Suspicion in Relationship

mmmm, sounds like she might be a bit jealous! and ANY relatioship is based on trust and honesty. I suggest you talk to her and tell her whats going on. Let her know that you have a life and that you've been busy. Also tell her that you;re there for her, but sometimes you have to take care of things on your own. I mean just show her you really care about her you know...Like take her to a restaurant and talk to her there. Im sure she will understand. And the whole spying thing....well you dont know for sure, maybe you just feel that way. but like i said any relationship is based on trust. Make her trust you and viseversa. GOOD LUCK!

tell her what you feel.. maybe she is spying you because she has a lot of suspicions or doubts on you that she wants to be answered.. face her!!! go go go

Hi sweet, I guess you both need to sit down and talk about it..Clarify things out...I know she will understand once you will talk to her and explain to her what made you busy this time..In any relationship, we really have to allot time and if our schedule hinder us then we have to be open about it to our friends!

In your situation, maybe your friend lacks your attention. She maybe misses you so much. But the bad thing is that she is making suspicion to you. She must just had confronted you about her problem to you, so that her questions and suspicions will be answered. On your part, you don't have to change the way you treat her. Remember that she had been a very good friend to you, you must always know that. Take a move by asking her and tell her all the things why you were busy. Or ask yourself, if you are just too conscious about your moves that is why you are suspecting her that she is making suspicions behind you. Anyways, i always believe that proper communication is a tool to understanding. Thanks and I hope you will resolve your problem.

It looks like she has a desire for more than friendship if she's interested in spying on you. From her perspective, she has doubts and insecurities. You don't seem to be calming them. It is hard to see more than this, because I know so little about your particulars. But if things are as you say, 1) you are 'friends' 2) you are not starting a 'relationship' with someone else, 3) she is jealous and spying on you.. then she seems a bit scary to me.

Jealousy can be a really bad thing in any relationship. You have got to sit down and talk to each other. i have got to let her know what you are doing and explain that even though you have not had so much time for her you still value her friendship. Hopefully she will be able to accept this and the situation will be sorted out. This relationship cannot carry on if she is going to be continually jealous. Good luck.

It really sound sad that your good friend has started suspected about you. It is indeed not a healthy sign for a strong and sound relationship. You better talk to her and confront her what made her think that there is something 'fishy' in your attitude and why did she start suspecting you. You can clear all her doubts while talking to her (specially when there is no such thing to arouse her suspicion). You need to win her confidence back and tell her that you pay her due regards and respect and you are neither ditching her nor you intend to do so. To my mind the act of suspecting someone is connected with 'insecurity', just try and find out, what led to al this that she has started feeling insecure about your relationship. Best of luck to you! May you come out well out of your all troubles!

Good day...Have you two committed yourselves to exclusive relationship? I mean she seems to see it that way while you don't. You have to clarify it with her she might have the wrong impression that's why she's acting the way she is.

...well, as i see it, you did not really talk about that matter with your friend heart to heart.. you have to spare time to talk together.. atleast, you give her your reasons why you cannot spare much time with her anymore so that she can understand you.. your friendship will be wasted if you let that situation break your bond.. If you need to humble yourself to her and apologize, do it if that's the way to save your relationship.. You pray too for her, for enlightenment..