Have you ever thought you were the reason for the breakup?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
July 30, 2008 7:16pm CST
as we all know most of us have had breakups that weren't the easiest to get through and most of us have learned from them that we might not have been the cause of the breakup but then again there are sometimes when you think that it could be you too, i have thought this in the past that maybe it was my fault that things ended maybe i could have done something that could have made a difference just things like that and i think that we all have thought that before and some of the time it could be our fault that we broke up but there are other times that it wasn't our fault...so have you ever thought that you broke up because of you and it wasn't? thanks for taking the time out of your day to read my discussion and i hope that you all have a great evening and night!
2 responses
@Aidensmommy821 (171)
• United States
31 Jul 08
sometimes I feel it is my fault that me and my sons father broke up. I found out he was cheating on me even though he has always done that to me but I always felt it was my fault. Maybe I wasnt doing something right or the fact that we argued sometimes. I also accused him on cheating on me because he was always talking to other girls and going outside to talk to a certain person on the phone and he always told me that if I kept saying he was cheating on me then he would do it. So I dont know if it was really my fault or if it was he couldn't control his urges that he had. He cheated on me 6 times that I know of and from what a friend of his told me atleast 15.
@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
31 Jul 08
most of us don't admit that we were the reason for a relationship to be ended.
