Would you cry to threaten your boyfriend?
By yenwie84
@yenwie84 (1344)
Malaysia
August 17, 2008 8:33am CST
Sometimes,I cry to threaten my boyfriend when he is ignoring me or neglecting me,lol. I always use tears as my weapon,I would act like I am the most pitiful girl in this world in order to crave for his attention. Have you ever act like this before? Please share with me,have a nice day. Thanks.
4 responses
@lossforredwords (3620)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
I don't think that is a good thing to do.. its a bit unfair since tears is the best weapon a woman can have with this boyfriend which also can be use in a good and bad way... in your situation I think its a bit negative.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
20 Aug 08
This is no doubt just an emotional blackmailing my friend.You should never do this.It will get you into trouble later.What if your boyfriend gets tired of your drama?Instead of lovingly consoling you, he leaves you behind.I know, you don't mean anything bad, you just want his more attention and time, but my dear friend there can be some other better ways to attract his attention instead of playing tricks on him and crying like a baby.No guy would like to be with a crying baby.They want matured, understanding and fun loving girlfriend.So, my dear friend,stop crying and start acting as an adult.Be more understanding and instead of he pampering you all the time,showing you his love,why don't you do that instead for him?You are his girlfriend.He also deserve all your attention and love.Try it..my best wishes to both of you
@fulghum16 (90)
• Japan
17 Aug 08
no. it's manipulating. when the man gets the idea of him being manipulated, you'll be crushed to be busted. i always believe that it is wrong to have what you wanted through manipulation that will definitely cut through you. it's the same as lying.