Can you keep friendship before family relationship

@rkrish (3003)
India
August 12, 2008 2:13am CST
We have lot of friends and family realtions. We spent long time with all these peoples. If it comes to a situation to accept one of the above, Then whom will be give importance Friend or a Family member (Except spouse). Friend or Family
4 responses
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
i do believe with this cliche...BLOOD are thicker than the WATER...so whatever happesn family would still be valued...but if we can at least balance it, then why not, when friends are also like family to us...and most of us, i bet friends knows us best than our family are....
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
exactly...
@rkrish (3003)
• India
12 Aug 08
yeah though the blood has brought has up but we need water to continue our living. good thought
@icegermany (2524)
• India
12 Aug 08
if its to choose family or friends, i´ll obviously go for my family family is the one i love it n its my life but not friendship, i think most of u all here agree with me. family gives u love n also gives u pain but u cant accept only love right? as each n every topic or a thing or a relationship has a drawback n no thing in the world comes without pain hence u cant just take love n deny the pain if u need love from ur beloved ones u have to even tolerate the pain which comes with. friendship is another thing whenever we r sad or happy we feel like sharing it with our friends.but u cant opt friendship on the basis of family. family comes first n then all other relationship.
@rkrish (3003)
• India
12 Aug 08
family foremost than all, your posting is really good thanks
• India
12 Aug 08
thank you
• United States
12 Aug 08
The problem is that there are friends that are so close that are also considered as family members even though they are not blood related.. so it can be tricky but I guess i would have to go with Family because no matter what family will always be there.. there are many friends that will come and go throughout ones lifetime and family well... its always their.
@rkrish (3003)
• India
12 Aug 08
I agree, friends can be alike family but family is great than friends
@EbbyLiu (15)
• China
14 Aug 08
If I think the friend is important to me ,I will keep this friendship!@
@rkrish (3003)
• India
14 Aug 08
As they are now with us