is a cheater always a cheater?

If you've been cheated by someone you love very much, that statement may seem like a little too harsh. Mainly, because when we are in love we tend to be so stupid. I love to agree with that statement because a lot of people told me the same thing. But I just can't personally... I will always forgive someone I love no matter what he does to me. Maybe that is the reason why I avoid being with a cheater, so as to avoid looking stupid at the end.

I do believe that statement to be true in most cases... There's an old story about a frog & a scorpion that goes something like this - After a big flood, frog & a scorpion came across their path & deiced to keep each other company by traveling together... They come across a raging river... That's when frog turns to scorpion & says, "well... I guess this is where we apart... I can cross this river with little effort but I doubt you can." Then scorpion replies, "I know! You can put me on your back & cross this river"... Frog says, "I can't do that! You'll sting me & we'll both drown & die!" Scorpion says, "Why would I do that? If I sting you, that means I'll die too! I'm not that dumb!" Frog thought about it for a minute & that made sense so he decided to agree to scorpion & puts him on his back, proceeded to cross the river... About half way across, frog starts to feel a burning, painful sensation on his back in which scorpion indeed stung him... As the start to drown, frog turned to scorpion & says, "Why did you sting me? Now we both are gonna die for sure because of your poison, I don't have enough strength to get us out of this!!!" Scorpion, with his last breath replies, "I'm sorry... I felt the strongest eargy sting you... I guess it was just in my nature... I'm sorry!!!" - Anybody can change... A person can't get away from their "nature"...

yeah...i think if someone cheats once, they will do it again. it is a disease..insecure...they cant help it...they need attention from others for feed their battered egos...or maybe their current spouse is not giving them want they really need and they r not satisfied...married someone for wrong reason and it is not working out..

Maybe you can not make a cheater honest,but you can make youself intelligent.Do not trust a cheater a second time.

No!Ofcourse not!!People CAN change but some ppl choose not to...Don't ever judge a person for what he/she has done in the past.

I think for the most part that a cheater is always a cheater. Depending on the situation I guess. Like if the person thought you were broken up and they ended up "cheating" then I dont think that history will repeat itself but if there was nothing to make the person think your broken up then yes they will do it time and time again