I don't worry about things that are beyond my control. I worry about letting people down, and my finances. I worry about my mother, and if I am a good daughter. But most of my thinking is geared towards how to solve these problems. It wouldn't be normal to not worry at all!

This is what I worry about what if: there was a shark in the ocean when I was going in deeper, or what would have happened if the rip tied got me, and other realistic things that would have ended my life or not even started it, so I decided that I think this way because its going to help me in the future and if I study area and add a whole lot of variables it to this one spot then maybe just maybe i can change the outcome from bad to good. because if I worry too much into the what ifs i'm going to go crazy. so from know make a plan for everything from a-L even more if you want to read that much into it.

Your worries are enough for us all. My husband gets upset at me all the time and says I never worry about anything. I don't worry about most things; let's say it like that. If I get something on my mind that I can't shake, I find something else to do to get it off. I had something happen other day that got me so upset and angry. I finally had to let it go and say, God, you have it. I can't take this on as a worry. And, things worked out just like I was hoping they would. But I could have worried myself sick over the problem and it would still have happened like God knew it would. I think the enemy tries to put these things on us to keep us upset all the time. I think we need to live for today. Live the best you can, do what you can, keep yourself happy with your family and don't dwell on the 'what if's' that could, might, or might never happen. Some people worry themselves into sickness and I think worry and the stress it brings on your life can actually kill you. It almost happened to my husband before he retired early. His boss was driving him almost to the point of a heart attack. He said the last time he drove out of the gate at work all his worries left him. And he never had a heart attack, although he had gone for all the tests at one time, because he was at a high risk for one then. We all have little worries,but we should never let them build into something we can't handle. We worry about our children (mine are grown)getting home safely from a job or a date at night. We worry if we are going to have enough cash to get us through until pay day. Well, I don't, but lots do. I've learned to turn all the worries over to the Lord; otherwise, I'd be a nut case! I've had lots to worry about, believe me. But I love to sleep too much to worry about every little thing that pops up around here.

hay you look like good mom cuz you always think about your kids and this is good thing and do not be worry cuz you are mom give and never take and even they hate you you will still love them cuz your heart is heart of mother not of normal woman and about me i be too worry when i hold glass or when i hold cup of milk i be so worry make me dorb the glass and break or the milk on the floor i sure you will find this silly thing but it really happen to me and this annoying me

This is a good discussion. Us, mothers do not really care about our self but our family. I am thinking about that also when someone texted my husband that mama Mary appear to one of high school student to the place where we have vacation. Mama Mary wants us to pray because almost all the people forget it already. I hope this bad things will never happen. I am really afraid of Global Warming. I am afraid that my whole family specially my daughter will suffer. I cannot let that thing to happen. I hope all people will think about what we are discussing about here because it's not a joke. I am also afraid that i will die without doing anything. I want to give my parents the best and my parents in law also. I want to live good memories. I hate to see poor people in the streets. I always feel that i am use less because i cannot help them. I want to get rich not for me but for the people around me. i can live with a simple life but i cannot live seeing someone suffering. When i saw someone like this people i am talking about, i feel very hurt.

why donnt you think those things in the life, if you consider the scared thing, that will affect your feeling, we live for today