I think a girl loves me but.............
By manchirao
@manchirao (19)
United States
August 15, 2008 12:22pm CST
I met a girl online a few days back, i think she loves me and she expressed it. But i said no because she is very young for me. I said no many times but she wont listen. she is very emotional. Is there any solution to the problem. How to solve it
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5 responses
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
15 Aug 08
it is very impossible to be in love with someone online in just a few days of writing. Is this lady come from same country with you?If she comes from another country, you have to think twice before you proceed if you have any plan. there are many young girls who are using the older man as stepping stone. Well, not all but mostly. you are asking how to solve that problem? STOP COMMUNICATING with her and your problem would be solve unless if you are also interested with her, 
that is another problem to be solved.
that is another problem to be solved.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
20 Aug 08
If you did not meet her in person yet!! that is nothing to be afraid of. You did not do anything wrong with her except that you don;t like her. Somebody must advice her to accept the reality. she can't force anybody to like her if he doesn't? That threatening thing like cut herself? ohhhh that is very immature style. You've got to have more problems in the future if you give in to that idea that she will cut herself? Maybe she has another problem?? Good luck.
@manchirao (19)
• United States
15 Aug 08
yes we live in the same country. i am not interested in her. once i was out of town and did not chat to her, she sent me many offlines threating me that she will cut herself if i dont talk to her.
now what should i do, i cant risk a girls life by not chatting to her
i think she is very emotional and serious because she sends me 20 offlines in 5 minutes when i am not online
@sugarplum9084 (1771)
• United States
15 Aug 08
If you only met her online a few days ago it is definitely not love, just an odd online infatuation she may have for you. But you both barely know each other assuming that you can't know someone's history and life that well from that small amount of time. I would just say that it's probably not worth getting worked up about, if you don't want to have anything to do with her romantically tell her that, and if she does not listen, then just don't talk to her anymore- it is that easy on the internet because she does not live close to you and not much is lost from doing that. It's all your decision though, if she's not your type of girl, just move on and forget about it.
@manchirao (19)
• United States
15 Aug 08
there are lot more other problems than that. Once i was out of town and not online, she sent me many offline messages that she is gonna cut herself, if i dont get online.
i am not interested in her. But i am only talking to her because she is threating me to harm herself.
@sugarplum9084 (1771)
• United States
15 Aug 08
She is not your problem, and she obviously has her own issues if she is going to cling onto you like that and threaten to hurt herself. By communicating with her you are wasting your energies because she will always have these problems within her, it is no your fault if she cuts herself, that is her own doing, not yours. Just let her go and she will eventually get over it and find some other poor guy to bother. You know what you have to do.
@mslittlemoon (15)
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17 Aug 08
Just ignore her. Responding her messages would be encouraging her keep on threatening you. It wouldn't help her at all. I don't think she's gonna cut herself for real. You don't need such trouble in your life. Good luck.:)
@urcheekyangel (438)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
i dont believe that this girl does love you! maybe its just infatuation, for love needs time to grow, you have to listen to her first, understand her, and say no to her, and you said you are meeting online right? dont be online, so she wont bother you anymore...
