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If you have the habit of speaking only about you, change it and speak about the day today issues that happened around you that day...you can talk about your future, the vision of your married life (if you have decided to get married)

it can be difficult for people to talk a lot if it is not in their nature but if you do want to try to open up a bit more to your girlfriend try talking about simple things, like how your days has been and what you are looking forward to doing at the weekend. i doubt she is expecting you to come up with the meaning of life, just chat as you would with a friend. Or maybe you could try telling her what you are thinking and anything that might be on your mind, if she can help you to overcome some issues then it may well bring you closer together. I know sometimes when i have been upset i find it difficult to sleep at night and i used to ask my boyfriend to talk to me, and it wasn't really because i wanted him to tell me anything i didn't already know it was more because it was comforting to hear the sound of his voice and know i wasn't alone!

you can say to her that you feel with her so good, you don't need a lot of words because you feel her even without words. as long as you are calling her and being on her side. I think it is more important than the words. you can try to open up a little bit. are you afraid of something ? or you don't have common interest with her. If you love her you will try to make her happy even if it is hard for you. as long she is not making you feel bad about yourself.. good luck.

You love each other, so you can talk about anything! Me and ym bf talk about absolutely everything! Just ask if shes okay, give her lots of compliments on how good you think her body is, how pretty she is ect... Women like to feel loved. And also make sure she feels appreciated

Hmmm What if you get a magazine and read to her about something you find interesting?? That might give you something to talk about and make you seem smart to her at the same time. She might just want to hear your voice for comfort sometimes.

We girls really love to talk about almost anything.. And it kinda irritate us when we are talking and you guys just stay quiet.. Just a few comments and a little sharing should be enough.. And I, personally love talking about future plans on what will happen to us in the future..A lot of what ifs questions, hypothetical questions that I realized have revealed honest answers..

Get and watch a movie then exaggerate the scenes to her. Or why don't you play a video game then make a story out of it. That's what I always do whenever I am with my wife. I exaggerate things hehe...

hi ai2dude if you can talk for two or three hours a day on the phone, then use what you talk about there to talk to her face to face.'Talk about the things you like, and the things she likes just as if you are on the phone. Surely both of yu have hobbies and things you both like are great topics of interest, a lot of guys are just like you are so dont feel badly just try really hard to talk with her and soon it will be second nature to babble about anything and everything. good luck to you and yours. g

If she likes to talk, and you don't have anything to say, try asking her questions to fill the silence. For example, if she is talking about... let's say a conversation she had with her mom... ask her questions like "How did that make you feel?", "When did this happen?"... things like that. It will show her you are interested...and take the pressure off you for coming up with interesting things to say. Women love to talk, and they love it when someone is interested. Also, ask her things when your on the phone like "what are you wearing?" and follow it up with a little " I love that dress (or whatever)".... Flattery goes along way. As long as you remind her that she is special to you...you should be just fine. Goodluck!

hi friend, you both are love each other? ok you tell him, In this world Iam live only for you and you only. LOL...

There are alot of things to talk about.And if you get started you will having problems how to end(just kidding).Well, you could start by talking about your first meeting,what attracted you from her, your feelings, etc etc.Then you could also talk about your plans, your future ,everything under the sun.If you are open to each other you can talk any topic you want.

I experienced this before. My ex boyfriend was like that last time. At first,we used to talk over the phone for at least 1 hour and we both enjoyed talking over the phone. But slowly after one year we had been together,we had no topic to talk with each other. Sometimes,we even quarreled over the phone because we had nothing to tell each other. It sounded so childish when we ended up quarreled over the phone and now broke up. I think my advice for you is try to understand your girlfriend more,maybe both of you are lacking understanding. You have tell her honestly that you have very few words to tell her,both of you can do something or find some topics that both of you interested. I think this is the best way. If you still remain the same,slowly your relationship will fade.

suse i went thrugh the same and trust me many ppl ahve same issu well the thing is you must be keeping somewhere in your heart or back of your mind that ur girlfreinds judes u by ur words like what will she think of me when i say this or that..please this us what is the real culprit..trust me just be yourself and just take out all inbitions in ur mind and heart before u jumo on the fone..just remeber ur gf is art of u and watevr u say to her she will love to hear it and respond if she loves though there are off days when this doesnt work..i guess if u do this it will eae of ur maxmum prob;em

LOVE IS BLIND ,ITS DEPENDS ON THE PERSON so ,ITS BETTER NOT TO SPEAK AT THAT TIME FOR GOOD RELATION SHIP,SO AND IF YOUR SERIOS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP THEN AVOID SPEAKING ABOUT THOSE ,ITS GOOD FOR LONG RELATIONSHIP AND YOU WILL HAVE LOT OF TIME TO SPEAK ABOUT THOSE THINGS ..

i think you are bit introvert. or may be you love to talk about yourself. to talk to her, get involved in asking the things that are associated with her life. not everything is going to be very fine

hi...u can speak to her about about the past days u spent with her, how happy u were that day... your memorable days together,something that cheers her up and invovles her also in the discussion... when u feel that she expects u to speak to her and u have absolutely nothing to say,then ask her a few questions like-"what do u like about me?","what turns u on anytime?","what do u love the most(of course other than u)"...anything.... hope i helped....

hey,lots of wonderful things to talk!Havn't you shared many commom hobbies?music,movies,travlings?

I think that you should make her understand that you are a "man of very few words" as you said and that sometimes a conversation comes to an end ... you can't talk over the phone 2-3 hours everyday and allways have something to say !!! Don't try to change yourself ... she should be happy with what you are!