will you feel bad if the person you love rejects your proposal?
By RAHIL_THKR
@RAHIL_THKR (341)
Kuwait
July 29, 2008 12:28pm CST
lets see what this story teaches us and what will be your reply after you read it...
once there was a guy who was in love with a gal.
she wasn't the most beautiful and gorgeous... but for him she was everything.
he used to dream about her and about spending the rest of the life with her.
his friends told him " why do you dream so much about her when you don't even know if she loves you or now?" "tell her your feelings and get to know if she likes you or not".
he felt that it is the right way.the girl knew from the begining that he loved her...one day when he proposed..she rejected him...his friends thought..he would take to alchol, drugs etc and ruin his life.
to their suprise, he was not depressed, when they asked him how he is not sad...he replied.." why should i feel bad? i lost the one who never loved me and she lost the one who really loved and cared for her"
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4 responses
@relundad (2310)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Seems this story ended correct in my opinion. It seems that this guy wasn't really in love because according to your story he had not spent anytime with the girl. I don't see how you would fall in love with someone that you don't know. And thats why his friends were trying to tell him that he needs to find out if she has the same feelings. It seems that love was a figment of his imagination and not an automatic that she would feel the same way. He was infactuated with her, not in love with her and sometimes people have a hard time distinguishing the difference between the two. Other people are so desperate to be loved that even if their feelings aren't the same, they will jump at any proposal. Lucky for her she was able to be honest with him and herself.
Because he was not truly in love, it should have been easier to just walk away because at that point he could put his feelings in a reality check.
@RAHIL_THKR (341)
• Kuwait
30 Jul 08
thanx for your response friend let me tell you something...ok i didn't put that he was loving her from a year or a month anything like that...i agree...but i don't agree that he had to spend time with her to love her...many people i know loved someone they didn't spent times with just kept watching her where ever she went and waited her to come out of her house and stuffs like that...and it's not necessary you should know the person from before to start to love her.
@suzu12345 (470)
• India
30 Jul 08
yeah for sure because u were in love wth that prson,,that was the once u damn cared but the person dont care for u,,,so obviliously bad u will feel
@RAHIL_THKR (341)
• Kuwait
30 Jul 08
thanx for your response everyone and happy lotting...may this situation doesn't come in your life and you live happily
@ishralene09 (2260)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
Wow. But still, it's an "ouch" for me. I've been rejected by a girl too, and she knew I loved her all along, and she just you know threw it. It really hurts, and I won't be able to say those things.
