Are you completly honest with your spouse?
By dextornap
@dextornap (333)
India
July 25, 2008 11:34am CST
Do you believe telling everything to your spouse is dangerous? Like your friendship with other at out side home specially with a girl if you are a boy. How your spouse react for this? if you hide it and through some other means your spouse will come to know about your relationship then what will happen. Did you thought about this?
2 responses
@vlualhati (11)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Well, i believe that telling everything to your partner or spouse is not dangerous.
Me and my partner have been living together for 8 years and there is not a single day that i lied...
from the start of our relationship until now, i have told everything about me...as in everything...the good side and bad side of me...
which i think that made us stronger and more closer as PARTNERS, FRIENDS, AND AS A FAMILY....
In a relationship i think it's best that the two of you should know everything as in everything about each other...from the family background to your most inner self...because,i believe that as the both of you go through life...little by little you will discover each other's good and bad points...
so,it's much easier to know everything from the start....
in my case,i told my partner everything from the start and it built our TRUST towards each other.Up until now, whenever one of us goes out with friends without we don't feel or think of anything..for others it may sound TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE but, it's that...WE TRUST EACH OTHER....
AS THE SAYING GOES.....
IN A RELATIONSHIP IT IS BETTER TO LOOSE THE "LOVE" THAN TO LOOSE "TRUST"...
LOVE CAN BE REGAINED, BUT, "TRUST"....IT IS MUCH HARDER....
So, I believe it is never dangerous to tell everything to your spouse...it's where TRUST starts and through that's one way of measuring of how true you are to your love-one....
