She's Different

Regina, Saskatchewan
July 27, 2008 11:40pm CST
This is for our very own Tess. A new presence in my life that has become such a gift. YOu know, the kind that keeps on giving.........................lol I heard this Brad Johner song today, and all I could think about was our Tess and how this song fits what I have come to appreciate the most about her. "She don't get one single fashion tip From Cosmo magazine I don't need no beauty queen Oh no She don't choose from the regular Menu, gets the special of the day Makes them cook it her own way Yes she does, just because She does her own thing 'Cause she ain't ordinary Plays by her own rules Has her own vocabulary Out of the normal And she don't have to be innocent Or magnificent Just different She don't buy into idealistic lies Or the flavour of the week It's all part of her mystique Oh yeah She don't care about having perfect hair Or what other people think That's what makes her so distinct Ain't no doubt she stands out She does her own thing 'Cause she ain't ordinary Plays by her own rules Has her own vocabulary Out of the normal And she don't have to be innocent Or magnificent Just different Oh yeah So damn different Just different I mean this girl is different.." Being different in today's world, where to be accepted means to 'be generic', I can't tell you how refreshing and wonderful and absolutely gobsmacking (lol) it is to have Tess in my life. So for you Tess, your own interst group with your name on it. I hope your friends use it wisely and differently from all other interest groups. I'm off now to dance in the moonlight, under my pines and wish upon a star that one day you and I will dance together................................! So, to make this a discussion, for those of you who have yet to meet our Tess, drop a line here and say hello. YOu'll be very glad you did.
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• United States
28 Jul 08
Ack! A Tess discussion and I wasn't invited? ::listens to the voices as they yell "maybe if you logged into the lot once in awhile you'd know" hehe:: I have had the pleasure of knowing Tess for almost 10 years and I must agree that the song does do her justice. Her most endearing quality? Honesty. For this reason, she has no grey areas when it comes to socializing. People either love her, or hate her. I am so glad to know that she's found so many here on the lot that love her. Unfortunately, being the Sagittarius nutcase that I am, I must add alittle humor to this discussion. If I am not around for awhile after, it's because I'm being beaten hehe. A few days ago, we had a most entertaining experience. Our daughters friends mother had just dropped our daughter off from a birthday party. The two wee ones scattered off to have fun whilst the mothers had some girl time. Being the girly man that I am, I of course had to join in. About two hours later, whilst discussing society in our small town, the mother dropped a bomb on us that neither of us would have expected in our entire lives. First, please note that we live in a small rural cul-de-sac town full of stepford wives and busy body gossip mongerers. Your typical "we're snooty and rich even though all our credit cards are maxed and we have 38 cents in our pockets" kinda people. So we're in this small town, with this woman in our kitchen just chatting away, and WHAM. She hits us with a louisville slugger. What did she say exactly? "I like you guys, you're the only normal people I've met in town." My wife and I looked at each other, no clue how to react. Finally I just blurted it out, "Normal???? You think we're normal???" I have used many adjectives in my life to describe Tess, and being a poet and short story writer, that's saying alot. Exquisite. Unigue. Intense. Intelligent. Sasparillic (for those who don't know this word, "makes you feel fizzy inside".) However, normal has never before entered into the descriptive vocabulary utilized in my relationship. So alas... somone out there seems to think we're normal. Hope that brought alittle smile to everyone. I love you baby.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
28 Jul 08
ROFL at the stepford wives description! Loved your story too. I had someone say that to me once - "It's so nice to meet a normal single mother for a change" Like ???? I about fell over laughing. Finally sputtered "Welcome to the twilight zone and when's the next shuttle to YOUR planet?" LOL And I'am officially adopting the word sasparillic! Tooooo priceless and so perfect for the way your Tess makes ME feel inside. She's a keeper my soon to be friend (I've put in a request). She's plumbed the depths of my mind and made me illuminate places within I thought were long forgotten and atrophied! She has wrapped her particular brand of being and expression around my soul and I can understand why you treasure her. It's the 'squishes' that got me really. They make me feel so, well, sasparillic! LOL Thanks heaps dude for popping in. I hope we see more of you.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
2 Aug 08
Yep, we sure can. And it all boils down a lot of the time to having humor and being able to appreciate another's humor. I can just see you and me together among a group of stepford wives! LOL Their heads would explode! ROFL
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
28 Jul 08
ROFL @ sasparillic i love you too darlin ..;kisses;..
@moondancer (7433)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Tess is a wonder. I wish I could be there with you two as you go on your adventures together. Being apart as we are I'll have to settle for the stories you tell and the times with our Meg. You are both blessed to have each other. Your wish will come true, who knows maybe our Meg has seen you dancing in the moon light and would like to join you and will when she so chooses.
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• United States
29 Jul 08
It's funny that you say that. I think of you and our Meg when I'm dancing along with a few other people in here. Ones I'd like to have with me, lol.... Keep dancing and we will all be happy together...dancing to the music...yeah yeah...yeah...
