Mother's life revolves around her kids only

India
July 25, 2008 1:27pm CST
It's been 3years to my marriage.I have a year old daughter.Ater becoming a mother i have experienced that your life revolves around your kid only.Do you also feel the same.
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@ruby222 (4847)
26 Jul 08
When you first have a child it is quite scary,as the tiny child is totally dependant on you,and it takes all your time looking after the child.The child needs you twenty four hours a day seven days a week,and a lot of new Mums dont have relations who are able to help them in any way,some are much luckier and have a family who live nearby.But beng a mother is definately a very hard job,and its a lonely job,you need to try to get out and join some mother and toddler groups or mother and baby groups.My daughter belongs to one,and she has met quite a few new friends through it.But the answer in short is yes,life does revolve around the baby and it will do for a good while,and before you know it he/she will be starting to become independant,and you will regain some of your independance,So dont lose heart,just enjoy it all while you can.
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
26 Jul 08
Yeah, I felt that way too when I already had my daughter. But I think if you are married, you should also give your husband some of your time. Because if not, he'll end up looking for someone else to give him the affection he's looking for. You know how men are. (lol!!)
• United States
25 Jul 08
My whole world revolves around my kids. Even when they are grown and out of the house my world will revolve around them. When I die I can not take my things with me but only my memories and my memories will live with them and that is what is important to me. Enjoy them and love them!
• United States
25 Jul 08
Oh yes I def. feel the same way. I am a stay at home mother right now. My son is 2 and since he was born I have been at home with him. His father wouldnt let me work because of trust issues that he has even though I wasnt concerned with any other man. which we have split up and I am now back at my mothers house and trying to get back into school and trying to find me a job. I want to be able to get up on my own feet so I can take care of my child and do whatever he wants and buy things he wants.