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marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 26 Jan 10

Sounds crazy doesn't it ? But my daughter is about to give birth and the father's mother casually told her that she would go to the bank and take out a loan for 10,000 and give it to my daughter if she would give the child up for...

abortion

adoption

grandchild

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marlena18042 yes, if my daughter was thinking about putting her daughter up for adoption is one thing, but she is not. And if she was, she wouldn't do it for money.I know this has ruined the relationship between them.

27 Jan 10

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 4 Jan 10

On Mylot, people always send friend requests but do you accept them all? Do you only accept a few? How do you decide whether or not you will accept their request?

accepting friends

friends

mylot

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marlena18042 Hi 34momma. I only accept if they are active as well. I started a new way of Mylotting where whenever I sign on the first thing I do is go through my friends lists and answer a few of their discussions first. Because I select only those who have similar...

7 Jan 10

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 4 Jan 10

On Mylot, people always send friend requests but do you accept them all? Do you only accept a few? How do you decide whether or not you will accept their request?

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marlena18042 That's funny you say that, I too have requests that I haven't decided to accept or not! However, the requests I have are from people that haven't responded to my discussions and ones that haven't started any that I have responded to, that makes me think they...

7 Jan 10

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 3 Jan 10

Have you ever done this? If so, how much? I have before but, I must say I am very skeptical as to why they are out there. I am sure that some are up to no good, but some may just really be in a horrible situation. What about...

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marlena18042 That's definitely a smart way to do it!

3 Jan 10

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 30 Dec 09

I was at customer service the other day and the line was full of people returning items. I am going to assume that some were gifts being the holidays just passed and the lines were very long. Anyway, I thought to myself of times I...

gifts

returning gifts

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marlena18042 That really is the sweetest answer that I have heard!

3 Jan 10

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 29 Dec 09

My daughter is about to have a baby in about a month and she got me thinking about when I gave birth to her, she was my first. I remember how I was nervous and worried something would go wrong. I was also worried about the pain,...

brth

child birth

first baby

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marlena18042 You did have something to contribute! That was a very thoughtful and nice compliment!

30 Dec 09

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marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 29 Dec 09

My daughter is about to have a baby in about a month and she got me thinking about when I gave birth to her, she was my first. I remember how I was nervous and worried something would go wrong. I was also worried about the pain,...

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marlena18042 Congratulations! You are right,focus on the beautiful reward at the end!

30 Dec 09

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 29 Dec 09

My daughter is about to have a baby in about a month and she got me thinking about when I gave birth to her, she was my first. I remember how I was nervous and worried something would go wrong. I was also worried about the pain,...

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marlena18042 Yes, indeed! I have 3 teens,14,15 and 16 and boy is that hard! To top it off my two girls are completely different and unfortunately argue alot! The boy does his own thing but still teases the girls, he does stuff just to get under their skin! When they are...

30 Dec 09

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 29 Dec 09

My daughter is about to have a baby in about a month and she got me thinking about when I gave birth to her, she was my first. I remember how I was nervous and worried something would go wrong. I was also worried about the pain,...

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marlena18042 I'm sorry to hear what she went through. Im sure you were worried, but your right, now you have that beautiful baby, and it is worth it!

29 Dec 09

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marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 29 Dec 09

My daughter is about to have a baby in about a month and she got me thinking about when I gave birth to her, she was my first. I remember how I was nervous and worried something would go wrong. I was also worried about the pain,...

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marlena18042 You had your babies very close together as did I. And, they say when they are born so close, the second is a lot easier. For me, that is very true. My second, despite my fear, actually came out a lot quicker and the pain was a lot easier to handle! Yes, you...

29 Dec 09

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marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 21 Dec 09

I went to bingo last night and won 150.00! I am very happy because it has been awhile since I have won money and right before Christmas sure is good. Do you go to bingo? Or maybe to bet on horses or the lottery? What was the most...

bigno

gambling

winning money

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2 people

marlena18042 Congrats to you also on your wins! Thanks for the response!

21 Dec 09

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 16 Dec 09

Oh, another Holiday approaching, and my family is unfortunatly at odds again. It's frustrating when a close family member doesn't get along with another. It makes for quite an interesting Christmas dinner, that is if they both...

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marlena18042 Nicely put Hatley. You are 100% right indeed. Family should not be taken for granted and that seems to happen way to often. I am sorry to hear of your losses.I see how you value and are grateful for you son. That's exactly how it should be! Family is very...

21 Dec 09

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 14 Dec 09

Can you believe I feel this way! I myself think it is ridiculous, but let me tell you why. My daughter is two and she is very clumsy, well, the typical two yr old I guess! Anyway, it was a few months ago when I had to take my...

abuse

children

doctors

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marlena18042 Yes, It is good for a doctor to be on point and aware. I also understand asking how they got the brusies,etc. But, when they are told how and the doctor gives a sign of disbelief, that's when it bothers me and I get offended and worried. Thanks for your...

15 Dec 09

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 14 Dec 09

Can you believe I feel this way! I myself think it is ridiculous, but let me tell you why. My daughter is two and she is very clumsy, well, the typical two yr old I guess! Anyway, it was a few months ago when I had to take my...

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marlena18042 Yes,I will definitely take her to the doctors when needed, it is just an uncomfortable feeling. I think some of the society may feel this way as well because of all the stories in the news where mothers and fathers have been under investigation or had their...

15 Dec 09

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 14 Dec 09

I seem to have the luck of being around miserable people and misguided children at all the right times to hear them say very rude things, and I let it get to me. Yesterday, as I was walking into my local Walmart, There were two...

stealing

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marlena18042 Yes. The news does seem to broadcast the bad things that happen way more then they tell of the good! There seem to be alot of negative influences now that kids see and even look up to!

15 Dec 09

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 14 Dec 09

Can you believe I feel this way! I myself think it is ridiculous, but let me tell you why. My daughter is two and she is very clumsy, well, the typical two yr old I guess! Anyway, it was a few months ago when I had to take my...

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marlena18042 I suppose you are right. Worrying never helps and doesn't change a situation anyway!

15 Dec 09

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 14 Dec 09

Can you believe I feel this way! I myself think it is ridiculous, but let me tell you why. My daughter is two and she is very clumsy, well, the typical two yr old I guess! Anyway, it was a few months ago when I had to take my...

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marlena18042 Yes, I do try to look at it from that point of view because I am sure they have helped some kids out of bad situations by being aware of such things.Thank you for your comment!

15 Dec 09

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 12 Dec 09

Hi all. I recently found out that someone in my husbands family doesn't tell her children the whole "Santa" thing. It was kinda shocking to me as even though I knew there had to be people that don't tell there kids this, I didn't...

beliefs

santa claus

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marlena18042 I agree. It was very enjoyable for me as a child to believe in Santa. I forgot about the whole milk and cookie things. I do remeber checking to see if he took some milk and ate the cookie, that was something else I looked forward to. It is very sad to me...

12 Dec 09

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