How can you tell if she/he is cheating on you? (part II)

This is one of the reasons why I never give a romantic relationships a 2nd chance... Too many "what ifs"... If 2 people couldn't work things out while they were together, chances are, it won't be any different 2nd time around, most of the times even worse... I know there are few exceptions but they're far & few in between... Now, that being said, you know what they say, when in doubt, trust your instincts... What's really screwed up about all this is that you know you're being honest with her about everything, like business your ex, & you're not too concerned about what anybody else things, you know better... You can sleep at night knowing you have nothing to hide despite of what it may or may not look like to someone else... Your girl friend might feel the same way... Unless you're there 24/7, there's noway you can know about it... As much as it may & does "suck", you seem to be stuck with one of the 2 hard choices... Either take her words for what they are & play dumb or, & this is the hard part, trust your own instincts & let things go, including her... That's no way to live a life let alone have a relationship, constantly living with suspicions & mis-trust... Hate to be the cold one of the bunch but from the way it looks to me, the relationship is on it's full speed down the fast lane on a tube... Eventually, she's gonna get sick of you feeling the way you do, or at least with your accusations, weather she's really cheating or not... And you're gonna be sick of feeling the way you do, weather she is cheating or not... Instead of spending time what the normal couple should be doing, you are gonna get to the point where you guys are spending all your times wondering & trying to figure out what the other one is upto... Is that a type of relationship you wanna be in? I hope not... Believe me, I'm not here to ruin anybody's relationship & for that matter, you don't even really know me personally so I wouldn't blame you for brushing me off but at the same time, just few things to think about when you take a step back & look at the whole situation & where you see yourself going with this girl & where you wanna be... If you see yourself going some where you don't wanna be, time to cut the ties...

Alright my friend I have read all the way through this one and got to say ..... Kick her to the curb! You do indeed deserve better than this. She is indeed playing you. There are reasons why you two broke it off the first time. I suspect that these reasons still exist and now they are exacerbated by the lack of truth and the lack of trust. When you were apart you both played. It is to be expected and accepted. Neither of you were attached and both of you had the right. When you made the decision to come back together and form a new alliance you agreed to leave playtime behind and work together to reform your relationship. That means leaving behind any playmates you might have picked up during your downtime. Doesn't mean you have to expose your indiscretions to each other; first because they aren't her business or yours. It does mean though that you owe each other a clean slate. Playmates come off the call list and are notified of the change in status. Hanging out in bars as singles should not be part of game plan either. That is simply asking for trouble. I get that you are in the music industry and this adds a layer to the relationship. You and I have discussed this before. It takes a strong and self-confident woman to stand behind a man in this industry. It takes a strong man with a good moral compass to work in this industry and not give in. My husband and I work this issue all the time. The day I don't trust him is the day he isn't my husband any longer. The day he doesn't trust me with my travel schedule and weeks away from home is the day I am not his wife. The challenge is finding someone who hears you, feels you, sees you, and wants you for the man you are. Not for who you might be someday. Not for who they might make you. Not so they have arm candy. Not so they have bragging rights. But because when they are away from you for a hour they miss you. When you are brought low they can think of nothing but how to lift you up. When they are uplifted the first thing they do is reach to you so you are lifted with them. Someone who fears nothing so much as your unhappiness and yet will tell you what you need to hear for your success, even when it hurts. Someone who can sit in a room with you for hours and never say a word because even in silence they are never lonely. Someone who smiles just thinking about you. Someone who finds you attractive even at your worst minute. The challenge is that you must feel exactly the same way about them.

If your man is sneaking around, and if you ask him questions and he does not give you a straight answer, then yeah, he is probably cheating on you.

Hey Shamsta How are you? I was reading your problem with your girl and I am sorry that she is doing this to you your such a nice guy! That one person (I can't remember his name but he got best response) gave you some very good advice he sounds very wise. I just wanted to let you know that there is someone out there for you and someday you two will meet just hang in there and don't give up. Amberina.

Hi.I think that if you suspect something then you should probably figure out a way to find out whether its true.From what you've described,seems to me thatmaybe she's trying to hide something from you-for some reason.If she had bitter feelings about you workin with your ex that shes probably insecure even though you're not, now.You should sit down,have a nice talk,communicate and then go with your gut feeling.Sometimes what we see isn't the whole story so it can be deceiving.Find out the whole story.I don't know she sounds confused to me.Maybe she doesn't know what she wants or isn't ready to get back with you yet.I say you bring your doubts out in the open to her and hear what she has to say.Then accordingly take a decision.

easy to notice if your bf is cheating. he going to be cold on you. you will receive calls from him less than his usual. if he's with you, you will notice that his not with you. he looks like he's thinking something.