Everything happens for a reason,what do you think?

Well I think we have to think everything happens for a reason. other wise what would you hope for. We all think that we are going to have a story book ending. Meaning we all want to grow old and die happy, probably leaving a family behind that you love very much. So through our jounrney, we call life, if something happens and its bad, then we try to tell ourselves that this happended for a reason. it is supposed to make us stronger. It helps us deal with bad things. Then good things happen and we believe that this is good and it happened for a reason. Taking one step closer to our storybook ending. So I guess what I'm trying to say is that it all boils down to hope. If you take away hope ...... then what do we have left?

actually i agree with u 100%. everything happens does for a reason,it is not an accident,it is designed that way. if u saw someone get succeeded in his career,it is at the cost of his devotion,commitment and hard working. everything around us is what we attracted,we are always radiate a magnet signal to the universe and it will give back what u thought.

I too believe that everything happens for a reason. How we react and respond when bad things happens shows who we are. I believe God closes doors to one path so that we can look in another direction. Just like your boyfriend finding you. I had a similar situation. I moved to another state with my first husband. We had nothing but trouble and then a bad accident. When I finally recovered, almost a year later, I left him. I then met my current husband, now of 22 years. I had many issues to overcome after the accident and I may have never gotten over it had I not hooked up with him!

indeed! everything happens for a reason.. I'm SICK and a lot of people that I meet keep commenting: "I wish you didn't became sick.. I always reply: "If I wasn't then we wouldn't meet" as you go on with your life's journey.. you'll realized, LIFE IS THE REASON

I too agree to you dear friend that everything happens bcause of a reason.If there wouldn't have been a reason then things wouldn't have happened as they are happening.There are many situations that i have faced which made me feel so depressed in life but when the next good thing happens after that, I feel that if the worst thing wouldn't have happened then this good thing wouldn't have happened also.Life teaches us at each and every path and gives an indication that something happens because of a reason. There are many incidents which i feel it hapened because of a reason.If i start to pen down those incidents then this place won't be sufficient !!!

Yes everything happens for a reason i agree. I have my own life experience. My ex girlfriend betrayed me That time her friend came over to support me. i still forgave my ex but i had feelings for her friend who has gone really close to me. I left my ex for her friend coz i found her my true lover. So we can say that my girl rite now with who i am is cause of my breakup. I have not been so serious with my ex, compared to how serious i am with my present love!. If she had not come back, my ex, and would not have betrayed me on first place, I would have never met her friend who is my lovegirl now. Everything happens for a reason. We had to breakup to get a new life!

everything happens for a reason. it does not matter if you fail or you win. there will always be reasons behind the events in your life. however, we just recognize this "everything happens for a reason" quote whenever we get something from something we never expected at all. but actually, there is a reason for everything. i am glad you finally found the love of your life. good thing it was a blessing in disguise! have a happy lovelife!

Hello, Yenwie84! I do not think that everything happens for a reason. There are things happening which surely are the results of human's choices. Everything happening in your life, with you, is a result of some choice you made. "I lost my job! What now?" - You would not have lost it if you had worked harder, or, who knows, if you had not disappointed your boss. Now, only you can tell the reason that you gave others to fire you. "I was walking and I fell in the ground" - You would not have fallen if you were paying more attention to where you were stepping. So, everything happening to you is a result of your choice, including when you meet someone accidentaly (you had chosen to go to that place, so it was your choice to go there... You just didn't know you'd meet somebody you know). And well, we all make wrong decisions. Wrong decisions bring regrets. Regrets make you think twice before making the same mistake. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

i am strong believer on that phrase. everything happens for a reason.

Exactly,we can never regret what we have or what we are today.We are just humans,god has a purpose in what we do.He(GOD) didn't want as to fail in life,he did'nt want us to not to fail either.If we all have a good life there would be a problem like if we are all rich and powerful we would keep our wealth and power and that's where anger,envy and other bad attitudes that we would be encountering.And if all of us are poor what would think would happen?No progress!!There's this quote i remembered still stored in my cellphone that says "The Lord did'nt promise us a life where we would never fall.But he assures us of a life where we can rise everytime we fall.

I think "Something happens for a reason" will be better here. There is no exact reason for your meeting through internet at least. In my opinion, he became your boyfriend is not because of his failed business but he loves you. No matter his business is good or not, you may be together once you love each other. Do you agree with me? Thanks for sharing such wonderful story with me. My best for you.

i believed in that too. i know whatever happens bad or good its made to happen. if its painful there will be a time youll be happy. if someone hurt you, time comes hell get punish or karma. Good karma will coming to you. i believe in karma.

i think everything happens because you are someone makes it happen i belive you choose your own destiny and that your choices will make you who you are in the future

It completely depends on you whether you will have a good result.After all you can't foresee your future and so how will you know your result is good?Your attitude towards things is changing with the development of them.As you said,everything happens for a reason.But who can say such a reason must be bad?Those things bad in others' eyes aren't necessarily bad in your eyes either.Actually I don't believe in predestined relationship.Yet when this relationship comes to you all of the sudden,I'm afraid you don't even have time to say you've believed.It's very inexplicable.

Yes even I believe in that statement. Everything happens for a reason and we can realize that only after we acheive certain things in life. If you are expecting something and that fails we will feel bad about that at that time but after some days we realize that it happend because of this reason or some reason.

Yes, Yenwie, everything happens for a reason, sometimes the reason we don't know Many people think, even the idea itself is superstition. Sometimes failures will be the stepstone for the success. We should not be utterly disappointed when we fail sometimes or many times. each failure opens up new ways of trying.

heloo ..i also do think that somethings in lyf has to come nad they will no matter how much we avoid them , that`s what called the destiny . it is decided by our past deeds . we get many things in our lyf because it is pre-written in our destiny . but it also does not mean that we shud stop doing what we shud suppose to ..

I remember what I've read from a book few days back. It says there that "God determines what we go through and we determin how we go through it." If I may relate this to your concern, our life is predistined. Even before the moment we were conceived God knows us. He knows what will happen to us. And God is not a God of waste that He'll let a circumstance just to happen without any reason or purpose. But it's a partnership. If we mess everything out, then we'll miss the beautiful life the He prepared for us. Yes it's true, very very true. Everything happened for a reason.

it depends on the persons' personality...

Yes! I totally agree with you. Everything really happens for a reason. In my case, I've met different people who changed my whole personality and perspective in life.. If it weren't for them, I'd be the same old person I used to be when I was in high school.. I've met them for a reason.. a reason for be to become a better person. Ü