who cheats more often?
By kaezy_kulet
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
Philippines
August 10, 2008 10:32pm CST
mylotters who cheats more often? men or women? I think men are more cheaters than women..i know men who are cheaters and who has many girls in their life..hehehe hey i am not a man hater it is just my opinion do not get angry with me okay? this is just based on my personal experience i have seen my dad cheating that is why my mom and dad separated..my friend always have a quarrel with his girl because she had found out that she was cheated and my friend had another women..so your opinions mylotters?
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27 responses
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
11 Aug 08
i also believe both are equal
but the surprising thing is .. y the cheating girls get good guys and y the cheating guys get the good girls.
it would not hurt anyone if the cheating girls are matched with cheating guys .. maybe there should be a cheaters convention and they can select their partners
my mother used to say something like .. the husband sneaking the front door while the wife sneaking the back door
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@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
hahahaha..i know both are cheater it is just that men are caught more often
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@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
11 Aug 08
so are the ladies good investigators or the man think we are stupid and do not cover the proof ... ?
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
we have good intuitions and we can feel it if our men is cheating on us
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
11 Aug 08
I will have to take the even split on this one. I have seen guys as well as girls do it. It is what I have seen in my life and that is why I am saying both are equally as bad. Some girls can hide it really well where others can't. But that goes with the men as well. I have seen guys cheat and cheat and never get caught.
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
you don't want to take side huh? hehehe well we can't really say that there are no cheater's i think they like the risk of being caught.
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@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
11 Aug 08
I can't take sides cause I have seen it done equally.
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@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
that's alright..thanks for posting..
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@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
11 Aug 08
Personally, I think men and women cheat equally often. Although men were already given the stereotype long before to be the one that cheats often. In reality though it still really depends on the person and his/her personality and not because of their gender whether they would cheat or not.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
Well survey says it the men who cheat more often. Maybe because there is a wrong notion that it's alright for men anyway they are men and nothing will they lose. I am really saddened by this wrong notion because in the eyes of God... all sin whether committed by a man or woman will have the same punishment.
And oh I'm so sorry friend for what happened to your parents. Anyway, I hope your Dad will soon realize his fault and renew his life.
Have a nice day friend!
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
Well i do not think my dad will ever learn..i was in elementary when they separated but i have lived with it..i am alright and i do not believe that all men are like my dad..but i would really say that they cheat more often because of the reason you had stated..
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
15 Sep 08
for me 50-50.not all guys are cheater specially the old ones has motivation in life.
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@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
bwahahaha talking from experience huh? hehehehe peace..mwaaaaaaah
@metal_monkee (930)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
hi kaezy_kulet...
before answering your question i like to ask how many stars are there in our galaxy? hehe in another galaxy?
maybe its hard to answer i will simplify the question for you can you count the furs on this cute little monkees skin? hahaha lolz
anywayz for your question i think all things being created equal so there is equal chance for man/woman to commit this terrible act..."cheating on your partner"
people man/woman are not immune to the sins which i think "lust" and "greed" the major causes of it...
but still hoping to find the faithful ones...they are there for sure!!!
SMILE ALWAYS ^_^
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@fwangaa (3057)
• China
12 Aug 08
i don't need some women.i hate this,i hate all of the women.i don't need them .are you think i will not cheat to you.and i am not cheat often that the women.why the man often cheat casued by the women. because they have other girls,and why they don't love their wife again. i think it is very sad for women.why women choose to find another boy and cheat man. i am chinese.
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
I think that both do the same, it's just that men are portrayed to do that more often. Honestly I've known a lot of men who had cheated once in their lives but doesn't mean that men cheat more often than women. Maybe in my opinion it's just that there are more reported cases of men who have cheated and society is more open about that than women who cheat.
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
it depends, well girls will say that guyz cheat more often, but when we ask guyz, they will say that girls cheat more often. based on my experience, i always get cheated, maybe because i'm very good to them, then they just abuse it, they always take me for granted..
@metal_monkee (930)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
haha nice topic here its hard to find "contented one" people always like finding greener pastures...haaayz they never treasure what they already have...unlike singles outder who are still in search for a partner ...
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
well but as far as i can see we are the one's who are always being cheated..
@rbailey83 (1428)
• Canada
11 Aug 08
i hate to say it, but i think you're right, i think men tend to cheat more often than females, although i never understood why, if your going to cheat on your partner you obviously don't truly love and respect them, so why are you still with them
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
I thin it is because they like the challenge of sneaking behind their partner's back?
@rbailey83 (1428)
• Canada
11 Aug 08
mmm beats me, i just don't understand how you could do something like that to someone, my first girlfriend cheated on my, after the 3rd time i realized it would stop, so know what it feels like i just don't understand how someone could do that to their partner
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
i really do not know 'coz i do not like to cheat on someone too.
@shamzy18 (2316)
•
11 Aug 08
i think guys are more cheating though i have seen quite a few girls who cheat on guys too using them but overall it is more guys they are either players who cant stick to one girl or just cheating on their girl friend. though there are some girls out there too like this but in my opinion more guys
@karminology (26)
• Turkey
12 Aug 08
surely women cheats the most..
i am a national athlete who is 21 years old.. i've gone out with a lot of girls however they always ended it up with cheating.. i dont thing i have the problem, i only find wrong people :) or i am very good at finding out :p
what im really proud of myself is i never ever cheated anyone.. i had many opportunities but i didnt..
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Hi kaezy,
[i]It's hard to conclude but I will just base my answer based on my friends and those whom I know..Men cheats more than women...I have known a lot of men who destroy their happy family after riding on temptations and I have known also a lot of men who are just hiding their "monkey business" to their wives but friends of friends will always see them..LOL! A small world indeed!
Although I have known also some women who are cheating their husbands but the number of men will still exceed![/i]
@samijo719 (1052)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I would say men. Because it is always talked about more that men cheat. I know women cheat too but it is more widely talked about and said that men cheat. When women cheat it's usually not so much talked about. I think it's because women talk more and men keep their feelings to themselves. But i'd have to say men cheat more.
@moondrop824 (241)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I personally think it's Men,... but I have alot of friends who have no problem going out and cheating on thier man because they've HAD IT UP TO HERE... with men and they have the "i'm gonna cheat before I get cheated on" attitude. But the amount of men cheaters and the amount of women cheaters is about equal...
Me, i've ALWAYS stayed faithful but these days i'll be real quick to give someone up if that's what they want to do rather than let them keep coming back over and over again, that's just wrong I think.
@LordEnigma (26)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Having been cheated on by my ex-wife, and by my girlfriend before that marriage, and not having cheated myself, I would like to point out that women aren't as infallible as you think.
I'd say its even; we're all human.
@heartbreaker1222 (38)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I really can't say men are the bigger cheaters because women lie. They lie so good and well. I would say they equally cheat.
@iqubal0623 (2)
• India
11 Aug 08
Nobody(men and women) in this world are same .......so u can't say that all men are cheaters by the way i m not .....he he he..i love my GF and i'll definetly marry with my GF ....and most of my frnds are like that....matter is that what type of person u meet and wht is u r exp. in life... so i met such type of person who are not cheaters ....and i think 80% of the lovers can't cheat.... so love the life and belive wht u r heart says....