marlena18042

@marlena18042 (636)

United States • Age 50

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Have you dated someone your family or friends didn't like for you?

jesenia_209 @jesenia_209 (287) • United States 18 Aug 10

My mom was the one that at first pushed me towards him. Now and she tells me he looks too childish for me...he's 4 months older than me. When I would talk to my friend's about him and tell him the things he...

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marlena18042 It is unfortunate that they feel this way, but remember , you are the one that has to like him, not them. Now, I cannot tell you that it is easy like this because from my experience it is not! When my family didnt like who I was dating, it had a great impact...

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Have you ever thought about working as a exotic dancer but feared applying?

tamron123 @tamron123 (276) • United States 18 Aug 10

Maybe you heard rumors. Maybe you just assume that the girls have no respect from the men. Well I have been a dancer for 5 yrs. If you ever considered being a exotic dancer at all for any reason now is the time to ask questions to...

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marlena18042 Yes. I. like alot of women I am sure, have "thought" about it. And maybe on one of those crazy, wild, partying nights in my early twenties, at the right moment and after a coule good drinks, I just might've tried it. But, that was yrs ago and 5 kids ago as...

19 Aug 10

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Divorce in the Philippines

archon309 @archon309 (404) • Philippines 18 Aug 10

A group is pushing for the legality of divorce here in the country? Is it really needed? How do you think it would affect the families, specially the children if divorce is legalized here in the country?

divorce

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marlena18042 Hello archon309! This is why I enjoy this site as much as I do, because I am always learning something new! I was never aware of that law in the Philippines. I myself, do not believe in divorce. I think that people nowadays just do not take marriage seriously....

18 Aug 10

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Every Hour on the Hour..

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 18 Aug 10

I have a friend that just started using Facebook a month ago. I dont know exactly why this annoys me but it does, she has to report EVERYTHING she does! "Good morning Facebook, im cooking ...., now im going for a walk, now i am...

facebook

getting o my nerves

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When is a Fetus a Baby

teamrose @teamrose (1492) • United States 1 Feb 10

So many people think it is okay to have an abortion. They use the argument that it's a women's body and she can do with it what she pleases. They try to ease their conscious by call the baby a fetus. I have seen the how...

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marlena18042 When is a fetus a baby? Always. I am pro-life myself and a believer in God. I believe that when a woman becomes pregnant, whether fetus, cells, whatever the process of life has already begun and Any point beyond that, would be murder. I just recently went...

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Selling my grandchild!

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 26 Jan 10

Sounds crazy doesn't it ? But my daughter is about to give birth and the father's mother casually told her that she would go to the bank and take out a loan for 10,000 and give it to my daughter if she would give the child up for...

abortion

adoption

grandchild

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marlena18042 yes, if my daughter was thinking about putting her daughter up for adoption is one thing, but she is not. And if she was, she wouldn't do it for money.I know this has ruined the relationship between them.

27 Jan 10

Selling my grandchild!

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 26 Jan 10

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If you knew you had 24 hours to live, what would you want to do?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 23 Jan 10

I just watched this great show called the Buried Life on MTV. it's about this four young guys who have this list of things they want to do before they die. As they cross off one thing on their list, they try and do something nice...

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marlena18042 Wow. What a great question. I knew my response before reading yours and it sounded the same. I would definitely want to spend it with my children as well. If I didn't have any children, I would probebly want to do the most wildest, and craziest things I could...

24 Jan 10

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I love my dog but..... I can't stand her, Help!!

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 7 Dec 09

Ok i have this yorkie who is two years old. Her name is Cocktail, and I really love my dog, but i can't stand her either. She is now getting over protective when it comes to me. if my hubby or one of the kids want to give me a hug...

dog training

help

over protective

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marlena18042 Well, this was started a month ago, but, I just have to comment! I too have a dog. She is a one year old pitbull named Gia. I feel like I have the same love/hate relationship with her as you do with Cocktail! Gia is one of the most lovable dogs in the world....

