I have fall love with a man who have got married,pls help me how can I do

you can still have him make him divorce his wife and marry him

Falling in love is an emotion that one can not control, and for women it is a much more seious thing as men are not quite as emotional as we...there can't be much happiness for you if he is married, so I think the only way you are going to get over him is to fall in love with someone else, I believe that is the only way to get over anyone...good luck my friend.....been there done that....

I can understand your emotions. But, having known that he is married, my advice is to stay away from him. You cannot be happy if you know very well that someone else is at the losing end. It might hurt you initially. But, turn your attention to something else. Keep yourself engaged with some other work, may be go for a short study to divert your attention. Time will heal all the wounds. God has given us the ability to forget things over time. Good luck to you.

Before things get out of hand. Stay out from his life. nothing good will come out from it. Remember his wife and kids. Can't you feel any guilt at all? In the end you will be the only one who will get hurt.

move on, be strong and ignore his calls and messages. if you don't you'll get in far too deep. in my experience men like him always return to their wife and you'll be left broken hearted.

He is married and therefore not someone you can have a relationship with. I believe love is a choice - look for others to spend your time with. Take a class - hang out with friends - cry - eat ice cream etc but keep your mind away from being in a relationship with that person. You truly will be happier with someone who can love you completely and that you can feel good about having a relationship with.

well,all i can say is for you to forget about him and try to fall in love with another man... you shouldn't let your feelings grow when you know that he already had a wife... you don't want to ruin other people's family, don't you??? so please try to forget him and focused yourself on something else... i know that it is easier to say than done... i wish you all the best... take care and have a nice day...

First of all you are young. Next he is taken and he is not going to leave his wife for you. He is telling you the things he is because he wants to play around and he knows that your young. You need to get a job some place away from him and stop receiving his tel and messages. If he is dong this to his wife then he will also do it to you if you ever get together. It happens a lot that way. Run girl run for your life because you will be miserable waiting for him to call.

Hi summerhu, This is very complicated! I know it is hard for you but if it is possible to just divert your attention to other single guys in your work place, I guess it is better,,It is hard to love a person who is married and committed.. There will be no assurance that he will love you all throughout.How if his intention is very limited and after what he intends, he will just leave you! I guess he loves his wife and doesn't like to hurt her since he will not contact you when he is home plus I believed you're still young and do not waste your time with him..Just my advice!

If you are really in love, then you have to honor that. I can't give advice to you because you really haven't told me the details of the situation. Is he in love with you? How long have you known him? Can you seperated the excitement and longing that gets mixed in with having an affair with a married person, from how you would feel if he left his wife for you. Is there even a chance that he would leave his wife? If he did leave his wife for you, would you be able to trust him? After all, this is a guy who cheated on his wife. Yes, he did it by getting together with you, but how do you know he won't just do it again, even if he ends up with you? He might just find the idea of an affair thrilling. The point I am making with all these questions is that you need to ask yourself these and many others. You might just find that it will get too complicated and the relationship isn't worth it. Sometimes we love what we can't have, and take for granted what we have access to.

I think you are better to forget this subject if you are complemented this love that you are like thieves steal what is not entitled to...........

in my humble opinion... well if that's the case then, you have to stay away from him..as long as you can control yourself..and your feelings..as long as you're not deeply in love with him..stop that crazy feelings before you hurt yourself...it's not wrong to love but you have to use your head..your brains over your heart...choose the right one..the one who is available..you may win his love but in the end you're still the looser..you're not the legal one..don't be a home wrecker..good luck and may you find the right way in to love..and may you find the real happiness in your life.

Hello summerhu, Oh you are in a bad way, my advice is if you can leave your job or ignore hime he is not a good man if you could do this to his wife, it does not matter wether he has children or not he is a married man. If you keep letting do this to you there is going to be a big problems for you. Right lets just say he leaves his wife and go with you and then later he goes back to his or or he may start looking for someelse then what? it not worth it he cannot be trusted but feel very sorry for his wife. So my dear please stay away form him and save yourself a ot of heartbreak, do it now before its get worst. Tamarafireheart.

I have no Idea , how many responses you will get for this topic..but I am sure any one who is a matured member, either male or female, will ask you, not ruin your future and other family. Better find some one else,and as soon as you find one, within a few days you will laugh at your own stupidness

I feel you are just mad over him, come on now, you are a 23-year-old girl who can solve this issue on your own...you very well know that this love towards the married person is going to take you nowhere, it is understood that he is also encouraging you, so better change your work place if you really would like to have a peaceful life and let their family also live peacefully..time is a very good healer, you are sure to get alright with time

You should stay away from him . Think of the family that will be ruined in your relationships.divert your attention to other guys who are not attached.I know its easy to say than do it but try because later on your're in the losing end you will be hurt and think of the humiliation you're gonna receive if the wife finds out

Its not your fault, but in this situation, its you who have to sacrifice. You should not let him and his wife know that you are in love with him, If it happens , 3 lives will be spoiled , your ,his and his wife. I know its hard, but... Just try to forget him!!!! You are left with no other options!

Well, i know how you must be feeling... and being married he shouldnt be encouraging either.. i think you should learn to control you feelings and move on. There are plenty of people out there besides he already has someone he doesnt want to hurt thatswhy he doesnt call or message u when he is home! you should let him carry on with his life and you should too...

In our country, man is hard to separate with his wife because the social pressure. We can't tell that there are deep love between his family, but there are certainly some thing important to keep their marriage. A married man know how to make woman happy by his tricks. So you have to check by you brain in stead of heart if he love you more than others.

Im married. My husband cheated me for many times. But always when I knew that he is cheating me.... I always try to get him lost. But he always refuse. I tried to ran away from him. You know there are no martyrs housewives nowadays. Its better for us wives to live alone and go on with our lives than to be cheated. But the problem is... when that time comes....husbands are the one who dont want to be separated. When Im starting to move on with my life...there he comes again with promises. Actually he left first the other woman before making promises. And how can I move on when he dont want to let me go. I tried to avoid him but he insulted all the man trying to court me. You know what...many wives now are ready for separation instead of being cheat. But man always trying to get others attention not because they do not love their wives. They are just like that. They think having others fulfill them. Do you think that man loves you or only wants you or just need you.