if your husband cheated on you, will you forgive him?

My first instinct would be to say NO! But, as much as I love my husband, how long we've been together, and how much we have been through already, I might forgive him...eventually. I might. It would all depend on the circumstances. I dont believe in once a cheater always a cheater, so that wouldnt play any part in my decision. I would take many things into account like, was he honest about it/meaning did he come to tell me about it, or did I find out on my own? Who it was with would matter. If it was someone close to me, that I knew, or a family member I dont know if I could accept that! It's so hard to say without more details. But, I know one thing, trust would be damaged, and there would be so many hurt feelings that it would take a while to recover.

I been married before. So this topic hit the spot. We got married and the next week I caught him cheaten. So for your question. No! I can not forgive him. I left him and I never turned back and said anything else to him. He was cheating on me with more than one girl. It took me til almost a year ago. To forgive the girl. I don't think I could ever trust him. That is why I got a divorce. So no you can never be sure they want cheat again. You either trust them or you don't. I don't so I went on with my life. I am over him and I am about to get married to the love of my life.

you really can't be sure, but you have to ask yourself if you love and trust him enough to stay and iron it out.