What can i do???

I come home pretty much the same way. My wife greets me naked...that usually perks me right up.

I would say that even tho you miss him all day, you should maybe give hime a hug and then let him be for a bit just to unwind. Don't try to make him happy as that will probably make him feel pressured and more tense. As for going on a date, how about suggesting something fun you can do on one of his nights off...like go to a movie or out to eat, dancing etc. good luck!

You need to let him relax and unwind without nagging him to go out somewhere. He spends all week being out, and just wants to be in his house relaxing. To get your fill of going out, you should do so with your girlfriends while he is at work. That way once he gets home, you will want to do nothing but relax and watch TV as well.

I can understand how you feel but after a long day at work I know I don't want to come home and want to run right back out again I want to sit and rlax. Maybe afer a few hours then I wouldn't mind it but an hour after I got home no I wouldn't. Let your husband come home wind down a little maybe get a shower in relax a little then try asking him if he wants to go out. I know I would just be glad he was home with me maybe you can just sit down together and watch a movie or something play some cards or talk with a couplpe of drinks and just relax. I do hope he does decied to change his mind for you and go out but if not then try the other things I mentioned I wish you the best of luck and have fun in what ever you two do together.

You should know what your husband likes and doesn't by now. lol. its hard to answer if you dont know their personality. I say suprise him with some Flattery!

Hmm...surprise him? A little surprise would do. If he's really tired then...Nah, I'm not good when it comes to moods but cheesy ones like aromatherapy candles and dinner combined might work...talk to him in a very passionate way? Haha, or give him a massage or something, to loosen up the tension. Sometimes cheesy aproaches are, well cheesy, but sometimes they do deliver good results.

I don't have a husband but my kids know what to do when I have a bad day at work. If there is bad weather outside by the time I walk in the door there are no tv's on and they have everything quiet till I can calm down (I work in a television station and bad weather means alot of alarms to much noise). My kids assess my mood quickly and respond the way they know I need. Maybe if you figure out why he comes home grumpy you might be able to assess the situation and respond in a way that will cheer him up. You have to find out why the bad mood and and what will change it even if it's letting him have some unwind time befor you hit him up.

pixie bring him a cup of coffee and his bedroom slippers,play some soft mellow music of something he likes, be calm and pretty at the same time, and just talk soothingly about something he enjoys.Nothing else works, sit on his lap, that should bring a good response. atleast when I did it with my hubby it did. lol.

Hello pixiedustforyou, Why don't try talking to him when he is in a better mood? maby he is not happy at work and get strees out at work, he should leave all behind when he gets home, suggesta quiet meal out at the weekend and see what he say.Good luck. Tamara

How about a massage and some romantic music? or get him a card to show how much you love him.

Treat him like a king. When he comes home, kiss and hug him. Always prepare a special dinner for both of you. Make sure you always look great and sexy. Offer him a soothing massage to take off the stress. Maybe if he feels better, then he's in the good mood for intimate moments and have more time with you. Don't forget to tell him how much you love him. I guess that'll make him happy enough.

U can if u try. Offcourse in every family it will happen. After coming from the office husband will be tired and he want rest so leave him to take rest for an hour or two after that which he interested to eat or to drink just made for him and give it to him and he will be very happy. He will agree with you what you will say

well pix i can only answer as a man in this matter :-) i love to see things who catch my attention :-) so maybe you should do smth in that direction :-) or smth like making a surprise date even with the help of his boss/coworkers i'll say force the date with a little help from his work some kinda blow away date :) idk what the intrests are of your husband but i'm sure your imagination and fantaésy will be cool and good enough to find smth :-) yours trully chrisone

Have him meet you someplace local for dinner or drinks...like most people once you get home your in relax mode...it works for us!

As you can see, my husband responded to this comment right above this response. When he comes home from work and sees me sitting there, he completely forgets all about his crappy work day.

While he's sitting down, stand behind him and give him a massage on the neck/shoulder/upper back area. If he doesn't appreciate that he's hopeless!

I am also a married woman. I have always went with the idea of just letting him go for a little while and let him be cranky. It is probably nothing personal although sometimes you might take it that way. I take it personally sometimes. Sometimes people just need some space to collect their thoughts at the end of the day. Everyone has a bad day from time to time. It is just normal. Just prepare a nice meal or have a cold drink ready for him when he comes home.