Have you ever asked someone why they love you? or is that stupid to ask?

I ask it once in while. Its because i need to know what he loves most about me and improve on those characteristics so that he may not find me a dull partner. i don't know why but i always need reassurance from him that he loves me, that his feelings has not changed. maybe I'm just being paranoid, but that's just me ^^

Its not really stupid to ask rather its just like other questions are. And by the way a very nice question which makes the other feel nice and good, when your partner tells you, expresses you that they love you for this reason that you are their everything

Yes and usually the answer is I find that a questions silly. Cause when your in love you love everything with that person even that person is not perfect.

Well, I suppose it depends on how it's asked. I consider myself to be a very upfront person and I have asked that. It feels good to hear the resons why my husband loves me. He asks me then in return. We tell each other the great things about one another.I believe in if it's a sked like that it is good. Now, I think that this question could also be something that is asked by someone that might not feel worthy of love or doesnt know all of the good qualities about themselves that they must ask someone else, then thats different. It would show signs of insecurities or a negative self-woth.I have a friend that always asks her boyfriend this and she is very insecure with herself.

I never ask my girlfriend weather she love me or not,i think that as long as she love me,i can realise it. best wishes to you.

Yes, I often wonder. "whats so special about me?" "what makes me different from anyone else?" There are different reasons why you may love someone and of course you want to why out of everyone on this earth you were the pick. It is not a stupid question at all.

I always do that. I don't think that's a stupid question to ask but every time I ask my husband that question he tend to be irritant.hehehehe... he believes that there's no need to ask, can't I see his gestures. He believes action speaks louder than words. But what I want is to hear his answer just to reassure me. Yeah I know he loves me very much I can feel it. But I want to hear it too and feel it at the same time. hehehe

I don't think that that is a stupid question to ask. Haha, but I had never asked that question to my partner. I believe that my boyfriend loves me, and that is why he is together with me. Furthermore to that, I also trust that he would say that if he wants to, and there is no need for me to ask just to reassure myself. Lol.. I think most people will ask their partners this question just to reaffirm themselves with their partners, or they just love hearing their partners say this, but their partners is lacking in it, and needs the pushing in order to say it! I trust my own instincts and my instincts tells me that my boyfriend loves me, from the way he cares for me, and jsut be there for me. I don't think that I would ever need to ask this question to him just to confirm my standing in his heart. How about you? =)