A person mailing me although not in contact anymore....
By subha12
@subha12 (18441)
India
July 14, 2008 6:12am CST
I want some help here. There is a gut=y who added me in orkut. For the time being i also accepted him. Initially he used to talk very nicely about things like career and all. in very little time he became good online friend.
Later i noticed he wanted my sell number. i did not gave him. He somehow managed to get it from his frind who works in my company from our Intranet site.
He never calle dbut used to send messages etc.
Initially it wa sjust B'day wishes and all. Later he sent a private message and told me by mistake he sent me that. it was meant for his GF.
From that time my doubt started. whatever he told about his Gf, seemed not so real.
Now i stopped communication. i have also blockd him on Gtalk.
Just yesterday he mailed me asking there is a guy who visited his profile and that guy is there in my friend list.
Why is he mailing me again? Any idea or guess?
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13 responses
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
14 Jul 08
Subha
it's but wise to ignore such people. Its obvious that he wants to talk and make a relationship but if you are not interested just ignore.do not tell him anything, do not be rude even, just ignore.
Good luck!
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
Well it is a mystery to me I am not an orkut member and I do not know how things work in there. But, I guess there is nothing wrong asking him why he is doing it. he may just be innocently doing it and does not do it on purpose but then its good to know what his real intentions are on this matter. It really hard to know at this moment if you have not ask anything to know.
@ramyashreesk (1021)
• India
15 Jul 08
Hello subha, you better ignore that person and stay away from him.
Take care.
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 08
I guess he likes you, but he is afraid to tell you, so he started to act like a moron by telling it's was a mistake the message was for his Girlfriend, or maybe he did do mistakes coz his girlfriends named like you? I wonder why he tryin to get your number if he doesn't like you anyway? So my guess is he likes you ...
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
14 Jul 08
It sounds to me like he is playing games with you. He may be stalking you by making sure he has contact with you. I bet he is very persistnet and will not ever leave you alone. I hate it when that happens. you may have to come right out and say you are not interested and have been very busy.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
14 Jul 08
Hi subha,
Maybe he likes you? since he is very persistent in talking to you! Or maybe he is just comfortable talking with you and having you as his friend and very desperate to get in touch with you!
I'm just guessing but I can see how he tried to get your attention!
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
I think you have a potential internet stalker here... just be polite and tell him that you are not comfortable being friends with him again... he might give you more trouble than you already have now...
Or... you can just give him a chance and talk to him again... ask him what his real intentions are... and from there you can judge for yourself if this person is her to be your friend or not...
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
14 Jul 08
I dont think that he is mailing you with good intentions in his hindsight. Never bother about those mails. Just ignore him.. Whatever be the message he sends you. He wants to get in with him for a conversation..
Never mind about him.
@kriazenterprises (139)
• Pakistan
14 Jul 08
in my opinion just ignoring is not the solution . the more you will ignore him the more he will come after you. and he will try different sources and methods to find you and may be spy on you. the right way is to talk to him and ask what he wants. if its agreeable with you then fine if not then tel him staright away. don't judge his intentions may be he is diong this in good faith. secondly when you talk to him you will know more about him and he will be more traceable. if his intensions are not good and he bothers your after your refusal you will know where to report him.
@amanda08 (647)
• United States
14 Jul 08
I really do not have any idea, but I can say this... if he frightens you, then maybe you should just completely disconnect yourself from him... just ignore him and maybe he will go away.. and if he doesn't go away, then maybe there really is a problem.... I hope that this turns out to be nothing serious for you, and maybe the guy really wasn't intentionally trying to stalk you after all.. anyway, like I said, if he keeps trying to contact you after you have ignored him or told him to stop, then it may be time to take more serious actions...
