And The Whole Town Came.........
By Sparks
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
Regina, Saskatchewan
August 16, 2008 4:11pm CST
Today has been a bittersweet day. Today our little of town of less than a hundred souls buried one of their own.
I was up early to get to the town hall to help the Ladies Committee set up for the funeral. We only have one Church here and it's Catholic and they won't do funerals for non-members. Like God cares!
Anyway, as a result, when a long time resident dies, we hold the funeral in the town hall, set up an alter at the front and chairs, and arrange food for a wake afterwards in the basement rooms. The Catholic Church does let us have the loan for the day of some proper pews for the immediate family.
I was on my way out the door of my house to do my bit, when I caught the Olympic race that had Jamaica winning the gold and had to stop and drop a post about it, I was so proud of them!
Then off to the hall I went, and blow me down what a zoo!
Everyone who lives within a 20km radius was there and running back and forth, up and down and getting the place ready for the service.
If you want something done in record time with style and class, get a group of women together! They are wonders and poetry in motion.
Before long things settled and the family and mourners started taking their seats. The service was ecumenical and very moving. I learned so much about the deceased from all the little stories told and memories shared. I also learned a lot about my town and the respect and reverance they hold for the founding families. I was actually intimidated that the position I hold in my town had previously been held by people of far more substance and character than I. It was a humbling experience to hear the history of my town and the parts played by the ancestors of,( and) the deceased.
Amazing what you learn in the most unlikely places!
After the service and before the 'wake' the entire congregation formed a line behind a black draped horse drawn wagon, that led the procession to the town cemetary for the interment. The weather was hot with cool breezes and sunny, so the association with an old fashioned movie scene was more difficult to make but spot on all the same. Bagpipes played Rock of Ages and Amazing Grace the whole way and everyone sang. It was one of the most incredible things I have ever been a part of. I put in a brief appearance at the 'wake' to pay my respects to the family, but had to come home and take the weight off my back. It got quite a workout going up and down those stairs at the hall fetching and carrying and organizing and directing and doing my duty.
On Monday morning we have to do the same thing all over again for another resident who passed this week. His funeral will be in the early morning though. But I still have to bake another large batch of raspberry tarts for it! lol
When was the last time you took part in a town function that moved you to tears?
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5 responses
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
17 Aug 08
It has been years Spark. I applaud you and your efforts and I think you undermine yourself when it comes to what you do and your qualities.
It sounds like you had a wonderful day that would delight anyone that attended and all of us that didn't. Even though the reason was one that most of us dread having to deal with. We all do our part on these occasions. Some do more, and I'm sure you are one that does more, lol.
Rest those tired feet, no dancing tonight. Or less dancing under our moonlight. Have a nice relaxing drink and be ready for tomorrow.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Hi spark,
That's good..I know your presence means so much to them!
I have to "laugh" with the rules of that Catholic Church! I am Roman Catholic but....anyway! So much about it, that's what they believed!
Last time I attended thing like that was the man who sponsor a scholarship to the university where I graduated..He helped a lot of students financially and almost all of those students are very successful now in their respective career!
His family from USA didn't show up, and we don't know why! We tried to call his son but it was the time when this man can't talk anymore!
Anyway, it was very touching and we feel really the love and care of the people who attended and were not really relatives!
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
17 Aug 08
DOnt think I ever have. the most part of the town get togethrer was on decoration day at the grave yard and on one side of the church the food was set up think I cook somthing dont really remember but only went a couople of times and now they have stopped it for kids ruined that for us so they turned it into a parking lot.
no more picnics but we still go every 4th Sunday in MAy and set around where our people are and talk to all the people that come by. This happens in Tenn. SO I havent got out there for a few years.
and most of the people I knew has gone to the other side!
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
17 Aug 08
What a lovely tradition and what a terrible shame that it's gone the way of most of our old and charming traditions these days. With the passing on of those who kept these traditions alive, I really think that our societies suffer terrible losses of all kinds.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
17 Aug 08
I have never been involved in anything like that. The way you describe it seems very touching and wonderful that a town would get together and do this, like one big family. Wow is all I can say!
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
17 Aug 08
With less than l00 residents living in the town proper, they are like one big family. To see so many of the farmers and their families that have farms surrounging the town show up was truly inspiring. Wow! is what I said too!
@devylan (695)
• United States
19 Aug 08
Wow. What a beautiful snippet of your life you've shown me here. That is a very touching story. I am sure you must have some substance and character, though; otherwise, they wouldn't have given you the task. Plus, I wouldn't have accepted your friend request. Lol. To answer your question, I haven't lived in a town that small since I was a young child, so I can't really say that I've participated in any town functions that were that personal to move me to tears, but I will say that this story has almost moved me to tears, just to think about what an amazing experience it was, and even though it was sad, like you said, it was bittersweet, because you learned more of the history of where you live, and therefore, you have more of a connection to where you live because you have seen into the town's soul, and that is an amazing thing. So, that was the longest sentence I've written in a long time. I hope it's grammatically correct! Lol.
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
20 Aug 08
LOL - doesn't matter if it wasn't grammatically correct, it was joy to read! I love 'seen into the town's soul' - how apt and how true. Thank you for that. I will remember it.
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