having trust with him/her the second time around??

A friend send me this message and I wanna share it with you "Never let someone hurt you twice. Giving him a second chance is exposing yourself to be hurt again. If he had done it once, it's bound to happen again. Why? Because you gave him the idea that no matter how much he'll hurt you, you'd still accept him all over again. Giving him the power to hurt you again. Once is enough to learn... 'welcome back!'". But I think it depends on how he/she shows you that she can be trusted again. Just don't let your emotions override your judgment. Because sometimes when we love someone so much we opted to be blind and deaf.

i have had that happen to me in a couple different relationships. It has happened in the one i am in now and i find that the trust just isn't going back to the level it was at before, and i am still having trust issues with my partner. Once the trust has been broken badly it seems to be very difficult to allow that trust back up to the level it was at before

Maybe, but it will take time. First I will forgive that's easy but to forget I think that's very hard thing to do. I will have to learn to forget before I trust that person again. Time will tell. Have a nice day!

true like what she said up there ^ its hard to bring back trust when its broken. But, of course, I will still give a second chance..but for sure, my partner will have a hard time gaining it back.

It's hard when your trust is broken. But I'm still willing to give her a chance to make it up. But I can't promise that things will be the same as it is. Only time can tell.

It's really hard to do. I, honestly, do not forgive and forget; It feels as though I just can't. I try to at least forget about the problem, but I can't do it. It would take a lot of time, and I don't think that'd I'd see that person in the same light, or anywhere close to it. In some situations, I guess it could depend on the circumstances, but in most cases, it would be way too awkward.