Why do men lie?

i'm not sure what reasons they do have for not calling or communicating with you again. there's no way of telling until you knew it. there area a lot of ways doing that but that depends on your preference. some would call, some send text and some say hi through common friends. to give the benefit of the doubt somehow those men you have given your numbers have some issues by themselves too specially when and where you met that guy, if he is sober enough to know that he gave you his number and you gave yours too. but again, i am not very certain and knowing is better than just keep on wondering.!! cheers..!!

Hi, I'm sorry for what happend to you but, man lie likes women lie, what happend to you happend to me to sometime, like other times I did the same that they did to you, sometime because I was feeling under pression and I tought that she want to much for me and I didn't was ready for that, all can have a lot of reasons but...absolutly don't give up and you'll see that something nich happend. What can I rate to you is to be more relax and you'll see Nun

I guess because they think that they can. Or because they have their own issues that they don't want to deal with. We all, men and women lie because we just don't want to face certain issues or deal with our problems. So we lie just for it to go back under the rug and come up again later on. We need to be honest with ourselves and stop playing with other peoples lives. johnson3

i have to defend men here i think everyone lies sometimes, it takes alot of courage to be very truthful and say i'm not interested or i have to much on at the moment. Many people are busy and time can run away with itself, family can get in the way circumstances. I personally know my boyfriend hates using the phone and even though we;ve been together for 10 years if i go away our phone calls are like checkin in and saying goodnight. Nothing long chatty or romantic, thats just the way he is. The man may think you disliked him have confidence issues etc. It's the 21st century if you enjoyed your date and swapped numbers but he hasn't called yet. Call him you'll be able to tell if he's interested or not and if he isn't move on theres someone out there who is! Why is it down to him to call you first? I believe in making things happen not waiting around for it to happen to me. Make the call you might be surprised

I'd say that guys *DO* intend to call you back, but then don't because of their own issues... maybe fear that the phone number is wrong, so why try it? maybe they were full of liquid curage and can't muster up the guts to call now that their sober. perhaps they think they saw you talking to that other guy, so obviously you found someone better... it's complicated... whatever the reason, it's almost certainly not YOUR fault. not all guys will be afraid to call you. also, if you're really into a guy, but he hasnt called you back, he's probably afraid that you weren't all that into him, so if you have his phone number, what would it hurt to call him and see if he wants to go out again? just a thought... anyway, hope i was of some assistance, and good luck.

Well I am a man myself (lol) I do not lie, and I have kept in touch with all my x-girlfriends... Even though I dun date many women, and I prefer men. It just takes time to find the right person, even though it seems like forever, when you finally do you are as happy as can be. Just keep hope, and once you have them, never let them go. An Lol Comment on a Serial Matter

Hi Munch, [i]I guess you didn't find yet the true guy for you..Those whom you have met are just hanging out for fun and maybe for them it is good to lie than to be honest to tell you that they can't meet you again for some reasons, maybe they found other women or some are marriage! You are very attractive and for sure you will be able to meet the right guy for you...Do not lose your hope![/i]

who knows why some men lie like tht, i couldnt really say cuz i'm not tht type. if i ask for a number i use it, it kinda defeats tht perpose of getting if u dont use it. the only thing tht i can think of is tht some guys like seeing how many number they can get. i have to say tht women do the same thing too. the only thing i can think is stop going for the kind of guys tht u give ur number to, or try going some where else to meet people. there are guys out there tht dont lie, but there the kind of guys tht most women pass by cuz they dont meet there standards for looks or money or other things. one thing tht i know tht applys to both men and women is when u go to a club the majority of them tend to be all the same and think alike.

There could be a number of reasons, many already stated by other mylotters. But you mention that you exchange phone numbers - why don't you make the first move and call him. If he is interested he will take you up on a second date and then you can see where it goes. If he did not call you because he wasn't really interested or for any other reason that he did not want to see you again, then he will put you off. At least then you will know. Be assured though, girls also lie about meeting again - many times both sexes do this only to not see the pain they may cause to the other. It is easier to accept causing pain if you don't have to actually see it.

