A moment of sick satisfaction

hell no keep laughing!! and yeah i have.. i would hear something bad happen to some one that was mean to me and laughter would fly out of my mouth before i could stop it.. and a few times it was really wrong seemingly to other people but i think its ok to laugh.. and if you cant feel bad about it later then oh well!!

to be honest w/you i think it's awful that u laughed. first of all she couldn't have been the other woman if your husband hadn't made her that. i never have understood why women blame the other woman instead of their husbands. if it hadn't been her it would have been another one.

One day when I was a kid, I said in front of my mother that I hated so and so, I don't remember who. She was doing the dishes and without even turning around she said in her best "Voice of GOD" voice. "You don't Hate ANYBoDY." She probably doesn't remember it, But I sure do. And I've lived by it all my life.

If it makes us evil then so be it. LOL I probably would have laughed until I cried. Since I often wish an asteroid would hit my ex-husband's house while he sleeps in it, I can honestly say I understand where you are coming from. I do also find it halarious when karma finally gets them in the end. Although, by me laughing at their misfortune I'm probably racking up alot of my own bad karma as well. LOL

Hey there foxyfire33, in an ideal world where humans are fair and the rules are followed and everyone follows the same moral code, you are certainly a bad person. However, I would say since God created human with feelings such as vengeance and jealousy, I would say you are just being human. I broke up with my ex 4 months ago and I got my revenge by influencing my ex's friend to have a fight with my ex. Knowing they had a war of words made me laugh although I know it's bad to make people fight. That was an example in my life where i had a SICK SATISFACTION.

Your ex husband made 3 lives all destroyed!!

I think that sometimes when we hold grudges, it makes us do things that aren't so nice. I am sure that you feel for her family. She caused you hurt and destroyed your life at the time.

i completely understand you. it is very natural for you. say some peopel have really done damage to us. now when something bad happens, we think they are treated the actual way. it is such case.

Hell No!!! I think you have waited too ong to have a laugh at her expense. My ex also fooled around on me and the girl & I had serious issues, even beyond the affair. She was killed in an accident and I laughed my a$$ off. Mostly it was a release of repressed rage and the ironic karma. People get what they deserve, like it or not. Everything happens for a reason and our Higher Power will never give us more than we can handle. But, sometimes when we do harms against others, we add unnecessary things to our plate of karma and fate, which causes us to tip over. Then it's easier for destiny to bite us in the a$$. I do feel bad for her son, but he is probably better off without that kind of a person around. Now, that's crappy thinking. My karma plate is getting full.

I'd probably feel the same way but at the same time I'd feel guilty about it.

It might seem sick to someone who has never experienced real emotional pain. You are honest and thats the best way to be....

Okay...honestly its ugly. But I'm sure most of us can identify with these feelings. Especially if this particular scenario has happened to us. Your only human. You get a pass from me. Jus don't delight in it too long.

Ahhhh ~ Karma...We do get back from the world that which we put into it... Are you quite certain that the energies of anger & hurtfulness are what you'd like to receive for yourself ? Let it go ~ move on ~ heal...

Old hurts and grudges ...........you are entitled to your own feelings as long as you do NOT make more problems feeling guilty for having them. Think about it..has it finally gone away or just given you more emotional baggage. I buried the memory of an old nemesis of mine without the guilt by sending flowers.... ..to her grown children. Privately I felt sorry that the DEVIL would now have to put up with this evil excuse for a mother.

I have had feelings of someone suffering when I hate them. But, deep dow, I know it won't help my life if something bad happens to them. Conversely, I have been struck by a disabling and terminal disease which has taken away my ability to walk and talk. My life turned to hell since 4.5 years ago. I have lost everything, and I am just about destitute. I have to be cared for 24/7. There is no cure; at the end, I will be totally paralyzed, gasp for air, and die. They don't know what caused this, and it hits people at random, of all races and ethnic groups, and equally both genders. I really feel this is a punishment from G-d. I have to be honest and say that when I was healthy, I didn't appreciate what I had, and there were times I didn't care whom I offended to speak my mind and/or get what I needed. I often wonder if there is someone like you, someone who didn't like me, someone I offended in the past, who is snickering behind my back. I have even wondered if someone put a curse on me. But I just know there are people who see me in my wheelchair, unable to speak, my mouth and face all twisted, who laugh to themselves and say "ha ha, look at the b**** now! She was pretty, and now she's ugly" I would say to you what I would say to my enemies : If it makes you feel good to derive pleasure from someone else's misfortune, go ahead and enjoy it. But just the way it hit her out of the blue, something can happen to snuff you out too. Religious types are going to tell you how it is healthier for you to feel sympathy and pity, but how you feel is how you feel. Feel it and get it out of your system. Then, move on.

I think that woman got what she deserved. At least she got it in this life and not in the next. I think she took advantage of your ex and lured him with her charms. She would have gotten punished in hell, but at least she got a taste of what she has to go through in eternity. I would not be doing the happy dance, but I would still say she got punished. I never had feelings like that, but I have had, why can't something really bad happen to someone who deserved it, who was not repentant of the wrong they caused? And why can't the results happen to them now instead of waiting until they die? I got punished for the bad thing I did in this life and -well it never works out what you want. At least in your case it did.

Hmm. Well, never thought you had that in your Foxy. I don't look bad upon you for feeling this way, but it does show that you are still holding some bad feelings about the entire situation that went down so long ago. This advice is for no one but you Foxy. You should find a way to let go of those bad feelings. You have all grown up, she is gone. A grudge only hurts the container its held in, and you don't want to give this woman a hold on you from beyond the grave. You owe it to yourself Foxy, let it go.

Hi foxyfire, I agree that not everyone would laugh at such a situation, but not everyone would would be honest enough to admit it either. Many would feel as you do and pretend that they felt sorry about it. To be honest, I don't think that I could feel happy about something like that no matter what had been done to me,but that is just me, and we are all different. It is never easy to put the past behind us and move on,I know that from experience. You and your ex-hubby were very young at the time and I feel sorry for the eleven year boy, who has lost his mother. I don't think you are a bad person, you are just having a very hard time dealing with the wrong that was done to you. You were the victim and anyone would be angry,but someday you will be able to leave it behind you and I think you will feel better for it. Blessings.

no I dont think you are wrong. The day my wife's ex-husband is buried...I AM GOING TO PISS BUDWEISER ON THE BAST*RD'S GRAVE... Now I may have to be bailed out of jail...but it will be worth it...the only reason I haven't killed him already, or that anyone else hasnt for that matter, is because he isnt worth the time it would take me to put a bullet in him...otherwise I would have killed the piece of sh*t a few years ago..full stop...end of discussion...

Well Foxy, I don't usually respond twice, BUT I thought of a little song that sums this up nicely. Isn't it ironic? Don't you think? A little too ironic? And yeah I really do think... it's like rain - on your wedding day, a free ride - when you've already paid, it's the good advice that you just didn't take.. and who would have thought? It figures. "Ironic" ~ Alanis Morrissette I still don't think there's anything odd about your reaction. I have seen quite a few people who were respondents that I don't want anywhere near me though. LOL! I get the feeling they want to burn me at the stake for having a healthy sense of 'irony meets justice'.