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
29 Jul 08
Ah moon beam YOU ARE ALWAYS there with me in spirit when I dance under the moon, and as Tess says - we are actually all together on another plane of existence, so the next time YOU are dancing in the moonlight, you will not be alone - we will all be with you in spirit! Now dance woman, dance! LOL
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
29 Jul 08
unfortunately.. sparX and i and nova as well, all live a consierable distance from each other in different directions. the dancing we do is in spirit and on another plane of existance altogether.. which really is pretty cool when ya think about it. someday.. squishes will be administered in person, im sure.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 Jul 08
I do not know Tess but I will say Hello to her If she means that much to you then I know she has to be a good Person Hugs to you and Hugs to Tess
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
28 Jul 08
dont let sparX adoration fool ya, shes a horrible judge of character! ..;shifty eyes;.. but hello and pleased ta meetcha
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
28 Jul 08
She's a treasure Gabs. A lot like you in some way really. Never judges and keeps an open mind. A rare and wonderful thing. And unlike a lot of people Tess is willing to learn and use what she's learned. That's almost unheard of in most people today and that's the main reason I treasure her, as I'm the same way and have felt very alone in that for many a long year.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 Jul 08
Hi Tess , lol, I trust Sparks judgement lol so you must be everything she says Good to meet you Tess
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Nope dontknow TEss! So hello Tess! Sounds from the song alot like others I know lol
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
28 Jul 08
hello lakota we have actually run across eachother randomly from time to time in different discussions.. but nice to see you again in this one
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
28 Jul 08
thanks, ANd good to see you too ! hugs
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
28 Jul 08
I first got to learn about you Lakota through our dear Gabs. So I guess in a way I'm spreading the love to include other mylotters worthy of being called friend. Nice to see you and thanks for saying hello. Hugs.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
29 Jul 08
What a way to praise and thank your friend Tess. She started an 'interest group' in your name and in turn you have written such an awesome poem about her. Great friendship between you both, may God bless you both. Hats off to you for your way of expression for your dear friend.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
29 Jul 08
Does not matter - what was important was - your way of showing your graditude to your dear friend. You did it nicely.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
29 Jul 08
Hi dpk - actually I didn't write the poem. It's a song I heard and it made me think of tess so I put it here on the lot to celebrate her.
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• United States
29 Jul 08
Hey Sparx! Good job. I like Tessah though we haven't crossed each other's paths all that often. The best thing about her is you always no where you stand with her and she pulls no punches. So, hello again Tessah, congrats on your own interest group! You deserve it! *pats Tessah on the back*
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• United States
29 Jul 08
Na, it'll be like a bad sunburn or road rash
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
29 Jul 08
Hey craft good to see you! Poor Tess is going to be permanently bent over from all the pats on the back she's getting! ROFL
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Hi sparks, I am very excited to meet Tess here..I am sure she is also a wonderful person as you and as Lori who introduced me to you! LOL! Thanks for bringing this topic for us to meet all these wonderful people in Mylot! Hello Tess! Nice meeting you here!
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
29 Jul 08
Hi cappy - glad you and Tess have met! I just LOVE bringing my friends together! LOL
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
29 Jul 08
nice ta meetcha too capricorn
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• Pakistan
28 Jul 08
Frankly, I don't know who is Tess, but seeing your likeness, HI to Tess and you have done a goos job.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
29 Jul 08
Thanks for playing along omer. As you can tell by her response, our Tess is quite the ............... well she's different. What more can I say! ROFL
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
29 Jul 08
i promise you... ive never given a goose a ... job
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
29 Jul 08
that word "different" is startng to sound like a gentle euphamism for something ENTIRELY .. different
@tessah (6617)
• United States
28 Jul 08
well.. sh|t wasnt expecting thsi to be sure.. and youve taken me all by surprised and got me all weepy.. so badly even that mal asks "are you aiight??" and i told him whatcha done.. and he giggled at me. i always save the alerts in my email saying youve started a discussion until the very last of them all. theyre usually ones i wanna take my time and thought with and i dont like to rush through them.. this was just.. dayumn. i love you. since you cant figger out how to upload an image for the interest.. do ya mind if i pick one and put it ? or if you have one in mind and just cant figger it out.. send it to me in email.. and i will do it for ya. really sparX.. thank you so much for this ;SQUISH!!!;
• Regina, Saskatchewan
28 Jul 08
You're more than welcome my sasparillic friend! LOVE that word! lol And yes please, upload a photo for this. I trust your judgement. So - Happy monday morning, and let's hope this week and those to follow are more 'normal' (ROFL) around your house.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
29 Jul 08
I see it! I see it! Soooooooooooooooooooo coolalichious!
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
28 Jul 08
thus far? its been a very awesome monday one personal graphic coming up!
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
28 Jul 08
Hi Sparky... well haven't had the pleasure of really meeting Tess like the rest of you..just became friends and i'm sure it will go from there ..now if you and Nova and MYKL love her i'm sure i will too..oh yes i forgot she's attracted Megs attention so there you go! Tess..will pm you soon about things for Meg and hope you are doing better Huggles
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
28 Jul 08
I'm doing great kitty. I just love Monday mornings when I've posted the night before and open up my computer to the magic of mylot! LOL You're gonna love our Tess. She makes you fell 'sasparillic'! LOL See oakshaman's response below. Priceless!
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
28 Jul 08
i look forward to it
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