I never have experience like this ... but i think if guys do this with us maybe it's because they didn't like us or the girl didn't meet for their criteria, what they hunt ... you know it's just like an interview job, they sound interesting with us, and they said they will call us again about the job, but the fact is they never make a call for us ... It's somekind soft rejection form .... But hey, you are pretty, i think you will meet the right one for you easily, so what's should you care about? Don't worry, you'll have a right man one day .. hehe ^_~ Keep cheers ...

ok...i just gave a postive rating for a discussion that speaks against men, lol....ok so i lied to a woman once about calling her again but never called back because on our date she was talking about her ex all the time, i didnt like that and she was all so sad about her life ....personally i didnt had the guts to tell her that i would`nt want to meet her again., when she was saying that people dont talk to her.....lol....now after reading your discussion i feel alil guilty , i think not calling her up wud have hurt her more than saying a no to her..... But i hope thats not the the case with you as every women is not boring, but i guess the guy might be looking for something else in you or he might not be wanting to come to strong to go for another date soon.... Anyways you should not care about such men coz there are loads of them in the world and you will lose confindence in men being loyal, think what will guys like me do then if no women will trust us.!!!

Well its not about men its about a lie, and a lie is always said to hide things simply ! men hide things if they lie! its not too complicated!

I really don't know. Who does anyways? Even man himself don't know why he lies. It's like been there since they were born. LOL.

Being a guy myself, I still don't know why guys lie...In all honesty, I don't lie, especially to the ones I sincerely care about...But I think some people have to lie to make themselves feel like they're in control, you know? It is quite mind boggling, but just remember that not every single guy is going to lie to you... -Mike

I don't know why men lie certainly my husband isn't like this. My best friend said to me that you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your Prince. In my experience I had to kiss a lot of them before I met my soul mate. My husband doesn't seem to behave the way most guys do. He respects me and treats me right and is the only one who have ever done this.

They bend the truth a little, and when dealing with gals, it's the fine line between the truth and half- truth that often saves their skins. In other words, lies are the ultimate escape. When you'll hear it: when he's hopelessly late for your date and you know it. When he calls or texts you this, he's probably still taking a bath. Why they lie: By telling you we're 10 (sometimes they'll say 15, but never more than that) minutes a way, they extend the deadline, so to speak, and all proceeding lateness is judged accordingly.

Hello Munchkin, Did you give them any hint that you are waiting for their call? Does your body language tells them another thing? Most men are egoistic, and they fear rejection. Thus, I suppose most of the men you met are feel inferior about themselves or have low self-confidence - so they end up not calling you. If you want them to call back, how about dropping some hint to them at the end of the conversation that you will be waiting for their call? It can be a subtle hint like a *wink* at him or a gentle and genuine smile. If I met a girl who just walk away without dropping any hint that she is expecting me to follow-up, most probably I will just forget about her the next morning. In addition, maybe those guys you met are gentlemen and they want you to feel good. Which girl doesn't like the feeling of being wooed or expecting a call from that cute-looking man? Maybe, out of politeness, they say those things to make you feel good - especially in-front of your girlfriends! Nothing can be more embarrassing than being laughed at by your girlfriends that you got turn down by a guy or failed to 'charm' that good-looking guy. Last of all, maybe your approach is wrong. Look, if you try using a key to open the door, and it fails to open, the solution is to try another key. It is the same for your relationship - if after so many attempt, you get the same result, try using a different approach!

Not all men are liars, I'm sure you agree with me. Let us put it this way. Would you rather find someone who will flatter you to no end and after a while get bored and leave you alone broken hearted. Or wait for the right one even if it takes one year of waiting. From the looks of things those guys are not meant for you. So, cheer up. You will meet him soon. Maybe I could be the one? Just kidding.

Men generally lie about their past or lie about their secrets. They cant be honest and thats what nice girls (like you) hate about them. Other girls wont even care coz they themselves arent serious. Most men lie coz they just are not serious!

It goes for everyone... I mean women also lie. You just got to be always on your toes, I mean be on guard everytime. Don't let them get the best of you. Dont be too desperate cause sooner or later you will find what you are looking for, If you are patient enough to wait. Desperation is really a tender trap, It gets you everytime. Also dont compare yourself with your friends. You should appreciate your differencies cause it's what makes you unique from them. You should be more bothered if you and your friends are exactly the same. Imagine having the same guy as a boyfriend or having to wear the same clothes.... eat the same food everytime. It's not pretty right? You should also take chances. dont allow a certain rejection drag you down... Anyways if the guys dont follow up anymore, then it's there loss!