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Do you think it's a good idea to tell your Partner how many lovers you had?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 10 Dec 09

I was listening to the radio this morning. The topic was talking about your past relationships with your current partner. They were asking do you ever think that it's a good idea to tell your new partner how many partners you have...

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marlena18042 Oh boy. Well, personally, I don't think there is any reason to bring this up. However, if your partner would then, I suppose honesty would be the best policy! Usually, lies come out one way or the other anyway and I think honesty is one of the if not the most...

7 Jan 10

How do you determine who to accept as a friend here on Mylot?

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 4 Jan 10

On Mylot, people always send friend requests but do you accept them all? Do you only accept a few? How do you decide whether or not you will accept their request?

accepting friends

friends

mylot

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marlena18042 Hi 34momma. I only accept if they are active as well. I started a new way of Mylotting where whenever I sign on the first thing I do is go through my friends lists and answer a few of their discussions first. Because I select only those who have similar...

7 Jan 10

How do you determine who to accept as a friend here on Mylot?

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 4 Jan 10

On Mylot, people always send friend requests but do you accept them all? Do you only accept a few? How do you decide whether or not you will accept their request?

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marlena18042 That's funny you say that, I too have requests that I haven't decided to accept or not! However, the requests I have are from people that haven't responded to my discussions and ones that haven't started any that I have responded to, that makes me think they...

7 Jan 10

Try your name in Japanese

Radhabhaskar @Radhabhaskar (71) • India 5 Jan 10

Hi I got this from one of my friend. A- ka B - tu C - mi D - te E - ku F - lu G - ji H - ri I - ki J - zu K - me L - ta M - rin N - to O - mo P - no Q - ke R - shi S - ari T - chi U - do V- ru W - mei X...

letters

name

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marlena18042 Rinkashitakutoku. Whoa, thats pretty long. Cool. Thanks

5 Jan 10

How do you determine who to accept as a friend here on Mylot?

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 4 Jan 10

On Mylot, people always send friend requests but do you accept them all? Do you only accept a few? How do you decide whether or not you will accept their request?

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Should you go for style or funcitonin a home?

denverlovesgarages @denverlovesgarages (1) 4 Jan 10

Obviously in the perfect world you'd want to go for style and function at the same time, but in most cases this doesn't seem to be possible. So in your opinion, is it more important to have a functional home or a pretty one?

home

improvement

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marlena18042 Well, there are alot of things that I look for when looking for a new place. The style and the lay out of the place is always a plus but it has to be "fit" for my family. That is way more important.

4 Jan 10

Have you ever given, or do you give money to the homeless?

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 3 Jan 10

Have you ever done this? If so, how much? I have before but, I must say I am very skeptical as to why they are out there. I am sure that some are up to no good, but some may just really be in a horrible situation. What about...

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marlena18042 That's definitely a smart way to do it!

3 Jan 10

Fruit diet: Would you last a Day?

maria1081 @maria1081 (1251) • Philippines 3 Jan 10

Holidays just ended and most of us had gained few pounds. Have you? I think I did. We took family picture this morning with my nephew and sister-inlaw in the studio and the changes in my weight is obvious. Last night, I ate...

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marlena18042 Um, I really like fruits, a wide variety as well, but, to live off of them, I couldn't do it. Not because I would get bored with it but, I never feel full when I eat fruit, never. I would definitely be to hungry!

3 Jan 10

Do you like washing dishes manually?

maria1081 @maria1081 (1251) • Philippines 3 Jan 10

We dont have auto dishwasher at home. So we always do dishes manually. I like washing dishes and utensils but not all the time. I think about results so that I wont feel tired washing dirty dishes. How long does it take before...

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marlena18042 Yes! I so much prefer to do them that way for the simple fact that I know they are being done right! People would always tease me and ask me why if I have a dishwasher do I prefer to do them by hand? Even when I give them my answer, they all said that a...

3 Jan 10